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Volume 22 Number 35 | Sivan 17, 5781 | May 28, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 35 | Sivan 17, 5781 | May 28, 2021

 
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CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES

LIGHT CANDLES AT 7:33 PM  -  Friday, May 28
SHABBAT ENDS 8:34 PM  -  Shabbat, May 29

MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

In this week's Torah portion we read about the first time the Jews observed the holiday of Passover as a free nation.

That first Passover was on a Saturday night, which means that the Passover offering had to be prepared earlier in the day, on Shabbat.

Ordinarily, only communal offerings were permitted on Shabbat, and the Passover offering was a personal offering, since each family or several families together brought and partook in their own offering. Nevertheless, since all Jews were bringing the offering at the same time, the Passover offering had a communal element to it and was therefore allowed to be prepared on Shabbat.

This serves as a reminder that all communities are made up of individuals. You cannot have a community without the individual people in it. And every individual must remember that although he or she is just one person, we are all part of the bigger picture and we are never truly alone.

May G-d protect our brothers and sisters in the Holy Land, and all over the world!

Shabbat shalom.

 
 SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE Open for Services this Week - Soup & Challah info included

Kiddush Sponsor(s)

This week’s Kiddush is being sponsored by Channah Hale in honor of her birthday (MAZEL TOV, CHANNAH!). It is being co-sponsored by Len Hyman in memory of his mother, Esther Hyman, on her Yarzeit.

Minyan Needed

Gentlemen,

A Minyan for Mincha/Maariv (afternoon and evening services) is needed on Thursday, June 3rd at 7:30pm, so Kaddish can be recited. We are still a couple of volunteers short. If you are able to help with this Mitzvah please respond to this message. The service will take about 30 minutes.

Thank you and G-d bless!

Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul

We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.

Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows.

Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions.

Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage.

If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!

THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation.

New Guidance from the CDC

Baruch Hashem, life is getting back to normal. The CDC has released new guidelines that state that those who have been fully vaccinated do not have to wear masks indoors. With this being said we still encourage those who come to our shul to wear masks. If you are sick please do NOT come to shul until you feel better. If you have not yet been fully vaccinated please maintain your social distancing. Everyone should be mindful of what they touch and wash their hands regularly. We are asking everyone to be on the honor system. If you have not been fully vaccinated please act according to the rules previously stated.

We have resumed the weekly Kiddush (Yay!!!). Those who wish to sponsor a Kiddush should reach out. Basic Kiddush sponsorship starts at $180 and goes up depending on how elaborate the menu. We will practice additional safety protocols so as to ensure an appropriate environment for the Kiddush.

Soup and Challah Going Forward

We will still be offering Soup and Challah to those who request it. We will not be delivering it if no request was made. Often times we will need people to pick it up themselves from shul, depending on the volunteer drivers’ status. Our focus is now to have people join us at shul so we can enjoy Kiddush TOGETHER!

Our A Team is busy preparing Challahs for the community as this is being written (and THANK YOU to our amazing donors for making that happen!). However, we are facing a big challenge as we need angels to deliver the fruit of our ovens to our hungry constituents. If you are ready, willing, and able to assist please respond to this message or contact the Rebbetzin to volunteer ASAP. G-d bless you!

*Limited Soup and Challah this week. Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you. There will be Challah and Soup. If you can help with deliveries, reach out to Kayla or Nechama.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

A very special thank you goes out to our “Super Sponsor” Channah Hale who has continuously stepped forward helping us to maintain this service!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others. Thank you to our amazing volunteer drivers - you can volunteer to deliver Soup and Challah!

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

A Word of Torah
Living with the Times

Parshat Be’Haloticha – When You will Ascend (to light the Menorah)

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

 

This week is Parshat Bi'ha'loh'ticha, which begins with the Mitzvah of lighting the Menorah. This special and symbolic Mitzvah was given to Aharon HaCohen and his children. When thinking about this portion it occurred to me that there are some powerful messages that can be applied to marriage, as this week I celebrate my 33rd wedding anniversary.  

Although the Menorah had seven branches it was crafted from one piece of gold. Even with all of its beautiful decorations and ornaments it all came from one single piece. When the Menorah was lit each day all of the wicks pointed towards the center. 

Another interesting thing about our portion. The commentaries tell us that the wording of the Torah informs us that when they lit the Menorah, they had to hold the flame in place and until each individual wick would stay lit on its own. They couldn't pull away the source of the flame before it really took hold on the new wick.

Finally, we see that they made a special step that the Cohen would stand on while lighting the Menorah. 

I think all of these details have a very powerful message for a married couple. 

Regarding the numerous branches all emanating from the same single piece of gold we see that although a couple certainly has different pursuits in their jobs and hobbies they must always remember that they are from one shared soul. No matter what happens that is something that they have always available to them. The couple should always remember that they share their soul. They are truly one in the most profound way possible!  

