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Volume 21 Number 43 | Av 10, 5780 | July 31, 2020

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 21 Number 43 | Av 10, 5780 | July 31, 2020
 
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MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

This week we observe the fast of Tisha B’av, commemorating the destruction of the two Holy Temples in Jerusalem. It has been a day of collective mourning for the Jewish people for centuries, as we pray for the return of Jewish glory to the holy city of Jerusalem and the Jewish people.

The Talmud says that on the day that the Temple was destroyed, Moshiach - the redeemer of the Jewish people - was born. Every generation has an individual that can potentially be the Moshaich, and that year a child was born who could have been the one.

This serves as an important reminder that even when things are looking down for us—individually or collectively—we are guaranteed that G-d already has a solution in the making. He always prepares the “remedy” before the “illness.”

May this be the last time we observe Tisha B’av as a day of mourning; from now on it should be celebrated as the beginning of Redemption!

SHABBOS NEWS
NO Services - Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Paused

No Services this Week

Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Pausing Until Safe

The shul IS NOT open for services this Shabbos due to the spike in coronavirus cases. We will, G-d willing, reopen as soon as it is deemed safe. 

Weekly Sermon Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort this afternoon at 5pm as he gives his weekly sermon as a Facebook Live event. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

Shabbat Nachamu

The Shabbat after the 9th of Av is called Shabbat Nachamu, so named because of the Haftarah, the reading from the Prophets. The word Nachamu means “You shall be comforted.” The word is actually repeated, which would then translate, “You will surely be comforted.” Our sages tell us it is repeated so that we should be comforted for the destruction of both Holy Temples (the first by the Babylonians and the second by the Romans).

Hashem knows, that we need an abundance of comforting! The Jewish people need to find comfort, indeed we are promised that we WILL find comfort THIS Shabbos!

But, and this is an important caveat, in order to find comfort we must make ourselves into a proper receptacle to receive it. This Shabbos let us all resolve to make ourselves ready to receive the comfort the Prophet promises, as we seek comfort from the Almighty.   

Membership – Will You Commit?

Dear Friends,

So far the year 2020 has been filled with opportunities. We have been presented with the opportunity to test ourselves as our country and our world has faced the devastation of the coronavirus pandemic. I know that I never thought that I would live in such times, and bet many of you feel the same. The health and wellbeing of each and every one of us has been severely threatened, the economy has undergone a tremendous shock, and a massive strain has been placed on our relationships and this community.

I learned in Yeshiva that tests are indeed opportunities, strange as that may sound. In Hebrew the same word for test, “Nisayon” is the root of the word for miracle, “Nes.” A Nes/miracle is when G-d suspends the rules of nature so as to reveal Himself in a supernatural way. Its root is to raise up. Therefore a test is an opportunity to raise ourselves up to a level otherwise inaccessible to us.

Our community, our beloved Chabad at La Costa, has not been immune to these opportunities. We have striven to rise to the occasion, and because of YOU we have risen to the occasion!

G-d bless all of you who have been instrumental in keeping us going. G-d bless those of you who despite (or perhaps because of) the coronavirus have stepped forward, dug deep, and made meaningful and ongoing contributions to our community.

What have your donations accomplished?

Your donations have fed many people spiritually and physically. Our lights are still on, spiritually and physically. We continue to be here for our community spiritually and physically. Our expenses have not decreased because of the pause in services. In fact, they have increased. Not only have many of our streams of income ceased (like catering and our barbecues, and Aliyah donations, and Hebrew school tuitions) but our expenses have increased as we continue to help people who face financial and spiritual crises. We are teaching more Torah, making more phone calls, counseling more people, and touching the lives of people in meaningful ways.  

We therefore turn to you with the following requests: if you need help, let us know! We will do our utmost to help. If you can help others, let us know! If you can find your way to make a monthly contribution to our joint endeavor please demonstrate your commitment by becoming a member now.

We are asking all of those who can – please make a monthly financial commitment to us, to the Jewish community of this area, so that we can continue to serve the Jewish community of this area. We have always been and must always be self-supportive. That means we need you to step forward at this time of great opportunity!

Despite our increased budget we are not increasing our membership rates. Please note that our membership rates are lower than other communities’. It is not that we offer less. In fact, we offer more than we ever have. Those who can afford it and want to give more than the minimum are our heroes!

