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Volume 22 Number 25 | Nissan 6, 5781 | March 19th, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 25 | Nissan 6, 5781 | March 19th, 2021

 
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MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

This week we begin reading a new book of the Torah, Vayikra, which is also the name of the first portion in the book. The majority of the Book of Vayikra discusses the laws regarding the various sacrificial offerings brought in the Temple on a regular basis.

Today, in the absence of the Temple, we are taught that prayer was instituted in place of the offerings, and whenever a Jew prays it is as if he or she has offered the choicest sacrifice to G-d.

Prayer today occurs in both communal and private settings, similar to offerings that were brought on behalf of all of Israel and some that were brought by individuals for personal reasons. During the course of the pandemic, many of us have come to realize that prayer indeed happens in both settings, and even when we are not able to congregate as a community, we can still communicate with G-d through prayer.

G-d willing, with the end of the pandemic near, we will all once again be able to come together and pray, thanking G-d for His kindness, and pleading for the ultimate redemption with Moshiach!

Shabbat shalom.

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

Shul OPEN This Week (see details below)

The Shabbat before Passover is called Shabbat HaGadol, the Great Shabbat. On Shabbat HaGadol the Rabbi is mandated to review the laws of Passover. This year Shabbat HaGadol occurs next week, Erev Pesach. In such a case the Rabbi instead speaks about Passover preparation on the previous week, meaning THIS week.

A Word of Torah

Living with the Times
VaYikra – And He Called
What’s in an Alef? 
By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we begin the third of the Five Books of Moses, the Book of Leviticus, known in Hebrew as VaYikra. The portion begins by G-d calling to Moses, inviting him to enter the newly-completed Tabernacle, also known as the Tent of Meeting. The purpose of this meeting was so that the Almighty could explain the array of sacrifices that the Jewish people were commanded to bring for numerous different reasons. For instance there was one type of sacrifice brought for sins, another for peace offerings (to offer thanks), daily communal sacrifices, special sacrifices for Shabbat and Holidays, and many other reasons as well. 

The fact that this portion and Book of the Torah come third, meaning in the middle of the Five Books, and since it begins with the letter Vav, which means ‘And’, thusly connecting it the previous Books of the Torah, is an indication that this Book is the central theme of the Torah. These sacrifices are what it is all about. 

Lest anyone make a mistake it behooves us to understand the sacrificial service. The idea that one can sin and then sacrifice an animal in his place to make things ‘all better’ is absolutely false. Rather, we know that the animal that was sacrificed represented the inner animal each of us contends with, as we all have appetites and tendencies that are not G-dly. We harness our animalistic behaviors so that they may be used in the service of G-d instead of only serving ourselves, and we have thereby elevated a part of ourselves. We have revealed G-dliness where before there was only mundanity. When someone brought his or her sacrifice, in order for it to be effective it had to be brought with the right intent, known as Kavanah in Hebrew. Then, and only then, did the desired transformation of the individual take place. 

G-d determined upon a system that was meant to reveal the profound connection between the Creator and His choicest creation; humanity. When conveying these laws to Moses, G-d first invited Moses to ‘meet’ with Him. Our Sages tell us that is what is indicated by the use of the word VaYikra, and in fact was the method G-d used whenever He was going to communicate with Moses – He didn’t just start communicating. This is a term of endearment, as G-d Almighty loved communicating with His beloved Moses. 

The great commentator Rashi contrasts this with a similar word that was used when G-d communicated with the evil Bilaam – who sought to curse and destroy the Jewish people. Regarding Bilaam the Torah states that VaYakar, which means, “And He happened upon.” The way described indicates that it was almost like happenstance, and there was something akin to a measure of embarrassment for the Creator in His ‘meeting’ with Bilaam. 

One of Bilaam’s many flaws was his tremendous arrogance. In this regard he was the polar opposite of our hero Moses. Moses, in fact, was so humbled by his personal invitation to speak with G-d, that our Sages tell us, he used a small Alef at the end of VaYikra to demonstrate that he was humbled by the fact that G-d spoke to and through him. 
Incidentally, Alef, the first letter of the Hebrew alphabet, is quite instructive. Alef is connected to the word Alufo, which means The Chief (a reference to the Creator). We can also learn from the way the Alef is comprised, it has a Yud at the top, a Yud at the bottom, which are connected by a line. The Yud on top represents G-d, whose name begins with a Yud. The Yud at the bottom represents the Jewish people, whose name (Yisroel or Yehudi) begin with an Yud. And the line connecting G-d above and us below is the Torah and its commandments, and/or our faith in G-d. 

May we continue to look to our great Moses as an example for all of us! May we continue to be mindful that the Torah and Mitzvot, which he brought to us, are our lifeline and connection to G-d!  

Shabbat Shalom!