Regarding lighting the Menorah by keeping the flame in place a couple certainly finds that there will be times when one or the other will demonstrate support for each other. They should be each other's biggest fan! The support that they offer should be offered in such a way that it is held in place until it takes hold and then the light will not be extinguished. A couple must be continual in its mutual support! 

Finally, lighting the Menorah, or in this case lighting up the world by being a strong, Jewish couple, is an honor and privilege. When approached this way we honor our heritage. Our people have always been experts in Hachnasat Orchim - having lots of guests and doing lots of Mitzvot! It is the biggest merit for us as human beings to fulfill these Mitzvot. When a couple gets married they formalize their commitment to each other and to G-d, and they quickly come to realize that together they can accomplish so much more than either can individually. Make sure that G-d is a partner in your home! 

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Parshat Bi'ha'loh'ticha

Zechariah 2:14-4:7.

This haftorah contains a vision of the golden Temple Menorah, whose daily kindling is discussed in the opening of this week's Torah reading.

This prophecy was communicated by Zechariah shortly before the building of the Second Temple. The haftorah opens with a vivid depiction of the joy that will prevail when G‑d will return to Jerusalem: "Sing and rejoice, O daughter of Zion, for, behold! I will come and dwell in your midst, says the L-rd."

The prophet then describes a scene in the Heavenly Court: Satan was seeking to incriminate Joshua, the first High Priest to serve in the Second Temple, because of the "soiled garments" (i.e. sins) he was wearing. G‑d himself defends the High Priest: "And the Lord said to Satan: The Lord shall rebuke you, O Satan; the Lord who chose Jerusalem shall rebuke you. Is [Joshua] not a brand plucked from fire?" I.e., how dare Satan prosecute an individual who endured the hardships of exile? "And He raised His voice and said to those standing before him, saying, 'Take the filthy garments off him.' And He said to him, 'See, I have removed your iniquity from you, and I have clad you with clean garments.'"

G‑d then proceeds to outline the rewards awaiting Joshua if he and his descendents follow G‑d's ways. The ultimate reward is, "Behold! I will bring My servant, the Shoot, " an allusion to Moshiach, the Shoot of David.

Zechariah then describes a vision of a golden seven-branched Menorah. An angel interprets the meaning of this vision: "This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel [descendent of King David, one of the protagonists in the building of the Second Temple], 'Not by military force and not by physical strength, but by My spirit,' says the Lord of Hosts." Meaning that Zerubbabel's descendent, Moshiach, will have no difficulty in his task, it will be as simple as lighting a menorah.

Weekly Sermon

Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort next Friday afternoon at 5pm on Facebook Live for his Weekly Sermon. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

Please note that next week (and only next week, the sermon will be given on Friday at 2pm.

 

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal   [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card   chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus & the violence in Israel! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

MAZEL TOV to the Joseph Family on the occasion of David’s wedding to Anna!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to  Aaron Alter, Naomi Alter, Sharyn Hale, Jacob Rozansky, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Sadie Green, Sharon Perlow, Julius Detsky, Heshel Howard, Florrie Lieberman, Maish Goretsky, Esther Hyman, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz, be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Classes!

Tanya - Ancient Wisdom for Modern Life (Daily)

Join Rabbi Eilfort every morning on Facebook at 8am. Watch Live or watch the recording later in the day.

Caffeine for the Soul (Mondays)

Join Muka Rodal on Facebook every Monday at Noon. Watch Live or watch the recording later.

Hebrew Reading (Mondays)

Learn to read Hebrew in time to Receive the Torah on Shavuot. Mondays, 7pm sign up at www.chabadatlacosta.com/RHA. These classes are on Zoom and are recorded, we can share the recordings as requested.

JLI Course - This CAN Happen - Moshiach (Tuesdays)

Course Overview

For thousands of years, the prophecies of a “messianic age” stretched the imaginations of even the most fervent believers.

Not anymore.

Instant media, mass social movements and a global pandemic have shown us how suddenly and radically the world can be rewired by the actions of a few.

Why not for the good?

Join us to demystify the Jewish idea of a perfect world and discover a practical path for reaching it in our lifetime.

To sign up: https://www.myjli.com

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review (Wednesdays)

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101) (Wednesdays)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

 

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein
Anonymous 3

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to  [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: 

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the Chabad code when booking.

More than 600 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

For discount details, to make your reservation, or to share the information with a friend, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/omni and click through. And remember to leave a positive review.

PLEASE PATRONIZE OUR SPONSORS
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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

Rina Coleman is an Enrolled Agent with more than 20 years experience preparing taxes for all walks of life. Please contact her at [email protected] for a free 15 minute consultation.

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Whether you are Selling, Buying or Refinancing your home, do not proceed without calling Jonathan Rozansky first.  Jonathan will look out for your best interest and can answer all your real estate and financing questions.   Call for a free market analysis report today.