Please get back to me at your earliest convenience. I will send you this year’s membership form. You can also securely donate immediately by following the link found below. You can choose to make your gift monthly, which is deeply appreciated!

G-d bless you and thank you so much for your friendship and support!

Rabbi Eilfort

Jewish Art Calendar

It is calendar season! Yes, we are running a bit late thanks to our ubiquitous friend the coronavirus. But never fear; we will again offer our gorgeous Jewish Art Calendar! Those who wish to sponsor the calendar, or run an ad/s, or dedicate a date are encouraged to reach out to our Rebbetzin Nechama via email at [email protected], or simply reply to this message for the calendar form.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

BBQ Picnic to GO

Watch your email for our Summer Kosher Food Program! BBQ Picnic to Go Family Special $72 for a family of FOUR. Starting this Sunday. (You can find more information on our website under the Visitor tab.)

Easy Fundraising Opportunity

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Chicken Soup, Challah Available

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you on Friday to help you celebrate Shabbat in the most delicious way possible.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times. Many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others.

We would like to specifically acknowledge at this time:

Channah Hale for her generous sponsorship of the Challahs. Channah has been absolutely phenomenal in her generous sponsorships! We thank her for her kindness and love.

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal  [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card  chabadatlacosta.com/donate

Havdala Live with Rabbi Yossi

Join Rabbi Yossi Rodal on Facebook Live on Saturday night at 8:30pm for a meaningful Havdalah service. Following Havdalah Rabbi Yossi will share an uplifting Chasidic story as is traditional on Saturday night.

A Word of Torah

Living with the Times

Parshat Va’etchanan – And I Beseeched

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we read the Torah Portion titled, ‘Va’Etchanan’, which means ‘And I beseeched.” This portion is full with meaning and significance, as it recounts the giving of the Aseret HaDibrot / 10 Commandments and the Shma Yisroel / Hear O Israel. These passages are monumental and have literally changed not only the trajectory of the Jewish people, but of the entire world.

The Shma clearly and decisively demonstrates the Oneness of G-d; that He not only created the world and everything in it, but also that He is a personal G-d, involved in the daily details of our lives. The 10 Commandments emphasize the importance of acknowledging the One, True G-d, as well as G-d’s divine commandments. They bring into sharp relief the sanctity of the individual human life, human relationships, property rights, and even our attitude towards the possessions of others. In other words, it offers us the foundational necessities of society. Its laws are in stark contrast to the accepted norms of those days, when humanity lived strictly by the dictate of ‘survival of the fittest,’ making humanity comparable to the animal kingdom, and what humanity has (hopefully) evolved into, a society that cares for and insures justice for its weak and oppressed equally with the powerful.

However, there is one small passage that I wish to focus on this week. The Torah states, “You shall do what is fair and good in the eyes of G-d, so that it will be good for you, and you shall come and possess the good land that G-d swore to your forefathers…” (Deut. 6:18). The classic commentary simply explains the words, “fair and good,” as meaning, “compromise and going beyond the letter of the law.”

These days debates are raging about a whole host of issues. Our country is clearly divided. Protests are ‘flourishing’ and wanton destruction of many cities abounds. Fierce debates regarding our rights versus our responsibilities are ubiquitous.

As Jews should we be keenly aware of our Constitutional rights? The answer is that no people has a more profound interest in jealously guarding our rights than we Jews have. We have been victimized by everyone from lone gunmen to entire governments. Here, in the United States, described by the Rebbe as a “Nation of lovingkindness,” we have been largely spared systemic oppression and allowed to freely flourish, which has resulted in America’s Jewish community achieving unprecedented blessings.

With that being said, as individuals, it would seem that the words of Rashi mentioned above should inform our daily lives and the choices we make.

There is a Constitutional ‘right,’ and there is the ‘right’ thing to do. Both are important! But the Torah tells us to seek compromise and to go beyond the letter of the law. Compromise only applies when there are two oppositional positions. Going beyond the letter of the law means being willing to forgo what may be rightfully yours (in order to help someone who needs it).

Let us focus on doing what is fair and good, even when that means adjusting our personal claims. That doesn’t mean our rights aren’t important! It means that sometimes our rights do not insure fairness nor goodness, both of which lead us to the ultimate reward, as the passage continues, “so that it will be good for you…” (emphasis added).  

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Haftarah Thought

From: Chabad.org  Isaiah 40:1–26 

This week’s haftorah is the first of a series of seven “haftarot of Consolation.” These seven haftarot commence on the Shabbat following Tisha B’Av and continue until Rosh Hashanah.