Haftarah Parshat VaYikra

Isaiah 43:21-44:23.
This week's haftorah starts with a rebuke to the Israelites for abandoning the Temple's sacrificial service. Sacrifices are the dominant topic of the week's Torah reading, too.
The prophet Isaiah rebukes the Israelites for turning away from G d and refraining from offering sacrifices, turning to idolatry instead. G d exhorts the people to return to Him, promising to forgive their transgressions, as is His wont.

The prophet then mentions the futility of serving empty idols which may be crafted by artisans but "neither see nor hear nor do they know…" The haftorah concludes with G d's enjoinder to always remember Him and to return to Him.

Weekly Sermon

Thursday @ 6pm on Facebook Live 
Join Rabbi Eilfort next Thursday night at 6pm on Facebook Live for his Weekly Sermon. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE Open for Services this Week | NO Soup & Challah this Week

Mazal tov! It's a BOY! 

We congratulate Rabbi Elia and Chaya Eilfort on the birth of their new baby. The Shalom Zachor will be celebrated TONIGHT from 8:00-9:30pm at the home of Rabbi Eilfort 7633 Rustico Dr. off Levante. Mommy and baby will NOT be in attendance. 

Bris will be celebrated on Tuesday morning at 11:00am at Chabad at La Costa 1980 La Costa Ave. More information to follow.

New Paroches Installed (And it is GORGEOUS!)

  Services @ Shul

As is consistent with new governmental guidelines services will be held in our sanctuary with air filters, social distancing, masks, and hand sanitizing. 

While here masks are required at all times, social distancing guidelines are followed, and frequent hand washing/sanitizing is encouraged.

We will continue to closely monitor the situation.

Passover Plans

Passover begins next Saturday night! If you need anything (handmade Shmurah Matzos, Seder to Go kit, catered meals etc.) please follow the link below. If you need a Seder to Go kit and are not able to pay for it just let us know. If you need anything else – just let us know!  

The entire Passover schedule as well as information regarding how to order your Seder to Go and/or Kosher catered Passover meals can be found by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Passover. 

IMPORTANT to note that NEXT Shabbos we will start services at 7:30am and the services will go quickly so we can conclude Davening in time to be able to finish eating Challah (or any other Chametz) no later than 10:49am.   

Rabbi's family is looking to borrow or rent an RV or trailer to park in front of their home as an extra bedroom for the duration of Pesach. Leads are appreciated.

Passover Schedule

Thursday, March 25, 2021
Fast of the First Born
Formal search for Chametz after nightfall

Friday, March 26, 2021
Light Shabbat Candles at 6:47pm
Say Blessings 1

Saturday, March 27, 2021
Eve of Passover
Morning Services: 7:30am
Eat Chametz until 10:49am
Flush Chametz by 11:51am

1st Seder Night
Light Candles* after 7:43pm
Say Blessings 2 & 4

Sunday, March 28, 2021
1st Day of Passover
Morning Services: 10am
Light Candles* after 7:44pm
Say Blessings 2 & 4

Monday, March 29, 2021
2nd Day of Passover
Morning Services: 10am
Holiday Ends at 7:44pm

Friday, April 2, 2021
Light Candles at 6:52pm
Say Blessing 3

Saturday, April 3, 2021
Seventh Day of Passover
Morning Services: 10am
Light Candles* after 7:48pm
Say Blessing 2

Sunday, April 4, 2021
Final Day of Passover
Morning Services: 10am
Yizkor Memorial Service: 11am
Passover Ends at 7:49pm

Note: Candle lighting times are for Carlsbad, US only. 
For other areas, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/times.

* Light only from a pre-existing flame.

NO Chicken Soup & Challah Delivered until after Pesach

We thank our generous sponsor!

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you. There will be no Challah and Soup until AFTER Pesach. If you can help with deliveries, reach out to Kayla or Nechama.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

During these are extraordinary times many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

A very special thank you goes out to our “Super Sponsor” Channah Hale who has continuously stepped forward helping us to maintain this service!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others. Thank you volunteer drivers - you can volunteer to deliver Soup and Challah!

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal   [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card   chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had  Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus... May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Ilyse Loven, Al Teshuba, Freida Fenton, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Zelda Coehn, Anne Schulman Osher, Rebecca Glovsky, Steven Beck, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

 

JLI Course - Journey of the Soul; A Fresh Look at Life, Death, and the Rest-in Peace

This is the most attended to Jewish course in the world. Find out why...click the image for more information.

6 Wednesday 2pm for seniors (special rate for this class). Starting Feb 17

Who hasn’t wondered what happens when we die? We know what happens to the body. But what happens to the soul at birth and again at death?

Is there really a “better” place after this one?
Do our loved ones continue to connect with us?
Can I relate to an afterlife if I’m not spiritual?

At once practical and powerful, reflective and relatable, Journey of the Soul teaches a Jewish perspective on life that begins before birth and lasts well after a person’s passing.