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Center for Hormonal Health and Well-Being ">is a personalized, proactive, patient-centered medical practice with a unique focus on Integrative Endocrinology. Dr. Danielle Weiss takes a holistic approach to the patient and their health condition. She harnesses the physical, social, and spiritual aspects of healing. Dr. Weiss prides herself on spending time truly listening to your concerns and needs. She uses a team approach to develop a plan to address these issues together.     http://www.centerforhormonalhealth.com/

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Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoos

I am a small Jewish farmer running my business in La Costa  called Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoo. I arrive with my animals at little children's birthday parties, senior homes,  graduation parties, and resorts in the area, to share my love of animals. I also do animal therapy with children and adults. Fantastic!! Call me to make an appointment or set up a birthday party.

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Volume 22 Number 34 | Sivan 10, 5781 | May 21, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 34 | Sivan 10, 5781 | May 21, 2021

 
B"H

CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES

LIGHT CANDLES AT 7:28 PM  -  Friday, May 21
SHABBAT ENDS 8:29 PM  -  Shabbat, May 22

MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

In the opening verses of this week’s Torah portion, we read about the tasks assigned to the various families of the Levite tribe in the Mishkan, the temporary Temple structure in the desert. When the Torah describes the tasks, the word “naso” is used.

Naso means to raise, or lift, indicating that the Levites’ Temple service was not merely a “job,” but meant to elevate them. Performing the prescribed service in the Temple is considered a great honor for the individual, and raises the person to a higher spiritual level.

This applies to every single Jewish person, whenever we perform a mitzvah. Doing a mitzvah as commanded by G-d is always to our benefit. We elevate ourselves and make ourselves more holy and more spiritual with each act. And by elevating ourselves, we elevate the world around us too.

With each mitzvah that we do, the world becomes holier, leading to the ultimate uplifting of the entire universe, with the coming of Moshiach!

Shabbat shalom.

 
 SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE Open for Services this Week | Limited Soup & Challah this Week

Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul

We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.

Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows. 

Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions. 

Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage. 

If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!

THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation. 

Special Shabbos – Please Join Us!

This week Rabbi and Rebbetzin Eilfort & Aaron & Naomi Alter are sponsoring the Kiddush in honor of their Anniversaries! We will be having a complete lunch. We want YOU to join us in our celebration. 

We know that there was a very full crowd here over the holiday and that many of the people were guests from out of town. We greatly appreciate Rabbi and Rebbetzin Duchman for the wonderful positive energy that they brought and spirit (ru’ach) they created. At the same time Rabbi and Rebbetzin Eilfort didn’t have the opportunity to be able to shmooze extensively with our community.

That will be remedied, please G-d, THIS Shabbos! 

Situation in Israel to be Addressed THIS Shabbos! What Can WE Do?!

New Guidance from the CDC

Baruch Hashem, life is getting back to normal. The CDC has released new guidelines that state that those who have received both vaccines do not have to wear masks indoors. With this being said we still encourage those who come to our shul to wear masks. If you are sick please do NOT come to shul until you feel better! If you have not yet received both vaccines please maintain your social distancing. Everyone should be mindful of what they touch and wash their hands regularly. We are asking everyone to be on the honor system. If you have not had both vaccines please act according to the rules previously stated. 

We will be resuming weekly Kiddushes starting on Shavuos. Those who wish to sponsor a Kiddush should reach out. Basic Kiddush sponsorship starts at $180 and goes up depending on how elaborate the menu. We will practice additional safety protocols so as to ensure a safe environment for the Kiddush. 

Resumption of Kiddushes

As of this Shabbos we will be resuming the serving of a Weekly Kiddush. It has been a long time coming. We will sit near our own families unless you have been fully vaccinated. 

Kiddush sponsors are being sought for upcoming weeks. Please respond to this message if you can sponsor a Kiddush for any occasion (like Birthdays, Yarzeit, Anniversary etc.) The Kiddush can be as ornate or simple as you wish. The donation for a basic Kiddush is $180 and goes up from there depending on what the menu is. Please note that this price includes the cost of preparation, set up, clean up, and all utensils. 

Soup and Challah Going Forward

We will still be offering Soup and Challah to those who request it. We will not be delivering it if no request was made. Often times we will need people to pick it up themselves from shul, depending on the volunteer drivers’ status. Our focus is now to have people join us at shul so we can enjoy Kiddush TOGETHER! 