This section of Isaiah begins with G‑d’s exhortation to the prophets: “Console, O console My people . . . Announce to Jerusalem that her period of exile has been fulfilled and that her sins have been forgiven.”

Isaiah’s prophecy describes some of the miraculous events that will unfold with the onset of the messianic era, such as the return of the exiles to Jerusalem, the revelation of G‑d’s glory, and the rewards and retribution that will then be meted out.

The prophet then goes on to comfort the people, describing G‑d’s power and might, and reassuring them of His care for His people.

SPECIAL WISHES
 

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus. May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Eric Mintz, Keith Mintz and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to  all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER all of those who have Yarzeit this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Rhonda Bloom, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom and Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please check the shul’s Facebook page for information on live broadcasts.  

https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

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Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want. Send a personal email to   [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information.

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing’. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

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Volume 21 Number 42 | Av 3, 5780 | July 24, 2020

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 21 Number 42 | Av 3, 5780 | July 24, 2020
 
B"H
 
MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

This week we begin the mourning period referred to as the “Nine Days” - the first nine days of Hebrew month of Av, leading up to Tisha B’av next week, when we commemorate the destruction of both Holy Temples in Jerusalem.

Although traditionally we avoid celebrations and joy during this time, there is one exception. Any joy associated with Torah study is not only allowed, but encouraged. To this end, the Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, of righteous memory, promoted the celebration of concluding Talmudic tractates (a “siyum”) every day of the Nine Days.

One of the reasons the Temple was destroyed, according to the Talmud, was the loss of enthusiasm in the Jewish people’s Torah study. So by celebrating Torah study more than usual during this period, we bring about the antidote to the destruction—excitement and joy associated with Torah.

You can join a daily online siyum at Chabad.org/siyum

May these days be permanently transformed to days of joy!

SHABBOS NEWS
NO Services - Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Paused

Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Pausing Until Safe

The shul IS NOT open for services this Shabbos due to the spike in coronavirus cases. We will, G-d willing, reopen as soon as it is deemed safe.  

Weekly Sermon Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort this afternoon at 5pm as he gives his weekly sermon as a Facebook Live event. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

Shabbat Chazon

The Shabbat before the 9th of Av is called Shabbat Chazon, which means the Shabbos of Vision. It is named for the Haftarah (see below for full explanation). On this Shabbat each of us is granted the opportunity to grasp a vision of the Messianic Era, we just have to open our eyes to see it.

Tisha B’Av – The 9th of Av

This coming Wednesday evening through Thursday night (July 29th – 30th) is the saddest day on the Jewish calendar. We commemorate both Holy Temples being destroyed, the first by the Babylonians and the second by the Romans. It is a 25-hour fast. To learn more about this important day follow this link: https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/144575/jewish/What-Is-Tisha-BAv.htm

There are numerous customs and laws associated with this day that is actually described as the birthday of Moshiach. To learn the laws and customs follow this link: https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/144574/jewish/The-Nine-Days.htm

Join Rabbi Eilfort on Facebook Live on Wednesday, July 29th at 8pm for an inspiring and educational talk about Tisha B’Av. Remember, you must be Rabbi Eilfort’s friend on Facebook to see it. If you have not already done so please friend request Yeruchem Eilfort on Facebook.

Easy Fundraising Opportunity

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Chicken Soup, Challah Available - VOLUNTEERS NEEDED

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you on Friday to help you celebrate Shabbat in the most delicious way possible.

Please call Nechama if you are available to drive or braid this week...

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times. Many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others.

We would like to specifically acknowledge at this time:

Channah Hale for her generous sponsorship of the Challahs. Channah has been absolutely phenomenal in her generous sponsorships! We thank her for her kindness and love.

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

Note About Sponsorships

You may have noticed that we seek multiple sponsors for the Challah, Soup, and Torah classes. We do this because we need to find ways to cover our budgetary shortfall that has been caused by the coronavirus. The donations coming to the shul have been dramatically reduced. We greatly appreciate those of you who are still supporting us! G-d bless you! We greatly appreciate your understanding as we seek ways of propping up the income necessary to keep things afloat. Your ideas about additional income streams are likewise greatly appreciated!