It’s a journey we all take, and it’s yours to explore this winter.

Learn more about available continuing education credit for medical and mental health professionals at www.myjli.com/continuingeducation

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

New Classes!

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We  love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to  [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. See article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: Pesach/Passover

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at  http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:  www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

PLEASE PATRONIZE OUR SPONSORS
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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

Rina Coleman is an Enrolled Agent with more than 20 years experience preparing taxes for all walks of life. Please contact her at [email protected] for a free 15 minute consultation.

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Center for Hormonal Health and Well-Being ">is a personalized, proactive, patient-centered medical practice with a unique focus on Integrative Endocrinology. Dr. Danielle Weiss takes a holistic approach to the patient and their health condition. She harnesses the physical, social, and spiritual aspects of healing. Dr. Weiss prides herself on spending time truly listening to your concerns and needs. She uses a team approach to develop a plan to address these issues together.     http://www.centerforhormonalhealth.com/

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Neal Sperling Business Development

Highly talented, highly experienced business development/marketing consultant to wide range of businesses and non-profits can help you to find innovative new ways to raise money, launch, brand, market, sell, merchandise, and promote your products, services, and organization. Has written and improved wide variety of business plans, marketing plans, obtained major grants/new funding for a wide variety of ventures. Has unique ability to study most any business, quickly and creatively identify new sources of potential revenue, reduce costs, increase efficiencies, and drive more sales in the quickest time frames. Recognized expert on how to drive new sales via the internet. Acclaimed speaker to Southern California business groups, and particularly known for being a great “connector” with ability to introduce you to a wide variety of hard-to-reach decision-makers in various fields. Strong background in consumer products, medical products, high tech, "clean tech," "green" products, non-profits, much more. Call for details: cell: 818-219-9585.

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Joseph Markowitz: 760-415-8742  [email protected]

Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoos

I am a small Jewish farmer running my business in La Costa  called Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoo. I arrive with my animals at little children's birthday parties, senior homes,  graduation parties, and resorts in the area, to share my love of animals. I also do animal therapy with children and adults. Fantastic!! Call me to make an appointment or set up a birthday party.

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Volume 22 Number 24 | Adar 28, 5781 | March 12th, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 24 | Adar 28, 5781 | March 12th, 2021

 
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MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

In addition to the regular Torah portion, this week we read the final of four special readings related to the current time of year: the establishment of the Jewish calendar in preparation for the holiday of Passover.

All Jewish holidays occur on particular dates, and these holidays include various laws and observances as commanded in the Torah (such as eating matzah and avoiding chametz on Passover, eating in a sukkah and shaking the lulav on Sukkot, avoiding work on the holidays, and so on), so we could assume that the dates of these holidays are also determined by G-d in the Torah.

But this Torah reading tells us that the opposite is true. The Jewish calendar is set by the Jewish people, based on when witnesses saw the new moon and testified as much in the courts. And when necessary, the courts would postpone hearing the testimony in order for the month to begin and end on predetermined dates. Even today, we follow a perpetually set calendar which was set by man, not G-d.

This is G-d’s reminder to us that He expects us to be a partner in His Torah and His creation. We have the divinely given tools and ability to bring G-dliness into the world we inhabit, and G-d depends on us, so to speak, to make spirituality a reality.

Shabbat shalom

SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE Open for Services this Week | NO Soup & Challah this Week

Boruch Dayan haEmess, we are saddened to share the news of the passing of Jeanne Detsky. More information will be shared as it becomes available. May Hashem comfort the mourners...

Shul OPEN This Week (see details below)

This week in honor of the Yarzeits of Raizel Fylah Eilfort (the Rabbi’s mother) and Norman Lebovitz (Sheila’s husband), there will be a cholent served after services. We hope that you can be here to say a blessing in their honor.

Rabbi Needs Minyan for His Mother’s Yarzeit Monday Night - Tuesday

Rabbi Eilfort needs a Minyan so he can say Kaddish for his mother on her Yarzeit, which is on Monday, March 15th at 6:30pm, Tuesday, March 16th at 8am and 6:30pm. If you are able to help with this Mitzvah it will be greatly appreciated! Please let us know by responding to this message. Thank you and G-d bless!

New Paroches Installed (And it is GORGEOUS!)

 

It's only ONE WEEK AWAY...RSVP here  


THURSDAY, MARCH 18, 7 PM

A Pre-Passover evening of song and inspiration 

Starring:
Rivky Wilshansky
Devorah Schwartz
Sonia Hershkowitz
Rivka Fenton

To receive the Zoom link please RSVP by contacting Muka Rodal at 760-809-2996. You can also RSVP and make your payment at www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/rsvp

$18 for tambourine, painting kit, dessert, and l'chaim delivered to your door.
$10 for a night of song and inspiration without package
Featuring our very own Rivka Eilfort Fenton  

PLEASE SHARE AND INVITE ALL GIRLS AND WOMEN TO JOIN.

