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Chabad Weekly Update - Purim Edition

Friday, 10 March, 2017 - 4:08 pm


Message from the Rabbi

Bernie and Abe were long-time partners in a highly successful clothing factory.

One day, Bernie decided to take a trip to Rome.

Abe had many catholic friends, and he managed to surprise Bernie by getting him an audience with the pope.

On his first day back at work after the trip, Abe asked, "So, Bernie, what kind of a man is the pope?" 

Bernie replied, "Hmm…I’d say he's a 44 regular."
Quite regularly I am asked why Judaism places so much emphasis on clothing. Why does the Torah spend the greater part of this week’s portion discussing the fine details of the garb of the High Priest? And why is it that the chasidim put so much emphasis on traditional dress? Shouldn’t they be more concerned about ethics, morality, spirituality,and inner growth, instead of dwelling on the externals?

Mark Twain once said, “Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society." In other words, we are primarily influenced by our externals. Many years earlier, the Rambam shared the very same idea in his defining work, the Mishneh Torah: “Being that man is a social creature, his personality is developed by his actions (externals) and not vice versa”.

Essentially, community, friends and external actions will ultimately influence our lives and determine who we are. Yes, on the surface,the way we dress seems to be of no significant consequence, but it plays a most prominent role in our lives.

The Torah understands human psychology all too well. It maintains that by dressing the part consistently, over a long period of time,eventually our “insides” will fall into place and align with the external garb.If we begin by simply dressing like a chasid, the true chasid within us will sure develop in due course.

  Volume 18 Number 23, 12th of Adar 5777, March 10th '17

Chabad Weekly Update - Purim Edition


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This week’s Kiddush is being sponsored by Steve and Linda Rivkin in Memory of Steve’s father Irving, Yitzchak ben Shmuel.  

Everyone is invited to join us for this beautiful weekly gathering.

Kiddush Sponsorship

If you have not sponsored a Kiddush for a while and/or if you have a birthday, anniversary, or perhaps a Yarzeit you wish to mark, please respond to this message.

Kiddush sponsorship begins at $180.


Special Shabbos THIS Week

This Shabbos, which is also Erev (the eve of) Purim is very special. It is called Shabbos Zachor, the Sabbath of Remembrance. We read the portion that tells how the hateful nation of Amalek attacked our people as they left Egypt. Why do we read this portion at this time? Because the wicked Haman, the man who sought to destroy our entire people, was a descendent of Amalek. It is considered a Mitzvah to listen to this portion. We hope to see you here!

Purim! Purim! Purim!

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This year’s Purim theme is “Purim in Mexico!” We figured if we are going to celebrate with our amigos from the south we better do it before they build the wall! Now, what will a Purim in Mexico Fiesta look like? It will be muy grande wonderful! Not only will we have plenty of authentic decorations, but perhaps more importantly we will have authentic Mexican food (muy deliciouso). Our master chefs of Mexican cuisine, led by the incomparable Kyla Perez, will create a truly delectable menu that will keep your mouth watering long after the meal is over. The meal will feature Posole, Pico de Gallo, Fajitas, a Beef and Vegetarian Taco Bar, Chips and Guacamole, and much more.

In addition to the great food we will have lots of Purim fun including, games, entertainment (aka games, pinatas, costume contests, and the Rabbi telling jokes), music, prizes, and so much more. PLEASE COME IN COSTUME! Yes indeed; costume parties are so much fun – so please dress up in your most hilarious costume (or not).

The Fiesta begins at 5pm on Purim Day, Sunday, March 12th. The cost to attend is $25 per adult and $10 per child (3-12). Reservations are necessary and are made by calling 760-943-8891 or by sending an email to Retired or active duty military are no charge.

Additional Purim Events:

Be sure to join us on Saturday night, March 11th at 7pm for our evening Megillah Reading and party. It too will be lots of fun as we ‘boo’ the wicked Haman. There will be special activities for the children. After the reading there will be some absolutely delicious Hamentaschen for everyone to enjoy! COME ONE, COME ALL and COME IN COSTUME!

Our regular Sunday morning Minyan will begin at 8:30am and include a Megillah and Torah reading.


