Message from the Rabbi

At the heart of every Chabad House lies the spirit of Abraham’s inn, a place where all are welcomed warmly, given sustenance, and reminded of G-d’s presence in the world. Just as Abraham’s inn was a beacon of monotheism and ethical living in an idolatrous world, Chabad Houses around the globe serve as sanctuaries of light and faith in a world too often darkened by antisemitism and hostility. Today, Chabad Houses stand as symbols of Jewish pride and resilience. Our open doors embody an unwavering commitment to share the beauty of Jewish life and Torah values, regardless of the circumstances. In cities where antisemitism looms, a Chabad House is a reminder of Abraham’s legacy—a place where fear and hatred are met with love and learning. The influence of a Chabad House extends far beyond those who walk through its doors. Like Abraham’s inn, the mere presence of these institutions in a city radiates a powerful message of unity, kindness, and the steadfast presence of Jewish life. By boldly upholding Torah values in every corner of the globe, Chabad helps to foster a more compassionate and understanding world, bringing us closer to an era of peace and brotherhood that Abraham first envisioned. In an era where antisemitism seeks to divide and destroy, Chabad Houses stand as fortresses of faith and unity. May we soon witness the arrival of Moshiach, when all forms of hatred and antisemitism will be eradicated, and the world will be filled with peace and Divine light. Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE:

Friday, November 15 @ 4:29pm

Shabbat Ends: Saturday, November 16 @ 5:25pm

Come pick up a Shabbat Candle lighting kit with the prayers and instructions.

LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE

MAZEL TOV! IT’S OFFICIAL – WE HAVE OUR BUILDING PERMIT!

THANK YOU TO ALL OF OUR GENEROUS DONORS, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO HAVE MADE DEDICATIONS!

To review the DEDICATIONS that are still available click here: (Short link chabadatlacosta.com/JLC)

 

NEW JLI COURSE STARTED THIS WEEK

Nurturing Relationships 6 Weeks
Jewish Wisdom for Building Deeper, Richer Connection in All Your Relationships

Relationships don’t just happen—they’re nurtured. This course empowers you to enhance, enrich, and nurture all your interpersonal relationships—at home, at work, and beyond. 

Explore classic Jewish texts to uncover knowledge and skills for practicing

Empathy
Active Listening
Navigating Disagreement
Staying Positive
Influencing Others
Forgiveness

This course will satisfy most states' continuing education requirements for Medical Doctors, Psychologists, Social Workers, LMFTs, and LMHC/LPCs. 

Go to  myjli.com/continuingeducation for a complete accreditation statement.

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Textbook included (PDF or hardcopy) and the course is being recorded. YOU CAN STILL SIGN UP.

Call Nechama to Register 760-612-9787 or www.myJLI.com for more info

 

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Hebrew School News – HEBREW IMMERSION!

Yesterday we learned about the letter Gimmel ג and Geshem גשם . We started a curriculum where we will go through all of the Alef Bet and learn about something that we are grateful for, starting with the letter of the week. 
The first week was א אור . Alef for Ohr- light. And we made lanterns. 
Last week was ב בית. Bet for Bayit- house and we made Birchat Habayit   to hang in our homes. 
Yesterday we learned about Geshem- rain and made rain in a bottle! 

The children have also begun alef champ which is a self paced hebrew reading program. 

I am so proud of all of our ckids students and parents ❤

 

 

 

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Chanukah is Coming SOON…

We are proud to announce our full list of Chanukah activities! We sure hope YOU will join us.

Family Chanukah Experiences

• Encinitas Block Party, Dec. 25th, 4pm – 6pm (Contact us for the location.)
• Sunday, December 29th, 4:30pm – 6:30pm at the Forum Carlsbad
• Monday, December 30th, 4:30pm – 6:30pm at the Carlsbad Premium Outlets

 

Music

Chanukah Themed Arts-n-crafts

Dreidels Galore

Delicious Jelly Doughnuts

Homemade Hot Latkes & Applesauce

Live Entertainment

 

For more information, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/chanukah

 

Celebrating Thanksgiving as the Family We Are

We are again offering a Thanksgiving feast at the shul for those who wish to participate as a community. If your biological family is out of town and you are not able to travel to them, join your family here and celebrate with us!

Highlights of the evening will include a magnificent feast featuring turkey and all of the trimmings. As far as entertainment goes… Rabbi Eilfort bestows native American names on everyone who wants one. It is a once-a-year tradition going back decades and has become a focal point of the celebration.

The cost to attend is $36 per adult (13+) and $18 per child (3-12). Advanced reservations are a must by responding to this message. 

 

December 24^th Ancient Jewish American Custom Observed

On the evening of December 24^th, a much-observed custom has arisen amongst the Jewish community of the United States; to eat Chinese food. Being that there is a severe shortage of Kosher Chinese restaurants in San Diego, Chabad at La Costa will be offering a Chinese Food Feast! Not only will there be a full buffet of Chinese favorites, there will also be games and lots of fun!

Advanced reservations are a must by responding to this email.

The cost is $25 per adult (13+) and $10 per child (3-13).

 

Weekly Torah Class with Rabbi Sholom

Join Rabbi Sholom Eilfort, virtually, as he gives a weekly class in the Torah Portion. You can view the class on Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort’s Facebook feed (must be Facebook “Friends” with Rabbi Eilfort to be able to see the class).

A number of commentaries are curated to make the class profound while also covering the basics. Everyone is invited to join. There is no cost to participate.

Thursdays at 6pm.

 

Security Guard Sponsor Sought – Can You Help?

We have a wonderful security guard who keeps a watch over us while we are in services. The cost is $250 per week. We are looking for a sponsor this week and future weeks. If you are able to help please donate securely by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. Thank you!

 

How to Make a Donation (or Payment)

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides checks and cash. Following, please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account (even though they say Nechama's name).

1. PayPal  [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)   [email protected]

5. Personal credit card     chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

 

Kiddush Sponsor – ADDITIONAL SPONSORS SOUGHT

The Kiddush this week is being sponsored by Rabbi Yeruchem and Rebbetzin Nechama Eilfort in honor of the Yarzeit of David Eilfort, Dovid ben Zev, may his memory be a blessing.       

It is also being sponsored by an anonymous donor.     

Each Shabbos after services, our beautiful community enjoys Shabbos lunch together. It is a true celebration where we bask in each other’s company while savoring delicious food.

YOU ARE INVITED AND ENCOURAGED TO PARTICIPATE

We are always seeking additional sponsors, so if you can sponsor a Kiddush, please let us know.

An Important Note about Kiddushes –

The policy of the shul is to allow multiple sponsors for every Kiddush unless it is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah or something similar (like a 50th wedding anniversary etc.).

There is no such thing as an exclusive Kiddush sponsor.

This is our policy for numerous reasons, not least of which is the fact that Kiddush sponsorships help generate much-needed income for our community and encourages more people to participate.

We thank you for your support and understanding!

Soup & Challah Sponsors

Soup and Challah is being sponsored by Clive Walden & the estate of Channah Hale.

NEED MORE DRIVERS

Challah is delivered to Mental Health Residential Centers in the area, people undergoing chemotherapy, and people who really love the addition to their Shabbos experience. 

Deliver and get a bag of challah for your family as well!

One People with One G-d, One Torah, and One Land

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

The election is finally over.

Baruch Hashem! What a tremendous relief! And no, I am not referring to any particular race or ballot measure passing or failing. Rather, I have come to face each subsequent election cycle more apprehensively than the last.  

Is it just me, or does each successive election seem to be more contentious than the last? The level of hysteria, rhetoric and hyperbole goes north, while the level of mutual respect, and (dare I say it?) love, declines.

Yes! I am speaking to YOU. Each of us is mutually responsible for each other and if a negative is detected, it is up to us to address it and work on improving it. How? By modeling behavior that is appropriate, instructive, and inspirational.

We recently began our yearly cycle of “living with the times, the Weekly Torah portion.” As such we are currently “living with” our beloved Patriarchs and Matriarchs. Personally, I absolutely adore this part of the yearly narrative. I continue to be profoundly inspired by the lovingkindness of Abraham and Sarah, the intense spirituality and self-refinement of Isaac and Rebecca, and of the nation-building under the most challenging of circumstances of Jacob and Rachel, Leah, Bilhah and Zilpah.

Our Mothers and Fathers left us a legacy of feeling responsible not only for each other, but for the world at large. They demonstrated, through their actions, how to make a positive impact on the world.

Was their mission an easy one to accomplish? Not at all! In fact, it was fraught with difficulties and tests. But somehow they managed to transform those tests into opportunities for growth and catalysts to accomplish real, positive change in their surroundings.  

That ability and drive is found in each of us, it is in our DNA. It is why the Jewish people are born activists. It is why we continually feel the need to challenge the status quo, to not rest until we are satisfied that even the poorest stranger among us is properly cared for. But having the drive is not nearly enough. It behooves us to channel that drive, directing it in positive paths. An unchanneled drive, like a river that has overflowed its banks, is dangerous and destructive.

No, we must combine our drive with discretion, differentiating between worthy endeavors as opposed to destructive pursuits. In this case, good intentions are not enough. We must learn to judge the tree by the wholesomeness of the actual fruit it produces. If our driving energy leads us to burn down buildings, or to dehumanize those who think differently, we can rest assured that we are on the wrong path.