Passover Plans

Passover is almost here! Join Rabbi Eilfort this coming Wednesday evening on Zoom at 7:15pm for a “How to make a Passover Seder at home” discussion. There is no charge to join, however, you must register by responding to this message. The Zoom link will then be sent to you.

The entire Passover schedule as well as information regarding how to order your Seder to Go and/or Kosher catered Passover meals can be found by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Passover.

Services @ Shul

As is consistent with new governmental guidelines services will be held in our sanctuary with air filters, social distancing, masks, and hand sanitizing. 

While here masks are required at all times, social distancing guidelines are followed, and frequent hand washing/sanitizing is encouraged.

We will continue to closely monitor the situation.

Chicken Soup & Challah Delivered

We thank our generous sponsor!

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you. There will be no Challah and Soup until AFTER Pesach. If you can help with deliveries, reach out to Kayla or Nechama.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

During these are extraordinary times many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

A very special thank you goes out to our “Super Sponsor” Channah Hale who has continuously stepped forward helping us to maintain this service!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others. Thank you volunteer drivers - you can volunteer to deliver Soup and Challah!

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

Living with the Times

Vayak’hel – ‘And He Gathered’ & Pikudei – ‘Accounts’

Parshat HaChodesh (The Sanctification of the Month of Nissan)

Shabbat Chazak (Conclusion of the Book of Exodus)

Shabbat Mevorchim (Bless the Upcoming New Month)

All for One and One for All!

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

 

A lot is happening this Shabbos! We have a double portion (described below), a special additional reading, called Parshat HaChodesh, in honor of the upcoming month of Nissan, which is the month that includes Passover. We conclude the Book of Exodus, which is when we proclaim, “Chazak! Chazak! Vi’nit’Chazaik!” (Stronger! Stronger! And we become stronger!) In other words, may we continue to grow in our Torah study!

It is also Shabbat Mevorchim – The Shabbat that we bless, so named because on the Shabbat before a new month (Rosh Chodesh), we add a special blessing for the upcoming month that it should be a month of redemption, of ingathering of the exiles, and that we should remember that we are all brethren. We ask that G-d should bless the upcoming month to be a month of life, and of peace, for gladness and for joy, for deliverance and for consolation.

There are so many things to think about and there is so little time. Let’s get cracking! 

This week’s Torah portions are titled Vayak’hel (And He Gathered) and Pikudei (Accounts). The first portion details the construction of the Tabernacle (Mishkan). And the second portion concerns itself mostly with the accounting of the project; the specific amounts of the various materials used in the construction of the Mishkan.

Question: Why is it necessary for the Torah to repeat the details of the construction? We know that every letter in the Torah is there for a specific reason. When an entire section is repeated there must be a very good reason for it.

Answer: Our Sages discuss this issue and explain that whereas previously the Torah tells of G-d’s commandment to build the Tabernacle, in this portion the Torah tells us that the Jewish people successfully executed the order.

Imagine the implications. Humanity is commanded to build a physical edifice that would serve as the ‘dwelling place’ of the Divine Presence. Humanity has the ability (and obligation) to transform mundane physicality into something that houses/reveals the Infinite! In our portion we see that the Children of Israel were successful in this incredible endeavor. Yes! It can be done. Every additional detail in the successful completion of this divinely mandated mission is yet another ‘feather in the cap’ of humanity, yet another demonstration of our G-dly potential and abilities.

Another Question: Why was it important for the Torah to detail all of the various materials used to the last silver Shekel (coin)?

Another Answer: Here the Torah is teaching us best practices in running a communal project. It is critical that we have transparency, our Rabbis teach. Even Moses, the greatest of all prophets, gave an exact accounting lest anyone suspect him of being anything less than completely transparent.

And the Final Question: The names of the portions seem to indicate opposite ideas in that Vayak’hel means to gather – emphasizing communal responsibilities and dynamics, while Pikudei means to give an accounting, which of course means counting each thing individually. Which is the most important aspect as demanded by Torah, the collective or the individual?

And the Final Answer: Yes. Yes, I said ‘yes.’ The truth is that both aspects are critical to our success. We must be mindful of our individual responsibilities and our communal responsibilities. In America there is an ongoing debate about our individual rights versus our communal responsibilities. Who should be entitled to what? Well, in Judaism we have a very different outlook. We do not ask to what are we entitled? Instead we ask what are my responsibilities to the community, family, friends, and of course G-d? This portion helps understand the balance we must strike between the individual and the community.

And perhaps this is why we read this before the month that includes Passover. It is high time to prepare ourselves for our communal and individual redemption. It is our collective responsibility to make sure that not even one individual is left behind! Our ultimate strength is achieved when individually we make sure we are doing all in our power to insure the unity of all of us, together!  