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

A Word of Torah
Living with the Times

Naso – Count
By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we continue in the Book of Numbers with the second portion, Naso, which means Count. It begins by continuing the census of the Levitical families started last week. In the course of this portion we come across a couple of very interesting, and frankly, somewhat ‘exotic’ commandments, Sota and Nazir.
The Sota was a woman whose husband was overcome with a feeling of jealousy and suspicion regarding his wife and a particular man who the husband suspected may have been her paramour. Her fidelity was tested by drinking ‘bitter waters’. If she was guilty the bitter waters would cause a reaction within her that ended in a very unpleasant death for her and the man with whom she sinned. On the other hand, if she was innocent she was blessed with tremendous and profound blessings. Interestingly, if her husband had any ‘skeletons’ in his closet the test would not work. 
The Torah describes the procedure of the test in great detail. We learn in the commentaries how the Cohanim/Priests, who administered the test, did everything in their power to avoid the procedure. The fact is that part of the procedure included erasing the name of Hashem from a parchment, the dust of which was mixed into the water. We never want to see the erasure of the Divine Name. The section of Sota helps us to remember the necessity of clear boundaries in the interactions of the sexes. Many do not know that men and women should not remain in seclusion with each other. This prohibition is called ‘Yichud.’ It also reminds us not to put ourselves in compromising positions or into situations where we may be tempted to act inappropriately. We are forbidden from putting a ‘stumbling block in front of the blind.’ That would include our own evil inclination and animalistic appetites. 
Following the portion of Sota we are taught the laws of a Nazir, also known as a Nazirite. A Nazir voluntarily takes upon himself an oath to maintain an enhanced level of holiness, foreswearing wine or beer, haircuts or shaving, and carefully remaining in a state of ritual purity. Typically the Nazirite status would remain for the articulated amount of time desired by the Nazir. At the end of the process he would bring a sin sacrifice as he resumed his previous status. 
Why bring a sin offering after having lived in a more spiritual and holy manner than previously? The Rebbe answers that by foreswearing some of the permitted blessings of the physical world the Nazir has chosen to purposely miss the opportunity of elevating those elements of physicality. The optimal state for us to assume is one of engagement and refinement of the mundane world thereby elevating it to holiness. 
The Rabbis comment on the proximity of the portion about the Sota with the portion about the Nazir. They explain that when the person sees the downfall of the Sota, he is moved to distance himself from the physical world, at least for some time, hence the Nazirite oath. 
These days we do not really undertake to be a Nazir and we do not administer the test of the Sota. That does not mean, however, that these lessons do no apply. Perhaps now, more than ever, we need to treasure these commandments and pray for the day when Moshiach will come so that we can fulfill the Torah properly! G-d willing, when that happens, there will be NO NEED to administer the test of the Sota, for the ways of sin will be eradicated permanently.   
Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Haftarah of Parshat Naso
Judges 13:2-25.
This week's haftorah describes the birth of Samson, a lifetime nazirite. A condign haftorah for this week's reading, which discusses all the laws of the nazirite.
Manoah and his wife, members of the Tribe of Dan, were childless. One day an angel appeared to Manoah's wife, informing her that she will give birth to a child. This child, the angel instructed, was to be a lifetime Nazirite. In addition, the angel instructed her to abstain from all foods forbidden to a nazirite — such as wine or ritually impure foods — from the moment she would conceive. The angel further informed the woman that her son will save the Jewish people from the Philistine oppression they were enduring at that time.
The soon-to-be-mother told her husband the good news. He entreated G d to send His messenger again — they were unaware at the time that the messenger was an angel. G d sent the angel again, and he repeated his instructions. Manoah and his wife then invited the angel to partake of a special meal they would prepare, but he declined. Instead he encouraged Manoah to offer the goat he wished to slaughter for the meal as a sacrifice to G d. The angel then ascended to the heavens in the flame that devoured the sacrifice.
The haftorah ends with the birth of Samson: "And the lad grew, and G d blessed him."

Weekly Sermon

Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live 
Join Rabbi Eilfort next Friday afternoon at 5pm on Facebook Live for his Weekly Sermon. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

 

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal   [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card   chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had  Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus & the violence in Israel! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Ilana Steelman, Yonah Fenton, Anna Rozansky, Phyllis Mintz, Channah Hale, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort, Aaron & Naomi Alter, and all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Sarah Ann Schwartz, Papa Bill Brunelle, Harold Polstein, Daney Yael Weill, Benjamin Osher, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz, be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Classes!

Tanya - Ancient Wisdom for Modern Life (Daily)

Join Rabbi Eilfort every morning on Facebook at 8am. Watch Live or watch the recording later in the day.

Caffeine for the Soul (Mondays)

Join Muka Rodal on Facebook every Monday at Noon. Watch Live or watch the recording later.

Hebrew Reading (Mondays)

Learn to read Hebrew in time to Receive the Torah on Shavuot. Mondays, 7pm sign up at www.chabadatlacosta.com/RHA. These classes are on Zoom and are recorded, we can share the recordings as requested.

JLI Course - Starting in May - This CAN Happen - Moshiach (Tuesdays)

Course Overview

For thousands of years, the prophecies of a “messianic age” stretched the imaginations of even the most fervent believers.

Not anymore.

Instant media, mass social movements and a global pandemic have shown us how suddenly and radically the world can be rewired by the actions of a few.

Why not for the good?

Join us to demystify the Jewish idea of a perfect world and discover a practical path for reaching it in our lifetime.