We must walk the narrow line of respecting everyone, and tolerating dissenting opinions, while at the same time remaining true to the ideals, ethics, and morals, of the Torah. We must always take the high road.

We see this approach modeled by our Patriarchs and Matriarchs. The world of politics, which is by definition divisive, should not be our driving motivation on a daily basis. The purpose of an election is to create one out of many. The many voices weigh in, and then, when the votes are counted and the majority found, we rejoin with each other as one people to work towards a better world. We must ascribe to all good intentions, not only when we agree, but especially when we disagree.

Interestingly, the Torah does not tell us Abraham’s feelings towards the ascension of Avimelech to the throne. Abraham concerned himself with other things – bringing Heaven down to earth knowing that immersion in politics would hinder his true calling.

Now, let us reinvigorate our devotion to G-d, to His Torah, to His Land, and to His People, and create One from the many!

 

 

Shabbos Parshas VaYeira

Kings II 4:1 -37.

In this week's Torah reading, G‑d promises a child to Abraham and Sarah, despite childless Sarah's advanced age. This week's haftorah describes a similar incident that occurred many years later — the prophet Elisha assuring an elderly childless woman that she will bear a child.

The  haftorah discusses two miracles performed by the prophet Elisha. The first miracle involved a widow who was heavily in debt, and her creditors were threatening to take her two sons as slaves to satisfy the debt. When the prophet asked her what she had in her home, the widow responded that she had nothing but a vial of oil. Elisha told her to gather as many empty containers as possible — borrowing from neighbors and friends as well. She should then pour oil from her vial into the empty containers. She did as commanded, and miraculously the oil continued to flow until the last empty jug was filled. The woman sold the oil for a handsome profit, and had enough money to repay her debts and live comfortably.

The second miracle: Elisha would often pass by the city of Shunam, where he would dine and rest at the home of a certain hospitable couple. This couple even made a special addition to their home, a guest room designated for Elisha's use. When the prophet learned that the couple was childless, he blessed the woman that she should give birth to a child in exactly one year's time. And indeed, one year later a son was born to the aged couple.

A few years later the son complained of a headache and died shortly thereafter. The Shunamit woman laid the lifeless body on the bed in Elisha's designated room, and quickly summoned the prophet. Elisha hurried to the woman's home and miraculously brought the boy back to life.

PLEASE CHECK YOUR CALENDAR FOR BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, AND YARZEITS AS WELL AS OTHER IMPORTANT DATES AND NEWS

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Sholom Eilfort, Madeleine Rott, Tanya Mintz, Jacob Reisman, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Faye Hale, Faye Infeld, David Eilfort, Jeri Reisman, Stephen Cohen, David Fish, Jennie Richard, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Mike Schwartz, Doreen Prager, Rachel Perez, Clive Walden, Sheila Lebovitz, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Rachel bas Shoshana, Roz Mintz, Sandra Sapol, Penny Chapman, Marissa Sacco, and Greg Leon be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

Kiddush Sponsors:

 

November 16^th – Eilfort Family in memory of David Eilfort
                          Anonymous

November 23^rd- Miriam Reisman in memory of Jeri Reisman

November 30^th – Perez Family in memory of Elias Perez
                          Alter Family in memory of Doris Markus
                          Naomi Judith in memory of Shmuel Moish Olkon

December 7: Chadwick Family in honor of Eli's Bar Mitzvah

KIDDUSH SPONSORS NEEDED

Sponsoring a Kiddush is a great way to feel part of the Chabad at La Costa family!
(You can co-sponsor a Kiddush)

Volunteering

Our Soup and Challah Project has been going on its FOURTH year! It was sponsored by Channah Hale and now carried on in her memory.

We are at the point that we need NEW volunteers to drive and deliver food packages around the area.

Please consider making this a part of your Friday routine. Volunteers pick up a few containers of soup and bags of challah at 3:00pm and delivering them to the door of the recipients. Volunteers also get soup and challah!

Enhanced Security

Our number one priority is to ensure the safety and security of our shul family. We have a robust security system in place. We have gone to the added expense of hiring a uniformed, armed guard, who is with us, watching over us, in addition to our internal security team. 

The added layer of security is expensive. Please help us by donating to the security of our shul community by following this link: www.chabadatlacosta.com/donate. The cost is approximately $300 per week. All donations are tax-deductible.

 

 

New Mitzvah Opportunity

Bikur Cholim of SD Volunteers Needed!

There are a number of patients at UCSD La Jolla that have come from Israel to receive transplants here. They need our help!

Bikur Cholim of S Diego is a community organization helping the sick with care packages, visitation, driving spouses to and from the hospital, etc.

If you are able to give a few hours of your time, it will make another person's day that much better!

To get involved, sign up at www.BikurCholimSD.com

 

The Foundation Project  - City Approved Plan

We are raising funds that will be used towards completing our basement. This project will include a TEEN LOUNGE, CLASSROOMS, a LIBRARY, OFFICES, STORAGE SPACE, BATHROOMS, and more. Call Rabbi to inquire about available dedications. The money we raise also goes towards scholarships for Hebrew School students, our Challah and Chicken Soup program, and all of our ongoing expenses.

New Dedications available www.chabadatlacosta.com/JLC

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Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - Now

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to [email protected] to schedule an appointment today.  

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett

Angela Chapman

Beverly Galperin

Anonymous 1

Channah Hale

Len Hyman

Devorah Katz

Sheila Lebovitz

Ilyse Loven

David Markoff

Anonymous 2

Karen Miller

Ed Richard

Ira Schechtel

Sharon Silverstein

Steve and Cindy Marion Walker

Anonymous 3

  *Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above. ​

 

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, on Facebook.

Rabbi Sholom Eilfort will be giving a class about Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah on Monday, Chol HaMo'ed Sukkos, at 6pm

JLI Course - this series of courses requires registration...
 

 

 Coastal Gan - GROWING AGAIN!

We are looking for NEW STUDENTS and NEW STAFF

We are accepting infant and preschool age children.

 

I Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group.  

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COMMUNITY NEWS

Kosher Food Options in SD:

Ralph's La Jolla - a full service Kosher market, bakery, and deli, dairy (CY) also available. Store Hours 5am to 1am. Counter hours 9-5 (Fridays 9-2)
8657 Villa La Jolla Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037
858-597-1550
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego and RCC  

Harissa - Mediterranean Cuisine  (used to be Botanic Burger) Sun 10:30am-5:30pm  Mon-Thurs 10:30am-8pm
4126 Executive Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037 (in the JCC)
858-362-1353
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego   

Parisien Gourmandises - Dairy items NOT CY Pareve items are acceptable, some CY items available  M-Th 9am-5:30pm 
7643 Girard Ave, La Jolla, CA 92037 (inside Floral Palette La Jolla)
858-352-6552
KSA Kosher  

Spice at the Oceanview cafeteria UCSD - Spice station is a international themed restaurant, located within the Oceanview Terrace at UCSD. Hrs?
9500 Gilman Drive 0512, Thurgood Marshall College, La Jolla, CA 92037
(858) 822-1677
Star-K  

Hamitbach - Israeli street food S-Th 11am-7pm F 11am-3pm
5664 Mission Center Rd #402, San Diego, CA 92108
Vaad HaRabbonim of San Diego

La Mesa Pizzaworks - Classic & Unique Pizzas. Ice cream Sun-Thurs 11am-8pm Fri 11am-2pm
Saturdays Closed (check out our social media and website for special Saturday Nights that we will be open) 
Dine in and takeout 
Lamesapizzaworks.com
7406 University ave, La Mesa, CA 91942
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.  

Boker Kitchen - Coffee, Breakfast, Pasta, Pizza S-Th 9am-8pm F 9am-3pm
8935 Towne Centre Dr, San Diego, CA 92122
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.  

Meats and Eats -  Shopping for kosher meat, and poultry, mostly frozen goods. Packaged groceries and baked goods. M-Th 9am -7pm
12925 El Camino Real J-0, San Diego, CA 92130
(760) 756-7437
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Check packages for Kosher status. 

Mega Glatt Mart - Large variety of meat and groceries. Hours S-Th 9-6 Fr 9-3
6375 El Cajon Blvd suite F San Diego, CA 92115
(310) 663-6528
Prepackaged items under RCC Check packages for Kosher status. 

 

DAILY JEWISH NEWS Available in Your Inbox for Free!

Sign up, as we have, for the daily Jewish news by subscribing to the www.sdjewishworld.com. Our dear friend and noted writer, Don Harrison, curates a refreshing variety of Jewish-interest stories. The daily emails are refreshing, as they come from a Jewish perspective. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. Simply logon to the website and follow the prompts to subscribe.

 

Security Protocols

Everyone is Subject to Search

No Firearms (We have a well-defined security plan in effect and any unauthorized firearms could create confusion and actually reduce security).

Backpacks Prohibited

All Bags Subject to Search

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email   [email protected] your request.

 

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

 

Membership

NOW is the time to join the family! Membership includes High Holiday seats and discounts on other programs and activities. However, the main reason to join is to demonstrate your commitment to the future of Judaism in our area and to our community.

If you have already filled out and returned your Membership form please accept this message as our sincere thank you!

We urge you to pick the level of Membership and the financial commitment you feel comfortable with, and to fill out the form that you will find by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership. We thank all of our amazing donors!