Shabbat Shalom!

Haftarah Parshat HaChodesh

Ezekiel 45:18-46:15.

This special haftorah is a prophecy regarding the Paschal Offering that will be brought during the Messianic Era, reflecting the theme of the Hachodesh Torah reading—Moses' command to the Israelites in Egypt to prepare and bring the Paschal lamb.

This haftorah is part of Ezekiel's prophecy regarding the third Holy Temple—its structure, inauguration and some of the practices that will be observed therein.

The haftorah begins with a description of the various sacrifices that will be offered during the Temple's seven-day inauguration ceremony, and then mentions that on the 14th of Nissan we shall bring the Paschal offering.

Much of the rest of the haftorah is devoted to the sacrifices that will be brought by the "leader," and prescribes his entry and exit from the Temple.

Weekly Sermon Thursdays @ 6pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort next Thursday night at 6pm on Facebook Live for his Weekly Sermon. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal   [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card   chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had  Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus... May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Neil Mintz, Linda Coulson, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Norman Lebovitz, Sophie Mintz, Leah Belfer, Raizel Fylah Eilfort, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

 

JLI Course - Journey of the Soul; A Fresh Look at Life, Death, and the Rest-in Peace

This is the most attended to Jewish course in the world. Find out why...click the image for more information.

6 Mondays at 7pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers). Starting Feb. 1
6 Wednesday 2pm for seniors (special rate for this class). Starting Feb 17

Who hasn’t wondered what happens when we die? We know what happens to the body. But what happens to the soul at birth and again at death?

Is there really a “better” place after this one?
Do our loved ones continue to connect with us?
Can I relate to an afterlife if I’m not spiritual?

At once practical and powerful, reflective and relatable, Journey of the Soul teaches a Jewish perspective on life that begins before birth and lasts well after a person’s passing.

It’s a journey we all take, and it’s yours to explore this winter.

Learn more about available continuing education credit for medical and mental health professionals at www.myjli.com/continuingeducation

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

New Classes!

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We  love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to  [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. See article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: Pesach/Passover

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

Rina Coleman is an Enrolled Agent with more than 20 years experience preparing taxes for all walks of life. Please contact her at [email protected] for a free 15 minute consultation.

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Volume 22 Number 23 |Adar 20, 5781 | March 4, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 23 |Adar 20, 5781 | March 4, 2021
 
B"H
 
MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

In addition to the regular Torah reading, this Shabbat we will also read a portion describing the laws of the parah adumah, the red heifer.

The purpose of the completely red heifer was to purify anyone that had come in contact with a dead body. In addition to waiting a period of seven days and immersing in the mikvah, before being allowed to enter the Temple the person had to be sprinkled with a mixture of water and the red heifer’s ashes.

There is much symbolism in the laws of the red heifer, even if we aren’t told the reason for this particular ritual. Among the things that stand out is that several of the people involved in preparing the mixture themselves became impure and needed to immerse in the mikvah too. The message being, that sometimes in order to help others—materially but also spiritually—you need to get a little dirty yourself.

This is the level of commitment expected of every single Jewish person: ahavat Yisrael, love for your fellow, applies not only when it’s convenient but even when it hurts. And when you feel it, that’s how you know it is effective. That’s how you know you are reaching the one that needs the help.

May this dedication we have for our brethren bring the ultimate purification for the entire Jewish nation, with the coming of Moshiach today.

Shabbat shalom!

SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE NOT Open for Services this Week | NO Soup & Challah this Week

Please note: Rabbi Eilfort was in proximity for more than 15 minutes with someone last Sunday who later tested positive for Covid on Monday night. Therefore, out of an abundance of caution, Rabbi is self-quarantining. He has been tested repeatedly and continues to test negative, and will continue to get tested for the recommended amount of time. G-d willing, we will reopen next Shabbos. We are very sorry for the inconvenience! 


Services @ Shul 
When we reopen next Shabbos, and as is consistent with new governmental guidelines services will be held in our sanctuary with air filters, social distancing, masks, and hand sanitizing.  
While here masks are required at all times, social distancing guidelines are followed, and frequent hand washing/sanitizing is encouraged.
We will continue to closely monitor the situation. 

NO Chicken Soup & Challah This Week - We thank our generous sponsor! 

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you. There will be no Challah and Soup for the next few Fridays due to the nearness of Pesach. 

For the future when we resume: If you can help with deliveries, reach out to Kayla or Nechama.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

A very special thank you goes out to our “Super Sponsor” Channah Hale who has continuously stepped forward helping us to maintain this service!

Postponed till after Passover:
We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others. Thank you volunteer drivers - you too, can volunteer to deliver Soup and Challah!

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:
Next week’s Loaves of Love.
Next week’s Chicken soup.
Next week’s Torah classes.