To sign up: https://www.myjli.com

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review (Wednesdays)

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101) (Wednesdays)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

 

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We  love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein
Anonymous 3

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is  $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: 

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at  [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

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Volume 22 Number 32 |Iyar 25, 5781 | May 7, 2021

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 22 Number 32 |Iyar 25, 5781 | May 7, 2021

 
B"H
CANDLE LIGHTING TIMES
LIGHT CANDLES AT 7:18 PM  -  Friday, May 7
SHABBAT ENDS 8:17 PM  -  Shabbat, May 8
MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

This week we once again read a double Torah portion, Behar and Bechukotai. Both portions discuss the observance of mitzvahs, G-d’s commandments, with Behar focusing on the supernatural relationship we have with G-d, and Bechukotai bringing them down to earth in a more practical way.

A Jew’s everyday life is imbued with opportunities to connect with G-d, whether it’s through prayer, Torah study, and performing mitzvahs. This connection we have with G-d cannot remain spiritual, it needs to become part of who we are as physical beings. That is why G-d created the world in the first place—to have a “dwelling place” in the lowest possible realm, all the while remaining spiritual.

And He wants us to be his partners in making this a reality.

Shabbat shalom!

RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
Rabbi's Letter | Thought for the Week | Haftarah 

A Word of Torah
Living with the Times

Parshi’ot BeHar / BiChukotai – On the Mountain / In My Statutes
By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we read a double portion, BeHar and BiChukotai, which mean ‘On the Mountain’, and ‘In My Statutes’, respectively. In the first portion we learn many of the particulars and strictures associated with the Sabbatical year and the Jubilee year.

The commentaries explain that the mountain referred to in the name is Mount Sinai, and that the portion is emphasizing the fact that all of the very specific details that would be enumerated came from Mount Sinai. Why the need to emphasize the source of the commandment specifically in this instance regarding this Mitzvah?

The premise behind this unique approach to agriculture is that every seven years the land must be left to lie fallow, treated like an ownerless property where anyone can come and take the fruit that is growing. The farmer may not sell his produce. He may not harvest the produce. There were seven sets of seven years and then the 50th, or Jubilee year was declared. When the Jubilee year, known in Hebrew as the Yovel year, occurred the farmer again was commanded to allow his field to lie fallow. Not only is the farmer forbidden the produce, the Jewish people are prohibited from buying the produce.

How was the farmer expected to make a living?

The Torah itself answers when it explains that G-d pledges that when one will scrupulously observe these Mitzvot He will command His blessing to be adequate to sustain the farmer from the produce grown in the sixth year to be sufficient for the sixth, seventh (Sabbatical) and even part of the eighth year (until the new crop comes in). A threefold blessing from one year’s produce!

What did the farmer do to merit such a tremendous reward? The answer is he had faith in the Almighty, and his profound faith informed his behavior to the extent that he allowed his most valuable possession – his land – to remain unworked for a long time. He literally put his life in G-d’s ‘Hands’.

Demonstrating faith to this degree is not easy for most of us. Yes, there are exceptional people who seem able to pull it off, but for most of us this represents a severe challenge.

To this very day many farmers in Israel carefully observe the laws as written. It is inspiring to see their faith! There is another element that is also inspiring and beautiful. Many thousands of people join together to help support the farmers. Those who financially participate in this way are literally serving as the Shluchim / emissaries of the Creator, as they have chosen to become the instrument through which G-d sends His blessings to those observing this precious commandment.

Why would G-d command such a thing?

This Mitzvah parallels the Mitzvah of Shabbat. Seven days we are commanded to do work and then we are to rest on the seventh day. What do we do on the seventh day? We spend extra time in prayer, in study, with our families and counting our blessings. We meditate deeply into our relationship with G-d and with His world. Leaving behind the mundane pursuit of making a living frees us to focus on the true reason we are here and what our lives are about.

What this means is that every one of us has the opportunity of emulating, at least to a small degree, the farmer who allows his fields to lie fallow. It is our chance to demonstrate our powerful faith in our G-d, who then will reciprocate with blessings totally beyond proportion!

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Haftarah of Parshat BiChukotai

Jeremiah 16:19-17:14.

The haftorah discusses the punishments that await those who disregard G‑d's law, and the blessings that are the lot of those who follow the Creator's wishes. This follows the theme of this week's Torah reading which details at length the blessings and curses.

The prophet Jeremiah rebukes the people of Israel for their idolatrous ways and for not having faith in G‑d. He conveys G‑d's words of wrath towards those who do not put their trust in Him — foretelling exile as their punishment — and of blessings for those who do.

"Cursed is the man who trusts in man and relies on mortal flesh for his strength, and whose heart turns away from the G‑d. He shall be like a lone tree in the desert, and will not see when good comes, and will dwell on parched land in the desert, on salt-sodden soil that is not habitable. Blessed is the man who trusts in the G‑d, to whom G‑d will be his trust. For he shall be like a tree planted by the water, and which spreads its roots out into a stream, so it will not be affected when heat comes, and its leaves shall be green, and in the year of drought will not be anxious, neither shall it cease from bearing fruit."

The haftorah ends with the following poignant verses: "G‑d who is the source of the hopes of Israel, all that forsake You shall be shamed, and they who turn away from me shall be marked out on the earth that they have forsaken G‑d, the source of living waters. Heal me, O G‑d, then shall I be healed; help me, then I shall be helped, for You are my praise!"