 

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *Jewish Encinitas *Chabad of Carlsbad N *Coastal Gan Preschool *Ckids Hebrew School

 

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

 

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

 

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

 

Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul

We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.

Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows.

Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions.

Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage.

If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!

THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation.

 

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the Chabad code when booking.

More than 600 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

For discount details, to make your reservation, or to share the information with a friend, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/omni and click through. And remember to leave a positive review.

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► Marc Buksbaum is an experienced local transactional attorney and former certified public accountant. Marc has experience in a wide range of business matters, including corporate/venture formations, mergers and acquisitions, financing transactions, and supply chain transactions, and his colleagues also have extensive experience in complex real estate and estate planning matters. Marc is licensed to practice law in California and New York and is a Certified Public Accountant (on “inactive status”) licensed in New York. If you have any questions or need help with your legal matter please contact Marc  at: 
Marc Buksbaum
Attorney at Law 
JUDKINS GLATT & RICH LLP
2784 Gateway Road, Suite 104
Carlsbad, CA  92009 
T 760 438 2211
F 760 438 2014  

►Rina Coleman is an Enrolled Agent with more than 20 years experience preparing taxes for all walks of life. Please contact her at [email protected] for a free 15 minute consultation.

►Marc Nimetz Farmers Insurance

It's almost all the same, until you have a claim!

Marc Nimetz
Farmers Insurance                                                
15644 Pomerado Road, Suite 104                                  
Poway, CA 92064
License #0H35885
858-866-8147 (Office)
858-603-4961 (Cell)
858-815-6930 (Fax)

►Jonathan Rozansky : Your Chabad Real Estate Agent & Mortgage Broker 
Whether you are Selling, Buying or Refinancing your home, do not proceed without calling Jonathan Rozansky, a licensed realtor and mortgage professional, first.  Jonathan will look out for your best interest and can answer all your real estate and financing questions.  Call for a free market analysis report today.

Jonathan Rozansky
Direct   (619) 392-1234
[email protected]
www.rozanskyteam.com
DRE. # 01754457
NMLS ID : 315987

► Ron Lewis Insurance Services

www.MedigapExpress.com
[email protected]
760-525-5769 - Cell
866-718-1600 - Toll-free

Specializing in Medicare Supplement (Medigap) Insurance! 

• As an independent agent, I work with ALL the major insurance carriers.

• Let me do the shopping for you!

• I will save you money on your insurance premiums.

• Call me for a free, no-obligation quote.

• References available upon request.

 

► Neal Sperling Business Development

Highly talented, highly experienced business development/marketing consultant to wide range of businesses and non-profits can help you to find innovative new ways to raise money, launch, brand, market, sell, merchandise, and promote your products, services, and organization. Has written and improved wide variety of business plans, marketing plans, obtained major grants/new funding for a wide variety of ventures. Has unique ability to study most any business, quickly and creatively identify new sources of potential revenue, reduce costs, increase efficiencies, and drive more sales in the quickest time frames. Recognized expert on how to drive new sales via the internet. Acclaimed speaker to Southern California business groups, and particularly known for being a great “connector” with ability to introduce you to a wide variety of hard-to-reach decision-makers in various fields. Strong background in consumer products, medical products, high tech, "clean tech," "green" products, non-profits, much more. Call for details: cell: 818-219-9585.

 

►Dream Home Cinema

*Family Room Surround
*Wholesale House Audio
*Home Automation

Joseph Markowitz:
760-415-8742 
[email protected]

►Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoos

I am a small Jewish farmer running my business in La Costa  called Pammy's Pony Parties and Petting Zoo. I arrive with my animals at little children's birthday parties, senior homes,  graduation parties, and resorts in the area, to share my love of animals. I also do animal therapy with children and adults. Fantastic!! Call me to make an appointment or set up a birthday party.

Pam Glickman 760-535-5293

►Healthy Haven Live Radio Show with Anna Mintz

►Window Paintings and Murals by Eileen Tilt-Lavy contact info available

Cost Effective Advertising Available HERE

Hundreds of people see Chabad at La Costa's Weekly Email Update. Those who are looking to effectively promote their business and at the same time support this important community resource are invited to become sponsors for only $50 per month (that's per MONTH, not per week). Call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891 to get your message out there.

Message from the Rabbi

In a world where challenges abound, it’s easy to fall into the habit of playing the victim, to attribute failures to forces beyond our control, or to throw up our hands and give up. Our forefather Abraham could have done just that. His life mission—to share the belief in One G-d with a world steeped in idolatry—came at a tremendous personal cost. He faced persecution, exile, and even a death sentence. Yet, Abraham never pointed fingers, complained, or gave up. Instead, he lived his beliefs fully and persistently, even under the threat of death. For Abraham, martyrdom wasn’t the goal; bringing G-d’s presence into the world was. He knew that every moment he continued his mission was a moment of victory over darkness. This refusal to give up, to play the victim, set the foundation for the Jewish people. Today, we face our own challenges. Like Abraham, we inherit a resilience that defies circumstances. Giving up simply isn’t in our DNA. Our purpose is to bring light and hope, no matter how dark the world may seem. We refuse to be victims—our mission is far too important for that. Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

Friday, November 8 @ 4:33pm

Shabbat Ends: Saturday, November 9 @ 5:29pm

Come pick up a Shabbat Candle lighting kit with the prayers and instructions.

LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE

MAZEL TOV! IT’S OFFICIAL – WE HAVE OUR BUILDING PERMIT!

THANK YOU TO ALL OF OUR GENEROUS DONORS, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO HAVE MADE DEDICATIONS!

To review the DEDICATIONS that are still available click here: (Short link chabadatlacosta.com/JLC)

 

NEW JLI COURSE BEGINS THIS WEEK

Nurturing Relationships
Jewish Wisdo m for Building Deeper, Richer Connection in All Your Relationships

Relationships don’t just happen—they’re nurtured. This course empowers you to enhance, enrich, and nurture all your interpersonal relationships—at home, at work, and beyond. 

Explore classic Jewish texts to uncover knowledge and skills for practicing empathy, active listening, agreeable disagreement, interpersonal optimism, constructive criticism, and effective relationship repair. 

This course will satisfy most states' continuing education requirements for Medical Doctors, Psychologists, Social Workers, LMFTs, and LMHC/LPCs. 

Go to  myjli.com/continuingeducation for a complete accreditation statement.

Call Nechama to Register 760-612-9787 www.myJLI.com for more info

 

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Hebrew School News – HEBREW IMMERSION!

 

 

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Thanksgiving at Chabad!

Thanksgiving Dinner with all the fixings coming soon.

 

Chinese Food on the 24th

Also watch for a FUN and DELICIOUS Chinese food celebration coming soon.

 

Membership:

Thank you to those who have already made their Membership commitment and those who have made a monthly financial commitment to your community!

Membership information can be found here: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership .

 

Weekly Torah Class with Rabbi Sholom

Join Rabbi Sholom Eilfort, virtually, as he gives a weekly class in the Torah Portion. You can view the class on Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort’s Facebook feed (must be Facebook “Friends” with Rabbi Eilfort to be able to see the class).

A number of commentaries are curated to make the class profound while also covering the basics. Everyone is invited to join. There is no cost to participate.

Thursdays at 6pm.

Security Guard Sponsor Sought – Can You Help?

We have a wonderful security guard who keeps a watch over us while we are in services. The cost is $250 per week. We are looking for a sponsor this week and future weeks. If you are able to help please donate securely by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. Thank you!

 

How to Make a Donation (or Payment)

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides checks and cash. Following, please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account (even though they say Nechama's name).

1. PayPal  [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)   [email protected]

5. Personal credit card     chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

 

Kiddush Sponsor – ADDITIONAL SPONSORS SOUGHT

The Kiddush this week is being sponsored by Miriam Reisman in memory of her late mother-in-law, Esther Chaye Reisman.

It is also being sponsored by Beverly Galperin and family in memory of Misha Galperin and Sofiya Margolina.     

Each Shabbos after services, our beautiful community enjoys Shabbos lunch together. It is a true celebration where we bask in each other’s company while savoring delicious food.

YOU ARE INVITED AND ENCOURAGED TO PARTICIPATE

We are always seeking additional sponsors, so if you can sponsor a Kiddush, please let us know.

An Important Note about Kiddushes –

The policy of the shul is to allow multiple sponsors for every Kiddush unless it is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah or something similar (like a 50th wedding anniversary etc.).

There is no such thing as an exclusive Kiddush sponsor.

This is our policy for numerous reasons, not least of which is the fact that Kiddush sponsorships help generate much-needed income for our community and encourages more people to participate.

We thank you for your support and understanding!

Soup & Challah Sponsors

Soup and Challah is being sponsored by Clive Walden & the estate of Channah Hale.

NEED MORE DRIVERS

Challah is delivered to Mental Health Residential Centers in the area, people undergoing chemotherapy, and people who really love the addition to their Shabbos experience. 

Deliver and get a bag of challah for your family as well!

One People with One G-d, One Torah, and One Land

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

The election is finally over.

Baruch Hashem! What a tremendous relief! And no, I am not referring to any particular race or ballot measure passing or failing. Rather, I have come to face each subsequent election cycle more apprehensively than the last.  

Is it just me, or does each successive election seem to be more contentious than the last? The level of hysteria, rhetoric and hyperbole goes north, while the level of mutual respect, and (dare I say it?) love, declines.