Note About Sponsorships
You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

Living with the Times

Ki Tisa – When You Will Count
Mirror, Mirror, on the Wall…
By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week’s Torah portion is titled Ki Tisa, which means when you will count. This portion touches on several interesting topics, each worthy of an essay. The dominant story is certainly the construction of the infamous golden calf. Before focusing on that terrible sin, nothing less than idol worship a few short weeks after having received the 10 Commandments no less, it behooves us to briefly discuss the last of the furnishings of the Tabernacle described in our portion.

The Cohanim (priestly class) was given a very strict commandment to wash their hands and feet using the laver before entering the Holy Temple to do their service. The implement that they used to wash was called the Kiyor, and it was made of copper. The commentaries mention the source of the copper used, which in and of itself is interesting, as only a couple of the sources for the materials used in construction are traced back to their origins. This indicates that there is something significant in the source of the material.

In the case of the Kiyor the source, we are told, was the mirrors used by the Jewish women to beautify themselves during the times of the Egyptian slavery. The men would return from a day of back-breaking labor in the fields. They were physically and emotionally exhausted. These selfsame people had seen their babies murdered. Marital intimacy was the last thing on their minds. In fact, they were reticent to have any more children at all, lest they too become victimized by the evil tyrants.

Yet the women knew better. They understood that if, G-d forbid, the Jewish people would stop having children, the fate of our people would be sealed. No! They could not and would not allow this to happen. They had faith in Almighty G-d that He would redeem the Children of Israel, and that they had to do their part to make sure there would be a Jewish people to redeem. They used their mirrors to beautify themselves and to playfully entice their husbands so that they could procreate. 

There are many who would posit that it is inappropriate to use copper from these mirrors to construct the Kiyur, which was used to cleanse the hands of the priests on their way to do the service. Actually, however, we find that the opposite is true. We do not view marital intimacy as something dirty or low, G-d forbid! In fact, when the guidelines of Torah law are followed it is a beautiful and intensely holy Mitzvah – the cohabitation of a man and woman who love each other and their Creator. It can be argued that this is the most G-d-like act we are capable of, as this is how we create new life.

The uniquely human ability to engage in this most-physical of activities while keeping in mind our love of the Almighty as well as each other, is the greatest display of the subliminal level of divinity found within each of us. We (and only we) have the ability to sanctify the physical act of love. It is not simply relegated to animalistic instinct. It is not only to serve ourselves. It is so powerful that it serves as a metaphor as to how we similarly elevate everything we encounter in the physical world. In this regard it is the ultimate fulfillment of our mandate, given to us by our all-powerful Creator, which is to reveal the G-dly in every aspect of physicality.

Later in the portion we see the most precious of items, gold, degraded in its use in a false deity. Here we have a relatively much less valuable item, originally used for a very ‘physical’ purpose, repurposed to be a source of ultimate cleansing. This demonstrates clearly that we are empowered to instill value in the physical world. Clearly our intent makes all the difference.

Now our job is to elevate the physical universe and to reveal the G-dliness that is currently concealed within it. If one is in a dark house one has but to raise the window shades to allow the light of the sun to stream in and transform the dark atmosphere to light. The sun is there. The only question is if we will choose to raise the shades or not? Let’s raise the shades!

Shabbat Shalom!

Haftarah Parshat Parah

Ezekiel 36:16-36.

This week's special haftorah mentions the "purifying waters" that G‑d will sprinkle upon us with the coming of Moshiach. This follows the theme of this week's additional Torah reading — the purifying qualities of the "Red Heifer."

The prophet Ezekiel transmits G‑d's message: The Israelites have defiled the Holy Land with their idol-worship and immoral ways. As a result, they will be sent into exile. "And they came to the nations where they came, and they profaned My Holy Name, inasmuch as it was said of them, 'These are the people of G‑d, and they have come out of His land.'" So G‑d will take them out of their exile — but not by virtue of the Israelites' merits: "Not for your sake do I do this, O house of Israel, but for My Holy Name, which you have profaned among the nations."

G‑d will bring the Israelites back to the Holy Land and purify them with the waters of the Red Heifer. The people will feel ashamed of their actions, and after they will have undergone the process of purification and repentance, G‑d will rebuild the country and bestow upon it prosperity and bounty.

"I will resettle the cities, and the ruins shall be built up. And the desolate land shall be worked, instead of its lying desolate in the sight of all that pass by. And they shall say, 'This land that was desolate has become like the Garden of Eden, and the cities that were destroyed and desolate and pulled down have become settled as fortified [cities].'"

Weekly Sermon Thursday @ 6pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort next Thursday night at 6pm on Facebook Live for his Weekly Sermon. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America) [email protected]

5. Personal credit card  chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had  Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus... May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Hadassah Rozansky, Bobby Ghear, Ivan Jellinek, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to Yonah & Rivka Fenton, Yossi & Muka Rodal, and all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Milton Sacks, Charles Mintz, Bertha Stern, Eleanor Coulson, Frieda Weksler, Norman Lebovitz, Sophie Mintz, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

 

JLI Course - Journey of the Soul; A Fresh Look at Life, Death, and the Rest-in Peace

This is the most attended to Jewish course in the world. Find out why...click the image for more information.