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We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal  [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card  chabadatlacosta.com/donate

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A Word of Torah  Living with the Times  Parshat Devarim – Deuteronomy

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we begin the fifth and final book of the Torah, the Book of Devarim. This book is unique in its style and content. The previous books of the Torah, Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, and Numbers, were all written by Moses serving as G-d’s recording secretary, so to speak. This book, on the other hand, while being from G-d has more of the human element within it. Moses gave us the human perspective of the Divine Law.

As we all know it is tremendously important for us to study Torah as the unfiltered word of G-d. If there is something that we do not understand within the Torah, it is our intellect that is lacking, not the Giver of the Torah’s. At the same time, however, it is essential that we use our heads in studying and analyzing the Torah. G-d does not want us to be robotic in our service of Him. Instead He wants us to serve Him with our entire being, which of course includes our intellect. This transitionary book written with the human perspective demonstrates to us how this approach is meant to look.

How do we, realistically, find a balance between approaching Torah study as foot soldiers who simply do what they are told, and intellectual beings who must view Torah ideals through the lens of human experience and understanding?

We can accomplish this through the meticulous work of nurturing our faith in the Torah’s divinity and its divine Source, and then studying and following the Torah with this fact in mind. The fact is the more one fulfills the Torah’s mandates and studies the Torah, the more of the Divine Wisdom one will come to appreciate.  

We must not view the Torah as another interesting subject that deserves some of our attention when we can get around to it. It should not even be approached as something we study once or twice a week – even if that study is undistracted and intense.

No. The Torah is our life! We must create set times for Torah study every single day. In fact, we should approach Torah study with intense thirst, so that we have to pull ourselves away from it in order to go make a living. But even as we close the book, we take and live by its eternal message so that our day is full of Torah. Then at night, when the work of the day is over, it is time to again open up the book and fill our souls with its nurturing energy.  

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Haftarah Thought

From: Chabad.org  Isaiah 1:1-27.

This week's haftorah is the third of a series of three "haftarot of affliction." These three haftarot are read during the Three Weeks of mourning for Jerusalem, between the fasts of 17 Tammuz and 9 Av.

Isaiah relays to the Jews a G‑dly vision he experienced, chastising the residents of Judah and Jerusalem for having rebelled against G‑d, criticizing them for repeating their errors and not abandoning their sinful ways — even after having been reprimanded and punished. "Woe to a sinful nation, a people heavy with iniquity, evildoing seed, corrupt children. They forsook G‑d; they provoked the Holy One of Israel." Harsh words are employed, comparing the Jewish leaders to the rulers of Sodom and Gomorrah. G‑d states his distaste for their sacrifices and offerings which were flavored with pagan customs. "How has she become a harlot, a faithful city; it was once full of justice, in which righteousness would lodge, but now it is a city of murderers…"

Isaiah then speaks gentler words, encouraging the people to repent sincerely and to perform acts of justice and kindness towards the needy, orphans and widows, and promising them the best of the land in return for their obedience. "If your sins prove to be like crimson, they will become white as snow; if they prove to be as red as crimson dye, they shall become as wool." The haftorah concludes with a promise that G‑d will eventually reestablish Israel's judges and leaders, when "Zion shall be redeemed through justice and her penitents through righteousness."

Note: The first word of the haftorah is "Chazon" ("The vision [of Isaiah]"). The Shabbat when this haftorah is read, the Shabbat before Tisha b'Av, is thus called "Shabbat Chazon," the "Shabbat of the Vision." According to chassidic tradition, on this Shabbat the soul of every Jew is treated to a "vision" of the third Holy Temple that will be rebuilt with the coming of Moshiach. Click here for more on this topic.

SPECIAL WISHES
 

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus. May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Marianne Rack and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to the Rozanskys and  all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER  Maxine Wollman, Arpad Jellinek, Madeline Nejathaim, and all of those who have Yarzeit this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Rhonda Bloom, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom and Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

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If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

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Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

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If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

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We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

 

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We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

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Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want. Send a personal email to   [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information.

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing’. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

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Volume 21 Number 41 Tammuz 25, 5780 | July 17, 2020

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 21 Number 41 Tammuz 25, 5780 | July 17, 2020
 
B"H
 
MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

When the Jewish people left Egypt their goal was to arrive at the Promised Land, and although it took them 40 years longer than intended, through all the ups and downs that always remained their destination.

In this week’s Torah portion, the 42 stops they made in the desert are referred to as part of their exit journey. Although they physically left Egypt only once, until they actually stepped foot in the Promised Land, they hadn’t completely left. Each segment of the journey was another step in shedding Egypt and its effects.