Yes! I am speaking to YOU. Each of us is mutually responsible for each other and if a negative is detected, it is up to us to address it and work on improving it. How? By modeling behavior that is appropriate, instructive, and inspirational.

We recently began our yearly cycle of “living with the times, the Weekly Torah portion.” As such we are currently “living with” our beloved Patriarchs and Matriarchs. Personally, I absolutely adore this part of the yearly narrative. I continue to be profoundly inspired by the lovingkindness of Abraham and Sarah, the intense spirituality and self-refinement of Isaac and Rebecca, and of the nation-building under the most challenging of circumstances of Jacob and Rachel, Leah, Bilhah and Zilpah.

Our Mothers and Fathers left us a legacy of feeling responsible not only for each other, but for the world at large. They demonstrated, through their actions, how to make a positive impact on the world.

Was their mission an easy one to accomplish? Not at all! In fact, it was fraught with difficulties and tests. But somehow they managed to transform those tests into opportunities for growth and catalysts to accomplish real, positive change in their surroundings.  

That ability and drive is found in each of us, it is in our DNA. It is why the Jewish people are born activists. It is why we continually feel the need to challenge the status quo, to not rest until we are satisfied that even the poorest stranger among us is properly cared for. But having the drive is not nearly enough. It behooves us to channel that drive, directing it in positive paths. An unchanneled drive, like a river that has overflowed its banks, is dangerous and destructive.

No, we must combine our drive with discretion, differentiating between worthy endeavors as opposed to destructive pursuits. In this case, good intentions are not enough. We must learn to judge the tree by the wholesomeness of the actual fruit it produces. If our driving energy leads us to burn down buildings, or to dehumanize those who think differently, we can rest assured that we are on the wrong path.

We must walk the narrow line of respecting everyone, and tolerating dissenting opinions, while at the same time remaining true to the ideals, ethics, and morals, of the Torah. We must always take the high road.

We see this approach modeled by our Patriarchs and Matriarchs. The world of politics, which is by definition divisive, should not be our driving motivation on a daily basis. The purpose of an election is to create one out of many. The many voices weigh in, and then, when the votes are counted and the majority found, we rejoin with each other as one people to work towards a better world. We must ascribe to all good intentions, not only when we agree, but especially when we disagree.

Interestingly, the Torah does not tell us Abraham’s feelings towards the ascension of Avimelech to the throne. Abraham concerned himself with other things – bringing Heaven down to earth knowing that immersion in politics would hinder his true calling.

Now, let us reinvigorate our devotion to G-d, to His Torah, to His Land, and to His People, and create One from the many!

 

 

Shabbos Parshas Lech Lecha

Isaiah 40:27-41:16.

The haftorah for this week discusses Abraham's journey to the land of Canaan at G‑d's behest, and touches upon Abraham's miraculous battle against the four kings, both of which are described in this week's Torah reading.

The prophet Isaiah addresses Israel's complaint: ""My way [of serving  G‑d] has been ignored by the Lord, and from my G‑d, my judgment passes [unrewarded]."

Isaiah reminds Israel of the Creator's greatness. The time will come when "He will give the tired strength, and to him who has no strength, He will increase strength. Youths shall become tired and weary, and young men shall stumble, but those who put their hope in the Lord shall renew [their] vigor, they shall raise wings as eagles; they shall run and not weary, they shall walk and not tire." Nevertheless, "there is no comprehension of His wisdom," and as such, at times we cannot understand why He chooses to delay the reward of the righteous.

The  haftorah then turns its attention to the idolatrous nations of the world. Isaiah reminds them of Abraham's greatness, how after arriving in  Canaan he pursued and defeated four mighty kings. "The islands saw and feared; the ends of the earth quaked." Nevertheless, the nations who witness these miracles did not abandon their ways. "The [idol] craftsman strengthened the smith, the one who smoothes [the idol] with the hammer strengthened the one who wields the sledge hammer; the one who glues its coating says, 'It is good,' and he strengthened it with nails that it should not move..."

G‑d promises the Jewish nation to reward them for their loyalty to G‑d. "Do not fear for I am with you; be not discouraged for I am your G‑d. . . Behold all those incensed against you shall be ashamed and confounded; those who quarreled with you shall be as naught and be lost."

PLEASE CHECK YOUR CALENDAR FOR BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, AND YARZEITS AS WELL AS OTHER IMPORTANT DATES AND NEWS

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Ilana Israel, Avi Odenheimer, Jocelyn Odenheimer, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER William Ruden, Sofiya Margolina, William Coulson, Arline Gutin, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Mike Schwartz, Doreen Prager, Rachel Perez, Clive Walden, Sheila Lebovitz, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Rachel bas Shoshana, Roz Mintz, Sandra Sapol, Penny Chapman and Greg Leon be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

Kiddush Sponsors:

 

November 9^th – Miriam Reisman in memory of Esther Chaye Reisman

November 16^th – Eilfort Family in memory of David Eilfort
                          Anonymous

November 23^rd- Miriam Reisman in memory of Jeri Reisman

November 30^th – Perez Family in memory of Elias Perez
                          Alter Family in memory of Doris Markus
                          Naomi Judith in memory of Shmuel Moish Olkon

KIDDUSH SPONSORS NEEDED

Sponsoring a Kiddush is a great way to feel part of the Chabad at La Costa family!
(You can co-sponsor a Kiddush)

New Mitzvah Opportunity

Bikur Cholim of SD Volunteers Needed!

There are a number of patients at UCSD La Jolla that have come from Israel to receive transplants here. They need our help!

Bikur Cholim of S Diego is a community organization helping the sick with care packages, visitation, driving spouses to and from the hospital, etc.

If you are able to give a few hours of your time, it will make another person's day that much better!

To get involved, sign up at www.BikurCholimSD.com

 

Volunteering

Our Soup and Challah Project has been going on its FOURTH year! It was sponsored by Channah Hale and now carried on in her memory.

We are at the point that we need NEW volunteers to drive and deliver food packages around the area.

Please consider making this a part of your Friday routine. Volunteers pick up a few containers of soup and bags of challah at 3:00pm and delivering them to the door of the recipients. Volunteers also get soup and challah!

Enhanced Security

Our number one priority is to ensure the safety and security of our shul family. We have a robust security system in place. We have gone to the added expense of hiring a uniformed, armed guard, who is with us, watching over us, in addition to our internal security team. 

The added layer of security is expensive. Please help us by donating to the security of our shul community by following this link: www.chabadatlacosta.com/donate. The cost is approximately $300 per week. All donations are tax-deductible.

 

The Foundation Project  - City Approved Plan

We are raising funds that will be used towards completing our basement. This project will include a TEEN LOUNGE, CLASSROOMS, a LIBRARY, OFFICES, STORAGE SPACE, BATHROOMS, and more. Call Rabbi to inquire about available dedications. The money we raise also goes towards scholarships for Hebrew School students, our Challah and Chicken Soup program, and all of our ongoing expenses.

New Dedications available www.chabadatlacosta.com/JLC

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Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - Now

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to [email protected] to schedule an appointment today.  

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett

Angela Chapman

Beverly Galperin

Anonymous 1

Channah Hale

Len Hyman

Devorah Katz

Sheila Lebovitz

Ilyse Loven

David Markoff

Anonymous 2

Karen Miller

Ed Richard

Ira Schechtel

Sharon Silverstein

Steve and Cindy Marion Walker

Anonymous 3

  *Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above. ​

 

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, on Facebook.

Rabbi Sholom Eilfort will be giving a class about Shemini Atzeres and Simchas Torah on Monday, Chol HaMo'ed Sukkos, at 6pm

JLI Course - this series of courses requires registration...
 

 

 Coastal Gan - GROWING AGAIN!

We are looking for NEW STUDENTS and NEW STAFF

We are accepting infant and preschool age children.

 

I Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group.  

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COMMUNITY NEWS

Kosher Food Options in SD:

Ralph's La Jolla - a full service Kosher market, bakery, and deli, dairy (CY) also available. Store Hours 5am to 1am. Counter hours 9-5 (Fridays 9-2)
8657 Villa La Jolla Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037
858-597-1550
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego and RCC  

Harissa - Mediterranean Cuisine  (used to be Botanic Burger) Sun 10:30am-5:30pm  Mon-Thurs 10:30am-8pm
4126 Executive Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037 (in the JCC)
858-362-1353
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego   

Parisien Gourmandises - Dairy items NOT CY Pareve items are acceptable, some CY items available  M-Th 9am-5:30pm 
7643 Girard Ave, La Jolla, CA 92037 (inside Floral Palette La Jolla)
858-352-6552
KSA Kosher  

Spice at the Oceanview cafeteria UCSD - Spice station is a international themed restaurant, located within the Oceanview Terrace at UCSD. Hrs?
9500 Gilman Drive 0512, Thurgood Marshall College, La Jolla, CA 92037
(858) 822-1677
Star-K  

Hamitbach - Israeli street food S-Th 11am-7pm F 11am-3pm
5664 Mission Center Rd #402, San Diego, CA 92108
Vaad HaRabbonim of San Diego

La Mesa Pizzaworks - Classic & Unique Pizzas. Ice cream Sun-Thurs 11am-8pm Fri 11am-2pm
Saturdays Closed (check out our social media and website for special Saturday Nights that we will be open) 
Dine in and takeout 
Lamesapizzaworks.com
7406 University ave, La Mesa, CA 91942
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.  