6 Mondays at 7pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers). Starting Feb. 1
6 Wednesday 2pm for seniors (special rate for this class). Starting Feb 17

Who hasn’t wondered what happens when we die? We know what happens to the body. But what happens to the soul at birth and again at death?

Is there really a “better” place after this one?
Do our loved ones continue to connect with us?
Can I relate to an afterlife if I’m not spiritual?

At once practical and powerful, reflective and relatable, Journey of the Soul teaches a Jewish perspective on life that begins before birth and lasts well after a person’s passing.

It’s a journey we all take, and it’s yours to explore this winter.

Learn more about available continuing education credit for medical and mental health professionals at www.myjli.com/continuingeducation

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

New Classes!

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We  love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein
Anonymous 3

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. See article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: Tzedakah

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

Rina Coleman is an Enrolled Agent with more than 20 years experience preparing taxes for all walks of life. Please contact her at [email protected] for a free 15 minute consultation.

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Volume 22 Number 22 |Adar 13, 5781 | February 25, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 22 |Adar 13, 5781 | February 25, 2021
 
B"H
 
MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

We've all been wearing masks for nearly a year now. But no date on the Jewish calendar is more about masks than the 14th of Adar, the holiday of Purim.

Costumes and masks have been part of Purim celebrations for centuries, commemorating G-d's hidden hand behind the events leading up to the great miracle. While the Jews believed that G-d would save them, not always was it apparent. And even when things did turn around, much of the miracle was still hidden behind a veil of natural occurrences.

We remind ourselves every year that G-d is always behind the scenes, but we also pray that His hand becomes apparent, that the mask be removed allowing us to witness G-dliness in its true glory.

And this year we also pray for an end to the pandemic and the removal of our own masks!

Shabbat shalom and happy Purim!

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

Living with the Times

Tetzaveh – And You Shall Command

Hiding in Plain Sight

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week’s Torah portion is titled “Tetzaveh”, which means “And you shall command.” The ornate, unique, and exquisite garments designated for the priestly class in general, and the high priest in particular, are described in detail. This portion dovetails perfectly with last week’s portion of Terumah, which spoke about the furnishings of the Tabernacle/Mishkan. We now have a fairly clear idea of how the Tabernacle would look and the uniform of those who served inside of it. When we reach the Book of Leviticus we will see how G-d was to be served in the Mishkan.

Sometimes we can learn more by what we don’t see than what we do see. This portion may be a perfect example, as the name of Moshe does not appear. This is very strange! Moshe is the “you” in the, “And YOU shall command,” at the outset. There is no doubt that he is an integral part of this week’s narrative. In fact, Moses’ name appears in every portion from the time he enters the picture at the beginning of the Book of Exodus until the final portion in the Book of Deuteronomy. So profoundly is Moses associated with the Torah that the Torah itself is called the Torah of Moses. 

Why is his name omitted in this portion?

We have to look a few weeks ahead to find the answer. In the portion of Ki Tisa (When you will count), we encounter the sobering story of the infamous Golden Calf. By way of a reminder: When Moses ascended on Mount Sinai to receive the Torah the Jewish people miscalculated when he was due to return. When he was ‘late’ some of them quickly despaired of Moses ever returning, feeling that G-d had abandoned them (G-d forbid!), and therefore eagerly sought something they could point to as their new leader. Tragically they built the Golden Calf. Evidently you could take the people out of Egypt, but taking Egypt out of the people was a bit more time consuming.

The Almighty was ready to wipe out the people and start fresh with Moses, who would serve as the founder of G-d’s new “Chosen People.” Moses refused. In fact he insisted that the Creator forgive the people this terrible trespass, or else, he threatened, “Take my name out of Your book!” Moses argued that if G-d could not forgive (even) this sin, Moses wanted no part of the whole enterprise going forward. Of course this is precisely the character trait that G-d wanted Moses to display. Moses had been chosen because he was a tireless advocate for and defender of the Jewish people.

Nevertheless, Moses had uttered the words that his name should be taken out of the Torah (if G-d would not forgive the people). Even though G-d did forgive the people a decree of a righteous person of Moshe’s stature has a residual effect, and so his name is omitted from our portion.

This particular year we have an interesting flow of the calendar, as the Holiday of Purim flows directly into the Shabbat when this portion is read. There is something extraordinary about the Book of Esther, which differentiates it from all other books of the Bible (TaNaCh – Five Books of Moses, Prophets, and Writings). Megillat Esther is the only book in the Bible in which G-d’s name does not appear! When one reads the Megillah, from cover to cover, one discerns G-d’s profound involvement. We see how the Almighty is actually in charge of everything. Ironically we only fully appreciate G-d’s involvement after the fact.