Weekly Sermon - Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort next Friday afternoon at 5pm on Facebook Live for his Weekly Sermon. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
We ARE Open for Services this Week | Soup & Challah this Week

Special Shabbos THIS Week

This Shabbos is Shabbos Mevorchim, the Shabbos on which we bless the upcoming new month of Sivan. Sivan is a month of great significance as it includes the holiday of Shavuot! It is also Shabbos Chazak, which means strength. It is so called because we will be concluding the book of Leviticus. When a book of the Torah is concluded the congregation says together, “Chazak Chazak vinis’Chazaik,” which means, “Stronger, Stronger, we will all become stronger!” 

In honor of Mother’s Day we will be dedicating our celebration this Shabbos to Mothers everywhere. Where would we be without our mothers?! 

Communal Shavuot Meals

THANK YOU to our generous sponsors for making our gourmet Shavuot meals and Kiddushes open to the entire community!

The meals are scheduled for Sunday night and Monday, and the Kiddushes are scheduled for Monday and Tuesday after services. 

Reservations are required to participate: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/HolidayMeals. 

All donations are optional (but greatly appreciated!) Additional sponsors always welcome. 

10 Commandments & Yizkor Memorial Services

It is considered a great Mitzvah to listen to the reading of the 10 Commandments on Shavuot. Please mark your calendars for Monday, May 17th at 11am. Every Jewish man, woman, and child should come.

Likewise it is considered most worthy to recite the Yizkor Memorial service for those who have lost loved ones. Our Yizkor service will take place on Tuesday, May 18th at 12pm (it will be preceded by an inspirational sermon given by Rabbi Mendel Duchman). 

Please note that there is no cost to attend any of these special services. 

Additional Guest Speaker for Shavuos Announced

We are proud to announce that Rebbetzin Chana Levy (our own Rebbetzin’s mother) will be joining us, together with her husband Rabbi Naftali Levy, for the holiday. Rebbetzin Levy will be giving a fascinating talk titled, “From Scandal to Redemption – The Story of Moshiach.” You will be astonished by the ‘humble’ beginnings of the Davidic Dynasty and how it ultimately morphed into the root of our Righteous Moshiach. 

Rebbetzin Levy is a highly regarded and noted teacher, lecturer, and writer in her local community and the wider Chabad community. She is viewed as a trailblazer who became an accomplished attorney at a time when Orthodox women and especially Chasidic women were typically not involved in advanced secular studies.   

In addition we are hosting Rabbi and Mrs. Mendel and C. Rochel Duchman who will be joining our community for Shavuos as guest speakers! The Duchmans have visited us before and the reaction was over-the-top due to their infectious enthusiasm, warmth, and sincerity (not to mention the stories that they can share about Rabbi E’s childhood). 

They will both be sharing their unique insights and fascinating stories of what it was like growing up in the presence of their distinguished and highly accomplished families and how those experiences informed and continue to inform their lives to this day. 

Rabbi JJ Hecht (Rebbetzin Duchman’s father) worked very closely with the Rebbe on establishing the National Committee for the Furtherance of Jewish Education (NCFJE), an organization critical in establishing the ‘Release Time’ program and founded Hadar HaTorah, a Yeshiva specifically for Yeshiva students who started their educational careers at a later age. Rabbi Hecht and his wife Rebbetzin Chava (may she live and be well) also established Camp Emunah, the first Chabad overnight camp for girls, an incredibly successful institution (which our own Rebbetzin Nechama attended for many years). Rabbi Hecht often translated the Rebbe’s talks, particularly when the Rebbe addressed children, and he organized the massive Lag B’Omer parades, where tens of thousands would celebrate together at Chabad World Headquarters, 770 Eastern Parkway. Rabbi Hecht represented the very best of ‘home grown’ Chasidim, as he was born in the good old USofA. He and his Rebbetzin managed to successfully fuse old style Chasidism with modern American culture, and perhaps more importantly, modern American Jews. 

Rabbi Mendel Duchman’s father, Reb Yisroel HaLevi Duchman, was a famous Chasid of the Rebbe. His infectious joy and love of the Rebbe inspired and elevated all around him. Rabbi Duchman hailed from a long line of esteemed Lubavitcher Chasidim. Reb Yisroel, as he was affectionately known, made it his business to remain connected to the Rebbe as only a true Chasid can. He went out of his way to always bring good cheer to the Rebbe. He was truly in his element on the holidays of Shmini Atzeres and Simchas Torah. Anyone who had the privilege of attending 770 on those holidays would have the pleasure of seeing Reb Yisroel reach a level of happiness that most of us can only hope for. Reb Yisroel and his Rebbetzin Rochel, may she live and be well, maintained a truly Chasidic home, one where anyone would be made to feel welcome, would be fed, and would hear encouraging words and incredible stories. 