Boker Kitchen - Coffee, Breakfast, Pasta, Pizza S-Th 9am-8pm F 9am-3pm
8935 Towne Centre Dr, San Diego, CA 92122
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.  

Meats and Eats -  Shopping for kosher meat, and poultry, mostly frozen goods. Packaged groceries and baked goods. M-Th 9am -7pm
12925 El Camino Real J-0, San Diego, CA 92130
(760) 756-7437
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Check packages for Kosher status. 

Mega Glatt Mart - Large variety of meat and groceries. Hours S-Th 9-6 Fr 9-3
6375 El Cajon Blvd suite F San Diego, CA 92115
(310) 663-6528
Prepackaged items under RCC Check packages for Kosher status. 

 

DAILY JEWISH NEWS Available in Your Inbox for Free!

Sign up, as we have, for the daily Jewish news by subscribing to the www.sdjewishworld.com. Our dear friend and noted writer, Don Harrison, curates a refreshing variety of Jewish-interest stories. The daily emails are refreshing, as they come from a Jewish perspective. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. Simply logon to the website and follow the prompts to subscribe.

 

Security Protocols

Everyone is Subject to Search

No Firearms (We have a well-defined security plan in effect and any unauthorized firearms could create confusion and actually reduce security).

Backpacks Prohibited

All Bags Subject to Search

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email   [email protected] your request.

 

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

 

Membership

NOW is the time to join the family! Membership includes High Holiday seats and discounts on other programs and activities. However, the main reason to join is to demonstrate your commitment to the future of Judaism in our area and to our community.

If you have already filled out and returned your Membership form please accept this message as our sincere thank you!

We urge you to pick the level of Membership and the financial commitment you feel comfortable with, and to fill out the form that you will find by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership. We thank all of our amazing donors!

 

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *Jewish Encinitas *Chabad of Carlsbad N *Coastal Gan Preschool *Ckids Hebrew School

 

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

 

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

 

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

 

Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul

We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.

Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows.

Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions.

Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage.

If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!

THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation.

 

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the Chabad code when booking.

More than 600 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

For discount details, to make your reservation, or to share the information with a friend, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/omni and click through. And remember to leave a positive review.

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Message from the Rabbi

Yom Kippur is a day deeply associated with repentance and atonement. In fact, that’s what its name signifies: the Day of Atonement. But what truly leads to atonement on this day? While “repentance” is often used to translate the Hebrew word teshuvah, a more accurate definition is “return.” On Yom Kippur, we shed our external differences and return to our core essence; the root of our souls is revealed. In this process, we return to G-d. Teshuvah itself can take two forms. We can return to G-d out of fear, recognizing that our sins have created a separation and we fear the consequences. Or, we can return to G-d out of love, reaching for the infinite. When we realize that, at its core, our relationship with G-d is never truly broken by sin, only concealed, we can focus on strengthening this bond. Yom Kippur then becomes not about the fear of punishment, but about a boundless expression of love. G-d loves us, and we love G-d, leaving no room for negativity—it’s all about nurturing the relationship. This message feels especially poignant this year, as we mark the first anniversary of the events of October 7. Now, more than ever, we need an outpouring of love. We’ve endured enough pain, and all the Jewish people long for is peace, tranquility, and above all, the deep recognition that our relationship with G-d is inherently good. Wishing you a gemar chatimah tovah,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

Full Candle Lighting Schedule Below

 

Shabbat Ends: Saturday @ 7:04pm

Come pick up a Shabbat Candle lighting kit with the prayers and instructions.

LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE

Scheduled Services This Week Found Below

 

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HIGH HOLIDAYS APPLICATION & SCHEDULE

LAST CALL - RESERVATIONS REQUIRED TO ATTEND

YOU are invited to join us for our meaningful and uplifting High Holiday services! Please fill out and return the High Holiday portion of the Membership application you received in the mail or RSVP online at www.chabadatlacosta.com/HHRSVP. We are also offering gourmet community meals to which you are invited.

HIGH HOLIDAY SCHEDULE (RESERVATIONS REQUIRED)

Dear Friend,

A new year is upon us! This means new life, new energy, and G-d willing, new blessings!  

As the high holidays approach, the time when we renew the energy for the coming year, we pray that this year the decrees that are formed through our prayers and our shared heart will bring great blessings to all of those who have suffered pain and loss and indeed bring true peace to the larger community.     

This season is the "engine" that propels and guides the Journey of the coming year. This is the season when our coming year is fueled. With G-d’s help, our tanks should be topped off!

As we set out on this annual experience, we undergo a thorough tune up!  In fact, this will begin with the majestic "tune" of the Shofar. The sound of renewal, the sound that resonates with the deepest part of our soul as it touches our hearts and inspires us to grow spiritually.

Please join us for the High Holidays.  At Chabad everyone is welcome, no matter, religious, educational or economic background.  Our motto is: “The doors of heaven are open and so are ours!”

May G-d grant you and yours, together with all our brethren-especially those in the Holy Land-a healthy sweet, and prosperous New Year, and may you be inscribed and sealed in the Book of Life.

May this be the year of redemption from all negative matters! A year of light! A year of joy! May you and yours be inscribed for a healthy and prosperous year! 

Sincerely,

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Elia & Chaya Eilfort

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yossi & Muka Rodal

 

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Yizkor Memorial Service on Yom Kippur

Those who would like their loved ones’ names read out loud from the Bimah need to submit those names no later than Friday, October 11 at 12pm.

An $18 per name donation is recommended: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate.

This Yom Kippur we will also be commemorating those who  perished last October 7^th and in terrorists attacks in Israel, as well as the brave men and women who have passed fighting for Israel this year.

 

HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICES

with Deep Meaning and Inspirational Spirit!

• No Membership Fees or Tickets

• No Affiliation Necessary

• Traditional and Inspirational Services

• Hebrew/English Prayer-Books

• Warm and Friendly Atmosphere

• Special Children's Program & Service

 

SAVE THE DATES!

YOM KIPPUR

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Friday, Oct. 11, 2024

Morning Services: 8:30 am

Afternoon Service: 4:30 pm

Pre-Fast Meal: 5:00 pm *Menu Below

Light Candles at 6:02 pm

Fast Begins at 6:02 pm

Kol Nidrei Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 12, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Yizkor Memorial Service: 12:00 pm

Afternoon Service: 4:30 pm

Neilah Closing Service: 5:30 pm

Fast Ends at 6:56 pm

Followed by light refreshments sponsored by George Reh

 

SUKKOT

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Wednesday, Oct. 16, 2024

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

Community Dinner in the Sukkah: 6:30 pm

 

Thursday, Oct. 17, 2024

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

 

Friday, Oct. 18, 2024

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 19, 2024

Shabbat Chol Hamoed

Morning Services: 10:00 am

 

Sunday, Oct. 10

Suktoberfest (Beer & Brats in the Sukkah): 5pm – 7pm

 

* Light only from a pre-existing flame

** To learn more about Eruv Tavshilin vist www.chabad.org/Eruv

Note: Candle lighting times are for Carlsbad/Encinitas only.

Join your FAMILY at Chabad at La Costa!

 

Community Meals Menus

Erev Yom Kippur*

Chicken Soup with Kreplach

Oven Baked chicken

Roasted Vegetables

Mashed Potatoes

Kasha & Varnishkes (Kasha & Bowties)

Pasta

Grapes

Watermelon

 

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Hebrew School News – HEBREW IMMERSION!

Upcoming Family Event

 

Rosh Hashana Ckids Program

How Teshuva Works Experiment

Tashlich at S Marcos Creek Bridge

 

 

 

THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE ALREADY PARTICIPATED!

Come See Our Torah Table Cover Dedicated to the Victims of October 7th

Torah Table Cover In Loving Memory of the Martyrs of October 7th which we will use on Shmini Atzeret and Simchat Torah.

Dear Friends,

Our most sincere thank you goes out to all of you who helped sponsor the Torah Reading Table Cover in memory of the martyrs of the October 7^th attack.

Specifically, we thank:

Anonymous

Renee Cohen

Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort

Martin & Arlene Fogel

Jeremy Gottlieb

Suzanne Haray

Len Hyman

Beverly Larner

Julia Lutch

David & Anna Mintz

Mindey Morrison

Larry & Rochelle Neugarten

Melissa Prager

Daniel Preissman

Steve & Linda Rivkin

Sharna Skjei

Arnold Tubis

Pinchas Winograd

Wishing you and yours a Happy, Healthy, and Successful New Year!

Sincerely,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

 

 

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MEMBERSHIP DRIVE

 

September 2, ‘24

Erev Rosh Chodesh Elul, 5784

Dear Friends,

All year long we are here for your Jewish needs. We offer uplifting services on Shabbat and Holidays, educational opportunities for all ages-from Coastal Gan to Hebrew School to C-Kids to JLI etc., community meals, educational publications, joyous celebrations, life-cycle events, individual pastoral counseling and support, outreach activities, and SO MUCH MORE!

It is with joy and positive energy that we offer everything we do to YOU, our beloved community.

Is Chabad for you? YES! If you want to connect with the Jewish community and G-d, we welcome you here – WITH OPEN ARMS! You do NOT have to be ‘Orthodox’ or observant to feel at home and to be welcome. Everyone is welcome regardless of level of observance or knowledge, background or affiliation. YOU ARE WELCOME HERE! Even if you cannot afford Membership dues, YOU ARE WELCOME HERE!