Our lives today mimic this same process, as we each leave our own personal “Egypts,” our limitations, to overcome the challenges of life. We continue to keep our eye on the goal of arriving in the Promised Land, with the coming of Moshiach, may it be speedily our days!

Shabbat shalom!

SHABBOS NEWS
NO Services - Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Pausing Until Next Week

No Services this Week

Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Pausing Until Next Week

The shul IS NOT open for services this Shabbos due to the spike in coronavirus cases. We will, G-d willing, reopen as soon as it is deemed safe.  

Weekly Sermon Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort this afternoon at 5pm as he gives his weekly sermon as a Facebook Live event. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

Special Shabbos

This is a special Shabbos in that we bless the upcoming month of Menachem Av, the saddest month of the Jewish year. It is therefore a time of special opportunity. Let us embrace the joyousness of Shabbos and infuse the upcoming month with it so that we can transform a sad month into a time of happiness! It is also Shabbos Chazak, as we complete reading the Book of Numbers. Chazak means strength. May we all glean the needed strength from this Shabbos to finally and completely overcome all of the many tests.

Easy Fundraising Opportunity

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Chicken Soup, Challah Available

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you on Friday to help you celebrate Shabbat in the most delicious way possible.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times. Many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others.

We would like to specifically acknowledge at this time:

Channah Hale for her generous sponsorship of the Challos.

Miriam Reisman for her sponsorship of the soup.

Moira Markowitz who is co-sponsoring in honor of her father’s Yarzeit; Chaim ben Mattisyahu

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

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We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal  [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

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A Word of Torah

Living with the Times

Parshiot Matot – Maasay (Tribes and Travels)

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we read a double portion of Matot – Maasay, which translates as Tribes and Travels. The first portion begins by mentioning the Tribes of Israel. The second portion recounts the forty-two encampments of the Children of Israel during their forty-year sojourn in the desert; from the time they left Egypt until the time they were poised to enter the Holy Land.

When the Torah refers to the 12 Tribes it sometimes uses the Hebrew word ‘Shevatim’ and occasionally uses the word ‘Matot’. The singular form of each word is Shayvet and Matah.

The Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson of righteous memory, asks, “What is the difference between the words and what does this difference teach us?”

Each word not only means ‘tribe’ but it also means ‘branch’. The connection between a tribe and a branch is fairly obvious, as tribes are disparate parts that come from the same source just as branches are. But we find that there are different types of branches; one kind is when the branch is still attached to the tree and/or still has the sap within it, and the other is when it is separate from the tree and the sap has dried out. In the first instance the branch is still supple while in the second instant it has become rigid.

The word Matot, in our portion, is the latter type of branch. It represents the idea that the branch has been separated from the tree and a rigidity has set in. This, at first glance, seems to have a negative connotation when discussing the Jewish people. Emphasizing the fact that they were separated from the Tree (in the metaphor G-d is the Source that we are alluding to) does not seem to be a positive. Intimating that the inner sap has dried and the branch has become rigid also does not seem very positive. This means that the presence of the sap is less discernable, or in the analogue the life-giving sap which emanates from the Almighty, meaning the life force of the Jew, has largely dried up.

But in fact, the Rebbe explains, there can also be a positive to be gleaned from this.

The Matah is much less likely to bend than the Shayvet. Sometimes rigidity is a positive attribute. The Jewish people are described as an ‘Am kishei oref,’ a stiff necked people. That means that we can be very stubborn. While stubbornness can often be considered a serious character flaw there are times when it can be a great character trait. For instance, when one’s neighbors worship idols or embrace some other evil action, and even put pressure on the Jew to engage in such activity, stubbornly clinging to Jewish ethics is a virtue.

We can now understand the connection of these two portions. The (unbending) Tribes of Israel would embark on numerous travels during their forty years in the desert. During that time they would be faced with numerous challenges, hardships, and negative influences. There is no doubt that sometimes the best approach is a ‘bend but do not break’ attitude. There are also times, however, when we must remain rigidly opposed and refuse to compromise our morals. Sometimes, as Jews, we must proactively reject the evil that we see. Often this will be an unpopular position. Nonetheless, we must rigidly and stubbornly reject evil, even popular evil.

It is precisely this approach that enabled our people to navigate the difficulties of the desert and overcome the challenges of inhabiting the Holy Land. It is this approach that will enable us to successfully navigate the harsh tests currently facing our community and nation!    