Our job is to instill this generation and future generations with the energy and spirit of these giants. No one will be better able to inspire us than Rabbi and Rebbetzin Duchman and it is a great blessing that they will be joining us to share their wisdom, insights, and humor. These two phenomenal people inspired our own Rabbi Eilfort to become an emissary of the Rebbe, and they are literally helping to inspire numerous young people on a weekly basis in the LA area at this time. Hundreds and hundreds, if not thousands, have been positively impacted by the Duchmans and they will be ‘all ours’ over Shavuos! 
     
NEXT WEEK
Grand Re-opening Celebration

Over the past fourteen months the shul has been paused numerous times, we have held services in the breezeway, we have discontinued Kiddushes, we have installed high quality (and expensive) air filtration systems, we have worn masks, and we have socially distanced (all per governmental guidelines). Needless to say we will continue to strictly adhere to all legal guidelines as well as the advice of medical, rabbinical, and policy experts. 

Baruch Hashem, thank G-d, we have maintained a spotless record! No one has become sick here. We plan on keeping it that way.

Now that most of our members have been vaccinated and San Diego has been taken out of the ‘Purple Tier’ we are ready to begin to encourage people to come home to your community. If you have received both vaccines and are in good health it is time. 

We are planning a major holiday celebration for the upcoming Yom Tov of Shavuot! We have done this every year (except last year), but this year we will certainly add some ‘umph’ and pizazz! Lavish community meals will be served. We will have a splendid ice cream party (of Biblical proportions)! We will have our customary dairy Kiddush extraordinaire! 

Most importantly we will sit together (socially distanced and masked) and daven as a community! We will listen to the 10 Commandments and we will recite the Yizkor Memorial service.

It is time. It will be safe. 

We are looking for sponsors who want to invest in and sponsor this incredibly important series of events. This is literally bringing merit to the community and there is no greater Mitzvah. Simply respond to this message for further information. 

Shavuot begins on Sunday, May 16th and ends on Tuesday, May 18th. MARK YOUR CALENDAR! 

This promises to be our most exceptional and uplifting Shavuot celebrations ever and they won’t be complete without YOU! 
 

Grand Re-opening Scheduled!

 

Shavuot begins on Sunday night, May 16th and ends on Tuesday night, May 18th. MARK YOUR CALENDAR!

This promises to be our most exceptional and uplifting Shavuot celebrations ever and they won’t be complete without YOU!

Deliverers Needed PRONTO

Our A Team is busy preparing Challahs for the community as this is being written (and THANK YOU to our amazing donors for making that happen!). However, we are facing a big challenge as we need angels to deliver the fruit of our ovens to our hungry constituents. If you are ready, willing, and able to assist please respond to this message or contact the Rebbetzin to volunteer ASAP. G-d bless you!

Chicken Soup & Challah - We thank our generous sponsors!

*This week there will be soup and Challah BUT NOT NEXT WEEK. Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you. There will be Challah and Soup. If you can help with deliveries, reach out to Kayla or Nechama.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

A very special thank you goes out to our “Super Sponsor” Channah Hale who has continuously stepped forward helping us to maintain this service!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others. Thank you to our amazing volunteer drivers - you can volunteer to deliver Soup and Challah!

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

FUNDRAISING
Ways to Give Back

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal   [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card   chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

Easy Fundraising Opportunity 

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had  Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Working Car (still) Needed

We are currently seeking a car in good mechanical condition. If you, or someone you know, has a car that you can donate please respond to this message. This request is time sensitive. Thank you in advance! .

SPECIAL WISHES
Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus & the tragedy in Israel! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus... May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Suzanne Haray, Lonnie Belfer, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Emery Reh, Babs Walden, Dora Katz, Ronald Lee Parker, Eugene Markovits, Sofia (Tubis) Lederer, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Roz Mintz, be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Classes!

Tanya - Ancient Wisdom for Modern Life (Daily)

Join Rabbi Eilfort every morning on Facebook at 8am. Watch Live or watch the recording later in the day.

Caffeine for the Soul (Mondays)

Join Muka Rodal on Facebook every Monday at Noon. Watch Live or watch the recording later.

Hebrew Reading (Mondays)

Learn to read Hebrew in time to Receive the Torah on Shavuot. Mondays, 7pm sign up at www.chabadatlacosta.com/RHA. These classes are on Zoom and are recorded, we can share the recordings as requested.

JLI Course - Starting in May - This CAN Happen - Moshiach (Tuesdays)

Course Overview

For thousands of years, the prophecies of a “messianic age” stretched the imaginations of even the most fervent believers.

Not anymore.

Instant media, mass social movements and a global pandemic have shown us how suddenly and radically the world can be rewired by the actions of a few.

Why not for the good?

Join us to demystify the Jewish idea of a perfect world and discover a practical path for reaching it in our lifetime.

To sign up: https://www.myjli.com

Positivity Bias Book Club & Review (Wednesdays)

Wednesday at 6:30pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household (including book).

Through a mix of nature, nurture, social conditioning and free will, we each possess a personalized lens that frames, forms, clouds and distorts the way we see ourselves and the world around us. In order to live in the most meaningful and effective way possible, each of us needs to continually assess and adjust the default frames we have developed.