It is at this time of year that we ask you to partner with us by committing to help financially support the community for the coming year.

Please follow the link provided below to indicate your level of support. 

If you want to join us for our amazing High Holiday services, ADVANCE RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED. www.chabadatlacosta.com/hhrsvp

Chabad at La Costa has no outside support (there is no Chabad ‘superfund’), which means that we must be financially self-reliant. Think about the costs involved in keeping the lights on, the workers paid, the food served, and all of the materials we provide.

Can we count on YOU this year?

Wishing you G-d’s unlimited blessings with our deep appreciation!

Shanah Tovah Umitukah – May you and yours be blessed with a Sweet, Happy, and Healthy New Year!

Rabbi Yeruchem & Rebbetzin Nechama Eilfort

Rabbi Elia & Rebbetzin Chaya Eilfort

PS. Anyone who wants to be a Member is welcome regardless of financial situation, and may be assured of absolute confidentiality in this matter.

Thank you to those who have already made their Membership commitment and those who have made a monthly financial commitment to your community!

Membership information can be found here: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership .

 

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Security Guard Sponsor Sought – Can You Help?

We have a wonderful security guard who keeps a watch over us while we are in services. The cost is $250 per week. We are looking for a sponsor this week and future weeks. If you are able to help please donate securely by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. Thank you!

 

How to Make a Donation (or Payment)

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides checks and cash. Following, please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account (even though they say Nechama's name).

1. PayPal  [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)   [email protected]

5. Personal credit card     chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

 

Kiddush Sponsor

The break the fast after Yom Kippur is being sponsored by George Reah in memory of his mother, Edith Reh Mautner.     

Each Shabbos after services, our beautiful community enjoys Shabbos lunch together. It is a true celebration where we bask in each other’s company while savoring delicious food.

YOU ARE INVITED AND ENCOURAGED TO PARTICIPATE

We are always seeking additional sponsors, so if you can sponsor a Kiddush, please let us know.

An Important Note about Kiddushes –

The policy of the shul is to allow multiple sponsors for every Kiddush unless it is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah or something similar (like a 50th wedding anniversary etc.).

There is no such thing as an exclusive Kiddush sponsor.

This is our policy for numerous reasons, not least of which is the fact that Kiddush sponsorships help generate much-needed income for our community and encourages more people to participate.

We thank you for your support and understanding!

Soup & Challah Sponsors

Soup and Challah is being sponsored by Clive Walden & the estate of Channah Hale. A big Yasher Koach to our volunteer deliverers, Josh Silverstein. NEED MORE DRIVERS

Challah is delivered to Mental Health Residential Centers in the area, people undergoing chemotherapy, and people who really love the addition to their Shabbos experience. 

Deliver and get a bag of challah for your family as well!

Haftarah for -

Yom Kippur Morning:

Isaiah 57:14-58:14

Today's haftorah discusses the concepts of repentance and fasting, the theme du jour of Yom Kippur.

The prophecy begins with the words "Pave, pave, clear the way; remove the obstacles from the way of My people." A reference to the Yetzer Hara ("evil inclination") which must be removed to pave the way for sincere repentance. G‑d assures that He will not be forever angry at those who repent, and that instead He will heal them and lead them. The wicked, on the other hand, are compared to a turbulent sea: "there is no peace for the wicked."

G‑d exhorts the prophet Isaiah to admonish the people regarding their fasting ways which G‑d finds reprehensible — a message which resonated to this very day:

"Daily they pretend to seek Me, desiring knowledge of My ways . . . 'Why have we fasted and You did not see?' they ask. 'We have afflicted our soul and You do not know?' Behold, on the day of your fast you pursue your affairs, and from all your debtors you forcibly exact payment. Behold, for quarrel and strife you fast, and to strike with a fist of wickedness. You do not fast in keeping with the spirit of the day, to make your voice heard on high. Is this a fast that I will choose? . . . Is it to bow down his head like a bulrush and spread out sackcloth and ashes beneath him?"

Instead, Isaiah teaches the Jews the proper way to fast:

"Loosen the fetters of wickedness, untie the bands of perverseness, send the oppressed free, and break every oppressive yoke. Offer your bread to the hungry, bring the wandering poor into your home. When you see someone naked, clothe him . . . Then you shall call and the L-rd shall answer, you shall cry and He shall say, 'Here I am.' . . . G‑d will always guide you and satiate your soul with radiance; He will strengthen your bones and you will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never cease..."

The  haftorah concludes with the promise of great rewards for those who honor and take delight in the Shabbat.

 

Yom Kippur Afternoon:

Book of Jonah;  Micha 7:18-20.

The entire Book of Jonah is read today as it contains an important and timely message on prayer and repentance. Click here for more on the connection between the Book of Jonah and Yom Kippur.

G‑d ordered the prophet Jonah to travel to Nineveh and present its wicked inhabitants with an ultimatum: repent or be destroyed. Jonah refused to comply with this directive, and fled on a boat. Strong winds threatened to destroy the ship, lots were cast among the crew and passengers and the lottery indicated that Jonah was the cause of the turbulent storm. He admitted his guilt and requested to be cast into the sea. Jonah was thrown into the raging sea and the storm abated.

Jonah was swallowed by a big fish, and while in its belly, was moved to repent. The fish regurgitated Jonah.

Jonah proceeded to Nineveh and broadcasted G‑d's word that Nineveh would be overturned in forty days. The people fasted and repented and the divine decree was annulled. When Jonah expressed his displeasure with this result, G‑d taught him a lesson. As Jonah sat on the outskirts of the city, the kikayon plant which was providing him with shade was destroyed by a worm, and Jonah was very upset. "And G‑d said: You took pity on the kikayon, for which you did not toil nor did you make it grow, which one night came into being and the next night perished. Now should I not take pity on Nineveh, the great city, in which there are many more than one hundred twenty thousand people?..."

The haftorah concludes with a  brief portion from the Book of Micah, which describes G‑d's kindness in forgiving the sins of His people. "He does not maintain His anger forever, for He is a lover of kindness. He will have mercy on us, He will grasp our iniquities and cast all our sins into the depths of the sea." Micah concludes with an enjoinder to G‑d to remember the pacts He made with the Patriarchs, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.

PLEASE CHECK YOUR CALENDAR FOR BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, AND YARZEITS AS WELL AS OTHER IMPORTANT DATES AND NEWS

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to John Amrein, Emily Buenaventura, Emet Klipper, Ahuva Bergman, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Evelyn Gadd, Rose Tubis, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Mike Schwartz, Doreen Prager, Rachel Perez, Clive Walden, Sheila Lebovitz, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Rachel bas Shoshana, Roz Mintz, Sandra Sapol, Penny Chapman and Greg Leon be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

Holiday Season:

Yom Kippur Break Fast: George Reh 

 

KIDDUSH SPONSORS NEEDED

Sponsoring a Kiddush is a great way to feel part of the Chabad at La Costa family!
(You can co-sponsor a Kiddush)

New Mitzvah Opportunity

Bikur Cholim of SD Volunteers Needed!

There are a number of patients at UCSD La Jolla that have come from Israel to receive transplants here. They need our help!

Bikur Cholim of S Diego is a community organization helping the sick with care packages, visitation, driving spouses to and from the hospital, etc.

If you are able to give a few hours of your time, it will make another person's day that much better!

To get involved, sign up at www.BikurCholimSD.com

 

Volunteering

Our Soup and Challah Project has been going on its FOURTH year! It was sponsored by Channah Hale and now carried on in her memory.

We are at the point that we need NEW volunteers to drive and deliver food packages around the area.

Please consider making this a part of your Friday routine. Volunteers pick up a few containers of soup and bags of challah at 3:00pm and delivering them to the door of the recipients. Volunteers also get soup and challah!

Enhanced Security

Our number one priority is to ensure the safety and security of our shul family. We have a robust security system in place. We have gone to the added expense of hiring a uniformed, armed guard, who is with us, watching over us, in addition to our internal security team. 

The added layer of security is expensive. Please help us by donating to the security of our shul community by following this link: www.chabadatlacosta.com/donate. The cost is approximately $300 per week. All donations are tax-deductible.

 

The Foundation Project  - City Approved Plan

We are raising funds that will be used towards completing our basement. This project will include a TEEN LOUNGE, CLASSROOMS, a LIBRARY, OFFICES, STORAGE SPACE, BATHROOMS, and more. Call Rabbi to inquire about available dedications. The money we raise also goes towards scholarships for Hebrew School students, our Challah and Chicken Soup program, and all of our ongoing expenses.

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Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - Now

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to [email protected] to schedule an appointment today.  

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett

Angela Chapman

Beverly Galperin

Anonymous 1

Channah Hale

Len Hyman

Devorah Katz

Sheila Lebovitz

Ilyse Loven

David Markoff

Anonymous 2

Karen Miller

Ed Richard

Ira Schechtel

Sharon Silverstein

Steve and Cindy Marion Walker

Anonymous 3

  *Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above. ​

 

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, on Facebook.

Weekly Parsha Class - with Rabbi Sholom Eilfort in person and on Facebook Live Thursday nights at 7:15pm

NEW SEASON: CALL TO ORDER YOUR BOOK

JLI Course - this series of courses requires registration...
 

