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Chabad Weekly Update 29th of Sivan 5777, June 23 '17

Friday, 23 June, 2017 - 8:41 pm

Message from the Rabbi

Yehuda Avner often shared a conversation he had with the Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory, at the conclusion of a lengthy private audience.

"Let me tell you what I try to do," explained the Rebbe. "Imagine you're looking at a candle.What you really see is a lump of wax with a thread down its middle. When do the thread and wax become a candle? In other words, when do they fulfill the purpose for which they were created? When you put a flame to the thread. That's when the wax and thread become a candle.

lit match.jpg"The wax is the body, and the wick is the soul. Ignite the soul with the fire of Torah and a person will fulfill the purpose for which he or she was created. That is what I try to do–to ignite the soul of our people with the fire of Torah."

Avner then asked the Rebbe, "My candle–has the Rebbe lit it?"

"No," said the Rebbe. "I have given you the match. Only you can light your candle."

Next week marks the 23rd yahrtzeit (anniversary of passing) of the Rebbe. When reflecting on the Rebbe’s life and the movement that he built, one is immediately impressed his influence on world leaders. But as illustrated in this story, the Rebbe did not coerce or dictate his beliefs onto others. He lovingly helped them discover and act upon their own latent potential. As Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, former Chief Rabbi of Great Britain and the British Commonwealth, put it so eloquently:“Good leaders create followers. Great leaders create leaders. That was the Rebbe’s greatness. Not only did he lead, he was a source of leadership in others."

It is no coincidence that the Rebbe’s yahrtzeit usually falls out in close proximity to the week that the Torah portion of Korach is read. In this Torah portion, Moses'leadership, and indeed the need for leadership altogether, was fiercely challenged. It is leaders like Moses and the Lubavitcher Rebbe who demonstrate that effective leadership can bring out the best in others, thereby ultimately influencing the entire world.

While most of us are not leaders on a global scale, we can emulate the Rebbe's approach with those in our immediate sphere. By empowering others to make good decisions and pursue holiness, we can help elevate the world, bringing the ultimate Redemption ever closer.

  Volume 18 Number 37, 29th of Sivan 5777, June 23 '17

Chabad Weekly Update


Shabbos Rosh Chodesh THIS Week


This is a special week as Shabbat and Rosh Chodesh (the New Month) coincide. The significance of this relatively rare event will be discussed during services and at the Kiddush. The Hallel, which are special prayers of joy and thanksgiving, will be included, as will a very special prayers said on Rosh Chodesh that is considered a sign for a healthy income (now you don’t want to miss that!). Services on Shabbat begin at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30am or later). We hope to see you here!





Rabbis Out of Town from Monday – Thursday Afternoon



Classes Cancelled This Week (only)

Shabbos Kiddush Sponsor

Kiddush Cup

This week’s Kiddush is sponsored by the Alter Family in memory of Else Markus (Esther Bas Yosef) and Erna Berliner (Esther Bas Yaakov), Naomi’s grandmothers. It is being cosponsored by the Eilfort family in honor of Rivka and Yonah Fenton.

It is also being held in honor of the Rebbe’s Yarzeit, which comes out on Monday night and continues through Tuesday. We will have a special Farbrengen/Chasidic gathering on Shabbos to discuss the Rebbe and the blessings he brought, and continues to bring all of us.

Everyone is invited to join us for this beautiful weekly gathering.

Kiddush Sponsorship

If you have not sponsored a Kiddush for a while and/or if you have a birthday, anniversary, or perhaps a Yarzeit you wish to mark, please respond to this message.

Kiddush sponsorship begins at $180.


Jewish Art Calendar


We are now starting to collect ads for our gorgeous Jewish Art Calendars. Not only are the calendars lovely to look at, but they are full with information about Jewish holidays, special events, and even recipes! The special touch that we have is the personalization where we can add your own birthdays, anniversaries, or the Yarzeits of those you love.  We are also looking for a sponsor/dedication for this year’s calendar.

Participating in the calendar is an important way to support the Shul as well as advertise your business or personal event. Please call the office today for pricing information at 760-943-8891. The deadline for all orders is July 23rd!

BBQ Bounty & Steak Night

Our BBQ Bounty is back and it is going strong! People love the new salad bar and moon bounce for the children. For $18 per adult and $10 per child (3-12) people get a delicious all-you-can-eat Kosher experience! Burgers, hotdogs, hot wings, corn on the cob, fries, cotton candy and snow cones, are all available. Make your reservations here.