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Haftarah Thought

By: Miriam Reisman in Loving Memory of Harold Reisman on his First Yarzeit

It was my husbands custom on Shabbat and on Jewish holidays during the many years of our  membership with this  wonderful Chabad community to comment on the  Haftarah or prophetic  portion connected to the Torah reading of that day.  Harold Reisman, z”l, left this world after a brief illness, exactly one year ago on the 26th of Tammuz, Saturdays date on the Hebrew calendar. That date is Harolds first Yartzeit. In loving memory of his beautiful, outstanding and meaningful life, and because of my love for him and devotion to him, I will attempt to make my own brief commentary today.

 

This is Shabbat Mevarchim, the Shabbat preceding the new months arrival and the day on which we bless it. That new month is Av. It is a month of sadness as we remember the destruction of both the First and Second Holy Temples in Jerusalem.

 

The current three-week period is one of somber remembrance of that tragic time before Tisha BAv, the ninth day of Av. It is a time of sorrow as we recall that loss. Two Torah portions are read on this Shabbat: Matot and Massei. They deal with the preparation of the Israelites for a joyous entry into the Promised Land. The Haftarot for these two Torah portions, along with a third Haftarah deal with the judgement and suffering to come. In the following weeks there are seven more Haftarot that express redemption and give comfort. These culminate with the arrival of the Jewish New Year. The Haftarot for each of the Torah portions read this Shabbat were written by the prophet, Jeremiah, a prophet who lived during a time of Jewish assimilation into a foreign way of life. Jeremiah warns the Israelites against that, and of its association with sins that will lead to the loss of the Holy Land they so anxiously awaited to enter.

 

Massei is the final Torah reading in the book of Bamidbar. Its literal translation is in the desert” but it is known to us as Numbers.” It contains rules, regulations and a holiness code given to the Israelites during their years of wandering in the desert as they prepared for settlement in the Holy Land.

 

This Shabbat is also known as Shabbat Chazzak, meaning strength.” As the Torah reading is completed, the congregation rises and responds with the words, Chazzak, chazzak Venit’chazzek,” “Let us go from strength to even greater strength,” as is done at the completion of the reading of each book of the Torah. We are now preparing to read the fifth and final book of the Torah, Devarim. Its literal meaning is words.” These words refer to the laws in Deuteronomy in which laws already given in previous books of the Torah are reiterated.

 

In our present days of pandemic we are aware of rules and regulations. They are laws to follow. It has been a very difficult time during these last few months. The past year has been beyond difficult. The tragic loss of my beloved husband Harold, his sister Beatrice, Batya, bat Yaakov Yehudah, zl, my youngest brother, David, Baruch David ben Yoseph Meyer Hakohen, zl, after a very long illness, my cousin Judah Schwartz, Yehudah Leib, ben Yitzak, zl, who died from Covid-19 and my many friends who died during this past year, has been terrible. I pray for the health of my three remaining siblings who are suffering varying degrees of illness. I wish Vivian, Aviva Tzela bat Esther Bayla, Charles, Avraham Bezalel, ben Esther Beyla and Cherie, Shulamit Batya bat Esther Beyla each a Refuah Shelemah.

 

May the memory of Harold, Zvi Dov ben Yaakov Yehudah, zl, be for a blessing and may his Neshama have an Aliyah. May he, from his place in the Olam Ha’emet, be a source of strength for me, for my children, Jocelyn, Yosepha Zehavah bat Zvi Dov, her husband, Dan Baruch ben Ephraim and Joseph, Yoseph Meyer ben Zvi Dov, his wife, Sara, Shulamit Batya bat Yoel and for all of their incredible offspring who follow.

 

May we all heed the words of Jeremiah. May we live long and healthy lives always mindful of our Jewish beliefs and of our Jewish identities.

 

 

SPECIAL WISHES
 

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus. May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Monica Jellinek, Armand Rack and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to  all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER  Erin Webb, Harold Reisman, Perry Feder, Ruth Weill, Marian Beck, Max Infeld, Dvoyra Driker, Paul Gordon, Matilda Litman, Joseph Levin, Max Hyman, Cantor Olkenitzky, and all of those who have Yarzeit this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Rhonda Bloom, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom and Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please check the shul’s Facebook page for information on live broadcasts.  

https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want. Send a personal email to   [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information.