 

 Coastal Gan - GROWING AGAIN!

We are looking for NEW STUDENTS and NEW STAFF

We are accepting infant and preschool age children.

 

I Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group.  

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COMMUNITY NEWS

Kosher Food Options in SD:

Ralph's La Jolla - a full service Kosher market, bakery, and deli, dairy (CY) also available. Store Hours 5am to 1am. Counter hours 9-5 (Fridays 9-2)
8657 Villa La Jolla Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037
858-597-1550
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego and RCC  

Harissa - Mediterranean Cuisine  (used to be Botanic Burger) Sun 10:30am-5:30pm  Mon-Thurs 10:30am-8pm
4126 Executive Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037 (in the JCC)
858-362-1353
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego   

Parisien Gourmandises - Dairy items NOT CY Pareve items are acceptable, some CY items available  M-Th 9am-5:30pm 
7643 Girard Ave, La Jolla, CA 92037 (inside Floral Palette La Jolla)
858-352-6552
KSA Kosher  

Spice at the Oceanview cafeteria UCSD - Spice station is a international themed restaurant, located within the Oceanview Terrace at UCSD. Hrs?
9500 Gilman Drive 0512, Thurgood Marshall College, La Jolla, CA 92037
(858) 822-1677
Star-K  

Hamitbach - Israeli street food S-Th 11am-7pm F 11am-3pm
5664 Mission Center Rd #402, San Diego, CA 92108
Vaad HaRabbonim of San Diego

La Mesa Pizzaworks - Classic & Unique Pizzas. Ice cream Sun-Thurs 11am-8pm Fri 11am-2pm
Saturdays Closed (check out our social media and website for special Saturday Nights that we will be open) 
Dine in and takeout 
Lamesapizzaworks.com
7406 University ave, La Mesa, CA 91942
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.  

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Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.  

Meats and Eats -  Shopping for kosher meat, and poultry, mostly frozen goods. Packaged groceries and baked goods. M-Th 9am -7pm
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Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Check packages for Kosher status. 

Mega Glatt Mart - Large variety of meat and groceries. Hours S-Th 9-6 Fr 9-3
6375 El Cajon Blvd suite F San Diego, CA 92115
(310) 663-6528
Prepackaged items under RCC Check packages for Kosher status. 

 

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Sign up, as we have, for the daily Jewish news by subscribing to the www.sdjewishworld.com. Our dear friend and noted writer, Don Harrison, curates a refreshing variety of Jewish-interest stories. The daily emails are refreshing, as they come from a Jewish perspective. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. Simply logon to the website and follow the prompts to subscribe.

 

Security Protocols

Everyone is Subject to Search

No Firearms (We have a well-defined security plan in effect and any unauthorized firearms could create confusion and actually reduce security).

Backpacks Prohibited

All Bags Subject to Search

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email   [email protected] your request.

 

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

 

Membership

NOW is the time to join the family! Membership includes High Holiday seats and discounts on other programs and activities. However, the main reason to join is to demonstrate your commitment to the future of Judaism in our area and to our community.

If you have already filled out and returned your Membership form please accept this message as our sincere thank you!

We urge you to pick the level of Membership and the financial commitment you feel comfortable with, and to fill out the form that you will find by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership. We thank all of our amazing donors!

 

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *Jewish Encinitas *Chabad of Carlsbad N *Coastal Gan Preschool *Ckids Hebrew School

 

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

 

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

 

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

 

Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul

We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.

Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows.

Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions.

Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage.

If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!

THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation.

 

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the Chabad code when booking.

More than 600 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

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Message from the Rabbi

This week’s double Torah portion, Nitzvaim-Vayelech, contains in its name a seeming paradox. The first word, Nitzavim, means “standing firm,” while the second, Vayelech, means “going.” Both readings are part of the final speech Moses gave to the Jews in the days before his passing, entreating the people to stay steadfast in their commitment to G-d. Even in the inevitable event of sin and straying from the correct path, we are guaranteed that all is never lost and the door to repentance is always open. Combining these two readings with their seemingly contradictory titles reminds us that the Jewish soul is dynamic. We are always moving, growing and looking to put the past behind us. But that doesn’t mean that we do so with uncertainty; in fact, the only way to truly grow and expand our horizons is through commitment and certainty in our ways. When we stand firm and believe in who we are as Jews, that is how we are guaranteed to continue climbing higher. When reading this portion on the Shabbat before Rosh Hashanah, we look back at the past year. We acknowledge that it was a difficult year for the Jewish people in Israel and around the world, and we are more than ready to “Vayelech” to move on to better and brighter times—with the certainty of Jewish pride—knowing who we are and what we represent. That commitment to our Jewish identity ensures that we are here to stay, and we will indeed have a blessed year to come! Wishing you a Shabbat shalom and a shanah tovah umetukah — a happy and sweet year,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

Shabbat Candlelighting Time: @ 6:20pm
Shabbat Ends: @ 7:13pm

Come pick up a Shabbat Candle lighting kit with the prayers and instructions.

LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE

 

Scheduled Services This Week

Shabbos / Saturday @ 10am. Kiddush Luncheon to Follow

SPECIAL SELICHOS MIDNIGHT SERVICE SATURDAY NIGHT / SUNDAY 12AM

 

Selichos Midnight Service

Join us Saturday night / Sunday morning at midnight for the special Selichos services. In our tradition we say these unique prayers in preparation for the High Holiday beginning the week that Rosh Hashanah comes out. The earliest moment one can start is just after midnight, so we are demonstrating our eagerness to begin our ‘conversation’ with the Almighty as soon as possible.

The service itself is very moving and lasts about 30 minutes.

Please let us know that you will be attending.

 

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HIGH HOLIDAYS APPLICATION & SCHEDULE

RESERVATIONS REQUIRED TO ATTEND

YOU are invited to join us for our meaningful and uplifting High Holiday services! Please fill out and return the High Holiday portion of the Membership application found below. We are also offering gourmet community meals to which you are invited.

HIGH HOLIDAY SCHEDULE (RESERVATIONS REQUIRED)

Dear Friend,

A new year is upon us! This means new life, new energy, and G-d willing, new blessings!  

As the high holidays approach, the time when we renew the energy for the coming year, we pray that this year the decrees that are formed through our prayers and our shared heart will bring great blessings to all of those who have suffered pain and loss and indeed bring true peace to the larger community.     

This season is the "engine" that propels and guides the Journey of the coming year. This is the season when our coming year is fueled. With G-d’s help, our tanks should be topped off!

As we set out on this annual experience, we undergo a thorough tune up!  In fact, this will begin with the majestic "tune" of the Shofar. The sound of renewal, the sound that resonates with the deepest part of our soul as it touches our hearts and inspires us to grow spiritually.

Please join us for the High Holidays.  At Chabad everyone is welcome, no matter, religious, educational or economic background.  Our motto is: “The doors of heaven are open and so are ours!”

May G-d grant you and yours, together with all our brethren-especially those in the Holy Land-a healthy sweet, and prosperous New Year, and may you be inscribed and sealed in the Book of Life.

May this be the year of redemption from all negative matters! A year of light! A year of joy! May you and yours be inscribed for a healthy and prosperous year! 

Sincerely,

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Elia & Chaya Eilfort

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yossi & Muka Rodal

 

LULAV AND ETROG – ORDER NOW

If you want a Lulav and Etrog set for the upcoming Sukkot holiday please fill out the form linked above.

WE ARE NOT ORDERING EXTRA THIS YEAR. IF YOU DO NOT ORDER ONE, DON'T COUNT ON GETTING ONE.

The cost is $75 for a standard set and $125 for a deluxe set.

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SAVE THE DATE!

Rosh Hashanah Community Dinner MENUS HERE

Wednesday, Oct. 2, 2024, 6:30PM

(Immediately following services)

Members & Locals: $36 Adult, $18 Child (under 12) • RSVP by September 27th.

Out of Town Guests: $72 Adult, $36 Child (under 12)

SPONSORS SOUGHT

 

For more information and to RSVP visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/hhrsvp

or call 760-943-8891 or Email: [email protected]

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HOLIDAY SCHEDULE

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ROSH HASHANAH

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Wednesday, Oct. 2, 2024

Make Eruv Tavshillin**

Light Candles at 6:13 pm

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

Community Dinner: 6:30 pm

 

Thursday, Oct. 3, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Shofar Sounding: 12:00 pm

Tashlich Service: 5:30 pm

Evening Services: 6:30 pm

Light Candles* after 7:07 pm

Community Dinner: 7:30 pm

 

Friday, Oct. 4, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Shofar Sounding: 12:00 pm

Light Candles* before 6:11 pm

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 5, 2024

Shabbat Shuva

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Kiddush Luncheon: 12:30 pm

Shabbat Ends at 7:04 pm

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FAST OF GEDALYA

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Sunday, Oct. 6, 2024

Fast Begins: 5:30 am

Fast Ends at 6:51 pm

Learn more @ chabad.org/TzomGedaliah

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YOM KIPPUR

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Friday, Oct. 11, 2024

Morning Services: 8:30 am

Afternoon Service: 4:30 pm

Pre-Fast Meal: 5:00 pm

Light Candles at 6:02 pm

Fast Begins at 6:02 pm

Kol Nidrei Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 12, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Yizkor Memorial Service: 12:00 pm

Afternoon Service: 4:30 pm

Neilah Closing Service: 5:30 pm

Fast Ends at 6:56 pm

Followed by light refreshments sponsored by George Reh

 

* Light only from a pre-existing flame

** To learn more about Eruv Tavshilin vist www.chabad.org/Eruv

 

Note: Candle lighting times are for Carlsbad/Encinitas only.