On select Thursdays throughout the summer beginning in July we will transform our breezeway and patio into a beautiful restaurant and serve the most delicious 16oz Bone-in Rib Steak ($36 per person) or Grilled Chicken ($20 per person). Please note that the prices are all inclusive (salad bar, sides, and drinks), and are actually less than most non-Kosher restaurants when comparing what is offered!  Advanced Reservations are required by calling 760-943-8891 or here.

New Membership Year: Time to Sign Up


Please note that our membership year ends on June 30th. If you made the commitment to be a member in the past year but have not yet paid your membership dues please come current immediately. You may contact the office to find out the status of your account or write to

Also, please note that the Chabad at La Costa Membership year begins on July 1stWe are asking that all of our friends and supporters fill out and return the Membership Application Form, which will be mailed in the near future as soon as possible.

We rely on Membership as the single most important source of revenue for our Jewish Center. If our shul has helped you or if you believe in what we are doing, please “make it official,” and become a Member. Remember, “Membership has its privileges!” Those who are already Members please accept are most sincere appreciation, and please send in your forms.

4th of July Celebration


We are truly blessed to live in this great country! Please join us in celebration as we host our annual 4th of July BBQ Spectacular from 7-10pm (Fireworks begin at 9pm sharp). Typically our parking lot gets filled up with friends and neighbors who wish to enjoy the BEST view of the Omni La Costa fireworks display. It is absolutely second to none! The cost is $18 per adult and $10 per child (3-12). The food will be great! The fireworks will be great! And best of all, the company will be great! Reserve today via email,  

Camp for Our Fabulous Super Juniors!

ActivitiesJuly 5th, 6th, and 7th we will be hosting a wonderful Camp for Kids! Bring your little ones for a safe and engaging experience from 11:30am – 2:30pm. The children will engage in play and learning in a wholesome atmosphere under the direct supervision of Morah Chaya and/or Morah Nechama. Camp will take place in our Educational Annex, 7740-E El Camino Real, Carlsbad. The cost is $25 per day. Scholarships and Family Discounts are available. Children 6 months – 3 years. Send an email for further information.

Haftarah Thought

By Gabbai Harold Reisman

Shabbat Rosh Chodesh Tammuz

Isaiah  66:1-24

This Haftarah is special since it is read on Shabbat Rosh Chodesh. It is the last chapter of the Book of Isaiah. The relevant verse in number 23 where on every New Moon and on every Shabbat, there will be recognition of the Master of the world and His laws. Elevated and key references to Jerusalem are noted. Essential and deep-seated belief are far more critical than rote sacrifice (and rote prayer). There is ultimate recognition that HaShem is the midwife of the "birth" of Israel.

Chazal, the Rabbis of blessed memory, note the importance of the Mincha/Afternoon prayer - it is a time of harsh judgment (noted in the Zohar). The month of Tammuz is an entire month of strict judgment. Special care and insight as well as depth of prayer are needed when reciting Mincha during the coming month. 

Weekly Class Schedule – Cancelled THIS Week (ONLY)

Daily Following Morning Services – Tanya – Chabad Chasidic Philosophy with Rabbi Elia

Tuesday: JLI Survival of a Nation – 7pm

Wednesday: Torah Portion of the Week – 7:30pm

Thursday (at Educational Annex): Read Hebrew America – 7pm

Special Wishes

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER The Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, William Magnes and Piri Jellinek on their Yarzeit.

May Fran Sekela and Roz Mintz be blessed with a full and complete recovery!


A Comm-Unity for You (and Me)

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here!

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please your request.

Minyan Shaping Up

We are most proud to announce that our morning Minyan is looking good! In fact, we got a Minyan every day this week. The success is a direct result of the increase in our core group of committed participants. A daily Minyan is a very important service provided by a shul to its local community. Praying with a Minyan is considered a great Mitzvah as it helps our prayers effectiveness (ask the Rabbi for a more complete explanation). It also allows those who need to say Kaddish to do so properly.

We are facing a challenge, as in the coming weeks a couple of our regulars will be out of town (going to Yeshiva programs). We need a couple of more people to step forward and fill this gap to make sure we do not lose momentum. Can you make a commitment to our daily Minyan?

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at  Or you can find more information or book through our Follow the link for Visitor Information.

To date more than 400 people have used the Chabad code this year (2016)! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family.The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $360 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email, or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

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Hauling the Junk Away with Victor

Victor Libraty has recently moved to Encinitas and has started a junk hauling and recycling business. Just in time for Pesach! If you have junk that needs to be removed call Victor at 760-815-7004. Tell him you saw his information in the Chabad Weekly Update!

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