For the very first time we are offering Purim 4 Kids (at our Educational Annex, 7740-E El Camino Real, Carlsbad) beginning at 9:30am and going till 12pm. This event will feature tons of activities for children and will be loads of fun! NO COST TO ATTEND! RSVP to

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Haftarah Thought

By: Gabbai Harold Reisman

Samuel 1  15:1-34    

When Purim falls in the following week, the usual Maftir and Haftarah are replaced. The replacement is Parshat Zachor and the Haftarah is from First Samuel. There is a Bat Kol (heavenly voice) that defines and categorizes the entire Haftarah: "Do not be a greater tzaddik than Hashem."  The battle against Amalek is unending and partial measures - no matter how liberal and "feel good," are both against the written law and counterproductive. As is stated, King Saul "took pity on Agag" and thought he meant well, but he did not follow the divine command given him. A lesson for all time and for all people.

Hold the Dates

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Wedding - Related Celebrations!

All women and girls are invited to join us on Saturday, March 11th following services and Kiddush for a Shabbat Kallah celebration in honor of the wedding of Muka Eilfort’s wedding. After the Kiddush there will be a beautiful gathering filled with joyous singing, games, and advice sharing for the bride to be.

Everyone (men, women, and children) are invited to join us on Friday, March 24th for a Sheva Brachos Shabbos celebration in honor of the newly married Rabbi and Mrs. Yossi and Muka Rodal. We will begin with a candle lighting ceremony at 6:30, then we will have the evening service followed by a sumptuous Shabbos feast. Please let us know that you are coming!

Everyone (men, women, and children) are invited to join us on Saturday, March 25th for a Sheva Brachos Kiddush Luncheon celebration in honor of the Rodals. A full lunch will be served and enjoyed following our weekly services, which begin at 10am.

A very special thank you goes out to the sponsors/hosts of these beautiful events:

Aaron and Naomi Alter

Beverly Galperin

Dovi and Malkie Gorelik

Channah Hale

Len Hyman

Levi and Tzippy Israel

Naftali and Chana Levy

Sheila Lebovitz

David and Anna Mintz

Roz Mintz

Edon and Shelly Moyal

Yehuda and Lerut Moyal

Kylah Perez

Gary and Leah Plavnick

Jonathan and Julie Rozansky

Sharon Silverstein

Michael Spinner

Arnold Tubis

Weekly Class Schedule

Daily Following Morning Services – Jewish Law with the Rabbi

Daily Following Morning Services – Tanya – Chabad Chasidic Philosophy with Rabbi Elia

Tuesday: Chasidic Philosophy – 7:30pm

Wednesday: Torah Portion of the Week – 7:30pm

Hebrew School This Week - Purim Party

CCHS logo small.jpgGive your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism.  Our students want to be here!

Special Wishes

CONDOLENCES are extended to the Rozansky Family upon the occasion of Sidney’s passing. May the Almighty comfort the family amongst the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. May we only know Smachot from here on out!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Devorah Leah Bridge, Ivan Jellinek, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Fiby Benchetrit, Raymonde Plant, Jo Nost, Esther bat Yaakov, Henry Harrar, Howard Plant, Bluma bas Avraham HaLevi, Feige bas Dov, and Avraham Markus on their Yarzeit.

May Fran Sekela and Roz Mintz be blessed with a full and complete recovery!


A Comm-Unity for You (and Me)


Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here!

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate

Need a Minyan?

minyan minion.jpgIf you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email your request.

Minyan Shaping Up

We are most proud to announce that our morning Minyan is looking good! In fact, we got a Minyan every day this week. The success is a direct result of the increase in our core group of committed participants. A daily Minyan is a very important service provided by a shul to its local community. Praying with a Minyan is considered a great Mitzvah as it helps our prayers effectiveness (ask the Rabbi for a more complete explanation). It also allows those who need to say Kaddish to do so properly.

We are facing a challenge, as in the coming weeks a couple of our regulars will be out of town (going to Yeshiva programs). We need a couple of more people to step forward and fill this gap to make sure we do not lose momentum. Can you make a commitment to our daily Minyan?

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at  Or you can find more information or book through our website: Follow the link for Visitor Information.

To date more than 400 people have used the Chabad code this year (2016)! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that will shortly be going up. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $360 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to, or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

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