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

Jewish Bootcamp (aka Judaism 101) (Wednesdays)

Wednesday at 7:15pm on Zoom (link sent to subscribers)

Cost: $50 per household per semester.

This class will cover the ABC’s of Judaism. What are the 13 Principles of Jewish Faith? How do we define the Torah? What is Shabbos and how is it observed (and how is it not observed)? What is Kosher? This class is perfect for those exploring Judaism for the first time, Jewish or not, and for those who want a refresher course about our faith. 

Follow this link to sign up: https://www.chabadatlacosta.com/AdultEd

 

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group. 

 

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Pay-What-You-Can-Membership

We want the membership experience to be positive. We want you to feel GOOD about giving. Yes, we have suggested donations, but you should give what you feel you can afford. If you cannot comfortably give the suggested amount THAT IS OK. If you can give more than the suggested amount, THANK YOU, IT IS APPRECIATED! We  love and appreciate your participation, and that is that. Please fill out our Membership form online by logging onto: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/Membership. 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to  [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. 

 

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2

Sharon Silverstein
Anonymous 3

 

*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is  $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Hebrew School Theme this Week: Shavuot

FOR THE FIRST TIME EVER - Tuition Free Hebrew School

Due to the economic hardships created by the pandemic we will be offering Tuition Free Hebrew School this year. Families are struggling to make ends meet, but we cannot allow the children to suffer. We are offering two options – In-person learning (outdoor and indoor classes, socially distant, masks on), and virtual learning. Please respond to this message for further information. We are the only synagogue in the county making such an offer! Morah Chaya has worked diligently to create an amazing curriculum that will educate and inspire our students. Our teachers will always offer lots of positive reinforcement to the students so that they will not only learn, but they will ENJOY the EXPERIENCE! Please get back to us and let your friends know.

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

PLEASE PATRONIZE OUR SPONSORS
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Tzedakah news – Planning for your 2020 taxes

Individuals may deduct 100 percent of qualified CASH contributions of up to 100 percent of their adjusted gross income. A corporation may deduct qualified contributions of up to 25 percent of its taxable income. Contributions that exceed that amount can carry over to the next tax year.

Rina Coleman is an Enrolled Agent with more than 20 years experience preparing taxes for all walks of life. Please contact her at [email protected] for a free 15 minute consultation.

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DRE. # 01754457
NMLS ID : 315987

Center for Hormonal Health and Well-Being

Center for Hormonal Health and Well-Being ">is a personalized, proactive, patient-centered medical practice with a unique focus on Integrative Endocrinology. Dr. Danielle Weiss takes a holistic approach to the patient and their health condition. She harnesses the physical, social, and spiritual aspects of healing. Dr. Weiss prides herself on spending time truly listening to your concerns and needs. She uses a team approach to develop a plan to address these issues together.     http://www.centerforhormonalhealth.com/

Ron Lewis Insurance Services

www.MedigapExpress.com
[email protected]
760-525-5769 - Cell
866-718-1600 - Toll-free

Specializing in Medicare Supplement (Medigap) Insurance! 

• As an independent agent, I work with ALL the major insurance carriers.

• Let me do the shopping for you!

• I will save you money on your insurance premiums.

• Call me for a free, no-obligation quote.

• References available upon request.

Neal Sperling Business Development

Highly talented, highly experienced business development/marketing consultant to wide range of businesses and non-profits can help you to find innovative new ways to raise money, launch, brand, market, sell, merchandise, and promote your products, services, and organization. Has written and improved wide variety of business plans, marketing plans, obtained major grants/new funding for a wide variety of ventures. Has unique ability to study most any business, quickly and creatively identify new sources of potential revenue, reduce costs, increase efficiencies, and drive more sales in the quickest time frames. Recognized expert on how to drive new sales via the internet. Acclaimed speaker to Southern California business groups, and particularly known for being a great “connector” with ability to introduce you to a wide variety of hard-to-reach decision-makers in various fields. Strong background in consumer products, medical products, high tech, "clean tech," "green" products, non-profits, much more. Call for details: cell: 818-219-9585.

Dream Home Cinema

*Family Room Surround
*Wholesale House Audio
*Home Automation

Joseph Markowitz: 760-415-8742  [email protected]

Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoos

I am a small Jewish farmer running my business in La Costa  called Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoo. I arrive with my animals at little children's birthday parties, senior homes,  graduation parties, and resorts in the area, to share my love of animals. I also do animal therapy with children and adults. Fantastic!! Call me to make an appointment or set up a birthday party.

Pam Glickman 760-535-5293

Healthy Haven Live Radio Show with Anna Mintz

Cost Effective Advertising Available HERE

Hundreds of people see Chabad at La Costa's Weekly Email Update. Those who are looking to effectively promote their business and at the same time support this important community resource are invited to become sponsors for only $50 per month (that's per MONTH, not per week). Call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891 to get your message out there.

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