It is telling that the holiday that commemorates a vast G-dly miracle without mentioning G-d’s name is attached to a portion that describes numerous commandments conveyed through Moshe without mentioning his name.

This seems to be indicating to us that we need to be analytical in our outlook of the world. Not always is what we see on the surface is the whole story. Many times a superficial understanding is misleading. We are depriving ourselves of a much deeper appreciation of how G-d interacts with us when we neglect to dig deeper. The same can be said regarding our grasp of the presence of Moses throughout the Torah. Even when not mentioned by name we must know that Moses is right there. Even when we feel lost in the dark the fact is that G-d is present with us.

Ultimately we should realize that just like in the Purim story the situation changed radically, from utter destruction to complete salvation, in the blink of an eye. That is exactly what we should all be awaiting as we prepare for the immediate arrival of our Righteous Moshiach!  

Chag Same’ach and Shabbat Shalom!

 

Haftarah Parshat Tetzaveh

Ezekiel 43:10-27.

In this week's haftorah, the prophet Ezekiel describes a vision of the altar that will be built for the third Holy Temple and its dedication ceremony—paralleling this week's Torah portion which discusses the dedication of the Tabernacle's altar.

Shortly after the destruction of the first Temple, Ezekiel experienced a vision of the third Holy Temple that will be built by the Messiah. G‑d tells Ezekiel to recount to the Jewish people this vision, and this hopefully will bring them to be ashamed of the deeds they did that caused the destruction of the Temple. "And if they are ashamed of all that they have done, let them know the form of the House and its scheme, its exits and its entrances, and all its forms, and all its laws and all its teachings..."

Ezekiel then goes on to describe in detail the third Temple's altar, and also describes its seven-day inauguration ceremony and the offerings which will be brought on each day of that special week.

Postponed this Week due to Purim - Weekly Sermon Thursdays @ 6pm on Facebook Live

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SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE Open for Services this Week | NO Soup & Challah this Week

Purim TONIGHT - TOMORROW!

The joyous holiday of Purim is this evening through Friday. There are numerous Mitzvos (commandments) associated with the holiday.

Purim Schedule

Fast of Esther: Thursday, 2/25, 5:04am – 6:09pm

PURIM Evening (Megillah Reading at Shul) – Thursday, 2/25, 6pm

PURIM Day Friday, 2/26, 8am (Services with Megillah Reading)

PPP!!! (Purim Pickup Party – Live Concert on Our Purim Pickup starring Rabbi Yossi) @ 10am

Second Megillah Reading at Shul @ 11am

Purim Feast (Banquet in a Box made of Bagel & Lox) Available at shul from 10am-12pm

Services @ Shul

As is consistent with new governmental guidelines services will be held in our sanctuary with air filters, social distancing, masks, and hand sanitizing. 

While here masks are required at all times, social distancing guidelines are followed, and frequent hand washing/sanitizing is encouraged.

We will continue to closely monitor the situation.

Chicken Soup & Challah Delivered

We thank our generous sponsor!

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you. There will be no Challah and Soup next Friday due to Purim, but the following week they will be available to help you celebrate Shabbat in the most delicious way possible. If you can help with deliveries, reach out to Kayla or Nechama.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

During these are extraordinary times many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

A very special thank you goes out to our “Super Sponsor” Channah Hale who has continuously stepped forward helping us to maintain this service!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others. Thank you volunteer drivers - you can volunteer to deliver Soup and Challah!

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal   [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card   chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had  Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus... May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Joe Markowitz, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to Yonah & Rivka Fenton, and all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Raymonde Plant, Fiby Benchetrit, Sam Gelbart, Jacob Reisman, Henri Harrar, Esther bat Yaakov, Elsie Epstein, Avraham Markus, Howard Plant and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

 

JLI Course - Journey of the Soul; A Fresh Look at Life, Death, and the Rest-in Peace

This is the most attended to Jewish course in the world. Find out why...click the image for more information.

6 Mondays at 7pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers). Starting Feb. 1
6 Wednesday 2pm for seniors (special rate for this class). Starting Feb 17

Who hasn’t wondered what happens when we die? We know what happens to the body. But what happens to the soul at birth and again at death?

Is there really a “better” place after this one?
Do our loved ones continue to connect with us?
Can I relate to an afterlife if I’m not spiritual?

At once practical and powerful, reflective and relatable, Journey of the Soul teaches a Jewish perspective on life that begins before birth and lasts well after a person’s passing.

It’s a journey we all take, and it’s yours to explore this winter.

Learn more about available continuing education credit for medical and mental health professionals at www.myjli.com/continuingeducation

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

New Classes!

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

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For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We  love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. See article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: Tzedakah

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

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