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing’. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

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Volume 21 Number 40 Tammuz 18, 5780 | July 10, 2020

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 21 Number 40 Tammuz 18, 5780 | July 10, 2020
 
B"H
 
MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

This week’s Torah portion is named for Pinchas, grandson of Aaron the High Priest, who earned the honor as a result of his bravery described in last week’s Torah portion.

The Midrash identifies Pinchas and Elijah the Prophet as the same person. Although Elijah lived many years later, he apparently lived a very long life. In fact, he never died; his body was taken to heaven in a fiery chariot, and he returns to earth once in a while to fulfill various missions — the final one being to announce the imminent arrival of the Moshiach. Elijah will come a day before Moshiach to inform and prepare us for the big day.

For 2,000 years the Jewish people have waited for Moshiach. The Jewish calendar is marked by days commemorating tragedies that have befallen us during our dark years of exile, including the 17th of Tammuz, this Thursday, when we mourn the breach of the walls of Jerusalem, which led to the destruction of the Temple three weeks later, on Tisha B’av.

But even as we mourn and cry, we hold firm to our belief that Elijah will herald in the era of Redemption, speedily in our days!

Shabbat shalom.

SHABBOS NEWS
Shul is Paused – No Services this week - we will reopen next week

NO Services this Week

Please note that we are pausing shul this week. G-d willing we will be up and running again next week. We want to be absolutely sure that the current spike is under control before resuming weekly services, so, for the time being, this will be a week by week decision. We are sorry for any inconvenience this may cause. 

Weekly Sermon Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort this afternoon at 5pm as he gives his weekly sermon as a Facebook Live event. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

Easy Fundraising Opportunity

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Chicken Soup, Challah Available

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you on Friday to help you celebrate Shabbat in the most delicious way possible.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Thank you to our Sponsors!

We are most appreciative of those who are generously stepping forward to help us with our dedication opportunities for our weekly Soup, Challah, and Torah Classes!

Specifically we would like to acknowledge Channah Hale who has been tremendously generous! 

This week's Loaves of Love is sponsored by Channah Hale.

This week's Chicken Soup is sponsored by Jon and Julie Rozansky. 

We are still looking for a sponsor for this week's Torah Classes. 

If you would like to sponsor an upcoming week please respond to this message or simply donate securely online by following one of the links found below. 

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card  chabadatlacosta.com/donate

Havdala Live with Rabbi Yossi

Join Rabbi Yossi Rodal on Facebook Live on Saturday night at 8:30pm for a meaningful Havdalah service. Following Havdalah Rabbi Yossi will share an uplifting Chasidic story as is traditional on Saturday night.

A Word of Torah -  Living with the Times

Parshat Pinchas

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week’s Torah portion is named after a decisive, passionate, and exceedingly brave man, Pinchas the son of Elazar, the son of Aaron the (High) Priest. Last week’s portion concluded with the horrific sin carried out by a leader of the Tribe of Shimon whose name was Zimri. He publicly sinned with a Midianite Princess, Cozbi. When Pinchas saw the debauchery he followed the letter of the law and killed the sinners. He did so at great personal risk, as Zimri’s fellow tribesmen felt outraged that Pinchas would take the law into his own hands. Despite the imminent danger posed to his person Pinchas plunged forward and did what needed to be done.

Zimri was not the only person to sin with the Midianites, in fact a large number of people, particularly from the Tribe of Shimon participated. Due to their audacious sinfulness a terrible plague broke out and many thousands died. Pinchas’ quick actions lessened the extent of the plague and actually saved the lives of many people. It is for this reason that Pinchas was blessed with being made a Kohen (Priest) despite the fact that he had not been born one.

If we take a step back and review the story of the Jewish people after leaving Egypt we find several uplifting events, but we also see several failures. Some of the failures were quite dramatic and had far-reaching consequences for not only that generation, but for the future of the entire Jewish people in perpetuity. It can be argued that some of their decisions then impact us until today.

This week when thinking about these catastrophes I couldn’t help but think about the triumph of one particular segment of the Jewish people; Jewish women. The major failures that come to mind include the story of the Golden Calf, the Spies, the Rebellion of Korach and his cohorts, and consorting with the Midianites. The lack of participation by the Jewish women is in stark contrast to their Jewish brethren. Time and again the men failed – to the extent that the generation that left Egypt was destined to die in the desert rather than enter the Holy Land. We see disastrous plagues pummel the Jewish people. In fact during their 40-year sojourn in the desert their numbers decreased! But through it all the woman stayed strong and true, always remaining loyal adherents to the Torah.

In the portion of Pinchas we are reintroduced to the five daughters of Tzalafchad. Their father had died previously due to a sin. The rabbis discuss which specific sin he committed; it was either gathering wood on Shabbat or trying to conquer the land after G-d had already said not to – due to the sin of the spies. Tzalafchad had no sons, only daughters. When the laws of inheritance were first shared no provision was made for daughters who were in a family where there were no sons. That is until the daughters of Tzalafchad spoke up.

They firmly but respectfully pointed out a seeming inconsistency in the Torah regarding the status of a widowed woman who has no sons, only daughters, and the fact that no levirate marriage applies to her. If daughters count to negate levirate marriage, why should they not count to inherit land? Moshe was stumped by their question. He was also moved by it, so he presented the question to Almighty G-d, and prayed that G-d would respond positively. Indeed that is exactly what happened. In the merit of the Daughters of Tzalafchad the laws of inheritance were amended.

Strong women is a hallmark of Judaism. Jews have always been fiercely insistent on the need to give women the best Jewish educational opportunities. When contemporaries of the early Hebrews were treating their women as possessions, Jewish law made sure that the Jewish woman would be treated with the dignity and respect she deserves. And the Torah clearly spells out who remained righteous during the most difficult times and by whose merit we continue to exist till this very day.

It is for these very reasons that I cringe when people say that traditional Judaism treats women as second class citizens. It is absolutely ignorant and patently false to claim so.

May our righteous Jewish women lead us to the speedy arrival of the righteous Moshiach!  

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort is Director of Coastal Chabads and Chabad at La Costa. Rabbi Eilfort welcomes readers’ comments and questions and may be reached at [email protected].

 

Haftarah Thought

By: Chabad.org 

I Kings 18:46-19:21.

The prophet Elijah is the main protagonist of this week's haftorah. According to tradition, Elijah shared the same soul as Pinchas, the hero of this week's Torah portion. They also both zealously fought on G‑d's behalf, while disregarding the dangers involved.

Following the showdown with the Baal prophets at Mount Carmel, which led to the execution of the Baal priests, the evil Queen Jezebel issued a death sentence for Elijah. Elijah fled to the Judean desert and asked G‑d to take his life. While he slept, an angel awoke him and provided him with food and drink. Reenergized, Elijah went for forty days until he arrived at Mount Horeb (Sinai), and he slept in a cave on the mountain. And the word of G‑d came to him and asked him for the purpose of his visit. "And [Elijah] said: 'I have been zealous for G‑d, the Lord of Hosts, for the children of Israel have forsaken Your covenant. They have torn down Your altars and they have killed Your prophets by the sword, and I have remained alone, and they seek my life to take it."

Elijah was instructed to leave the cave and stand on the mountain: "Behold! G‑d's Presence will pass." There was a great and strong wind splitting mountains and shattering boulders, but Elijah realized that G‑d was not in the wind. Then came an earthquake followed by fire, but again Elijah understood that not in the earthquake nor the fire was G‑d. After the fire there was a subtle silent voice, and Elijah realized that the Divine Presence had appeared.

G‑d asked Elijah again for the purpose of his visit, and Elijah repeated his earlier response. G‑d instructed Elijah to go to Damascus and anoint Hazael as king of Aram and Jehu as king of Israel and to anoint Elisha as a prophet in his stead. These three would continue Elijah's battle against the Baal.

Elijah followed the instructions and he immediately found Elisha and recruited him as his aide and eventual successor.

 

SPECIAL WISHES
 

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended from all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus. May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Rusty Rack, Cheryl Ahlzadeh, Cindy Mintz, Gillie Klipper, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to  all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER  Jacques Van Dam, Len Sekela, Sol Katz, Rina Aivas, Marcus Mintz, Herman Barnett, Abraham Seigal, and all of those who have Yarzeit this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, and Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

CHABAD VIRTUAL ACADEMY
Get Some Class

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, either on Facebook or on YouTube (our channel is called the Chabad Virtual Academy).

If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please check the shul’s Facebook page for information on live broadcasts.  

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A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
Coastal Chabads are here for YOU

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

 

Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - NOW

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want. Send a personal email to   [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information.

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing’. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

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