Join your FAMILY at Chabad at La Costa!

 

HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICES

with Deep Meaning and Inspirational Spirit!

 

• No Membership Fees or Tickets

• No Affiliation Necessary

• Traditional and Inspirational Services

• Hebrew/English Prayer-Books

• Warm and Friendly Atmosphere

• Special Children's Program & Service

 

ACT NOW FOR HIGH HOLIDAY HONORS

Those who want an honor on the High Holidays or to bestow an honor on someone else, please fill out the form or respond to this message at your earliest convenience.

Many people seek to have an Aliyah or some other honor during the High Holidays, as it is considered a great merit. We ask those who are honored to be generous in their financial support of the shul. The funds generated are literally the shul’s life blood.

Our tradition tells us that those who support the community are deserving of the Almighty’s special blessings.

Following are the available High Holiday honors:

1^st Day of Rosh Hashanah – 5 Aliyos + Maftir/Haftorah + Opening the Ark + Lifting the Torah

2^nd Day of Rosh Hashanah - 5 Aliyos + Maftir/Haftorah + Opening the Ark + Lifting the Torah

Shabbos Shuva - 7 Aliyos + Maftir/Haftorah + Opening the Ark + Lifting the Torah

Yom Kippur Eve – Open the Ark for Kol Nidrei + Hold a Torah (5) During Kol Nidrei

Yom Kippur Morning - 6 Aliyos + Maftir/Haftorah + Opening the Ark + Lifting the Torah

Yom Kippur Afternoon - 2 Aliyos + Opening the Ark + Lifting the Torah

 

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Hebrew School News – HEBREW IMMERSION COMING!

We are proud to announce that our Hebrew School Open House was an overwhelming success with several new families signing up for our exciting program!

We will be bringing out two teachers FROM ISRAEL – so that our Hebrew School students will have a Hebrew Immersion experience. Ayala and Naama are wonderful young women excited to be joining our team. They will be adding tremendous positive energy to our community while they are with us for the school year!

We are looking forward to continuing our new school year soon! All inquiries should be directed to Rebbetzin Chaya at [email protected].

 

 

THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE ALREADY PARTICIPATED!

Torah Table Cover In Loving Memory of the Martyrs of October 7th

Dear Friends,

Our most sincere thank you goes out to all of you who helped sponsor the Torah Reading Table Cover in memory of the martyrs of the October 7^th attack.

Specifically, we thank:

Anonymous

Renee Cohen

Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort

Martin & Arlene Fogel

Jeremy Gottlieb

Suzanne Haray

Len Hyman

Beverly Larner

Julia Lutch

David & Anna Mintz

Mindey Morrison

Larry & Rochelle Neugarten

Melissa Prager

Daniel Preissman

Steve & Linda Rivkin

Sharna Skjei

Arnold Tubis

Pinchas Winograd

Wishing you and yours a Happy, Healthy, and Successful New Year!

Sincerely,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

 

 

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MEMBERSHIP DRIVE

 

September 2, ‘24

Erev Rosh Chodesh Elul, 5784

Dear Friends,

All year long we are here for your Jewish needs. We offer uplifting services on Shabbat and Holidays, educational opportunities for all ages-from Coastal Gan to Hebrew School to C-Kids to JLI etc., community meals, educational publications, joyous celebrations, life-cycle events, individual pastoral counseling and support, outreach activities, and SO MUCH MORE!

It is with joy and positive energy that we offer everything we do to YOU, our beloved community.

Is Chabad for you? YES! If you want to connect with the Jewish community and G-d, we welcome you here – WITH OPEN ARMS! You do NOT have to be ‘Orthodox’ or observant to feel at home and to be welcome. Everyone is welcome regardless of level of observance or knowledge, background or affiliation.  YOU ARE WELCOME HERE! Even if you cannot afford Membership dues,  YOU ARE WELCOME HERE!

It is at this time of year that we ask you to partner with us by committing to help financially support the community for the coming year.

Please follow the link provided to indicate your level of support. (PUT LINK HERE). Alternatively, you can return the enclosed form in the provided return envelope.

If you want to join us for our amazing High Holiday services, ADVANCE RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED.

Chabad at La Costa has no outside support (there is no Chabad ‘superfund’), which means that we must be financially self-reliant. Think about the costs involved in keeping the lights on, the workers paid, the food served, and all of the materials we provide.

Can we count on YOU this year?

Wishing you G-d’s unlimited blessings with our deep appreciation!

Shanah Tovah Umitukah – May you and yours be blessed with a Sweet, Happy, and Healthy New Year!

Rabbi Yeruchem & Rebbetzin  Nechama Eilfort

Rabbi Elia & Rebbetzin Chaya Eilfort

 

Coastal Chabads
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Membership Form ‘24

Head of Household: _______________________________ Spouse: ______________________________

Children and their ages: _________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________

Hebrew Names of Family Members: _______________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________

____________________________________________________________________________________

Please Indicate Type of Membership Desired:

__  Chai Club -  Starts at $3,600 (fill in amount committed): $____________

__ Family Membership - $1,800

__ Individual Membership - $1200 ($100/mo)

__ Senior Membership - $800

__ Student Membership - $180

__ Associate Membership (50% of Standard Membership Level)

__ Please call me to discuss financial arrangements. (NO ONE WILL BE TURNED DOWN.)

__ Although not a member I would like to support your important work.

Amount of Commitment: $____________

__ Lulav & Esrog set @ $75 Standard, or $125 Deluxe Pitom (Check if Desired):_____

__ Please call on me as a Volunteer. Interest/s: _______________________________________________

__  Call me to discuss Chabad’s Legacy Circle and possibly including Chabad in my legacy plans.

__ Sign me up to receive regular email updates on Chabad activities.

 

Membership includes High Holiday seating, however, reservations are required. 

How many people from your family will be joining us for the High Holidays:

Number of Adults _____ Number of Children (3-12) _____

We will be offering gourmet Community Meals on Rosh Hashanah. The cost to join is $25 per meal per adult and $15 per meal per child (3-12). How many will be joining us?

Adults ______ x $25 = $_______ Children x $15 = $________.

 

___ I would like to sponsor a High Holiday meal ($360).  

 

Security Fee (Minimum of $180 per membership unit per year) $_______

 

Yes! I will make an additional monthly commitment to help fund our coming Educational Level!

Amount of extra monthly commitment: $_________

 

Anyone who wants to be a Member is welcome regardless of financial situation, and may be assured of absolute confidentiality in this matter.

Thank you to those who have already made their Membership commitment and those who have made a monthly financial commitment to your community!

How would you like to pay? (Please select one)

Monthly / Quarterly/ Lump Sum

Amount: $________     Method of Payment: (Please select one)

Visa/MasterCard/Amex / Personal Check / Business Check / Cash

Credit Card Number: ______________________________________________________ Exp. _________

Applicant’s Signature: ___________________________________________________ Date: ___________

Address:____________________________________________ City:___________________ Zip:_______

Cell Phone:______________________________ E-Mail:_______________________________________

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Security Guard Sponsor Sought – Can You Help?

We have a wonderful security guard who keeps a watch over us while we are in services. The cost is $250 per week. We are looking for a sponsor this week and future weeks. If you are able to help please donate securely by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. Thank you!

 

How to Make a Donation (or Payment)

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides checks and cash. Following, please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account (even though they say Nechama's name).

1. PayPal  [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)   [email protected]

5. Personal credit card     chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

 

Kiddush Sponsor

Rosh Hashanah Kiddushes are being sponsored by the Alter Family and the Gorelik Family in honor of a HEALTHY New Year for our community.       

Each Shabbos after services, our beautiful community enjoys Shabbos lunch together. It is a true celebration where we bask in each other’s company while savoring delicious food.

YOU ARE INVITED AND ENCOURAGED TO PARTICIPATE

We are always seeking additional sponsors, so if you can sponsor a Kiddush, please let us know.

An Important Note about Kiddushes –

The policy of the shul is to allow multiple sponsors for every Kiddush unless it is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah or something similar (like a 50th wedding anniversary etc.).

There is no such thing as an exclusive Kiddush sponsor.

This is our policy for numerous reasons, not least of which is the fact that Kiddush sponsorships help generate much-needed income for our community and encourages more people to participate.

We thank you for your support and understanding!

Soup & Challah Sponsors

Soup and Challah is being sponsored by Clive Walden & the estate of Channah Hale. A big Yasher Koach to our volunteer deliverers, Josh Silverstein. NEED MORE DRIVERS

Challah is delivered to Mental Health Residential Centers in the area, people undergoing chemotherapy, and people who really love the addition to their Shabbos experience. 

Deliver and get a bag of challah for your family as well!

Haftarah for Parshas Nitzavim

Isaiah 61:10-63:9

This week's haftorah is the seventh and final installment of a series of seven "Haftarot of Consolation." These seven haftarot commence on the Shabbat following Tisha b'Av and continue until Rosh Hashanah.

The prophet begins on a high note, describing the great joy that we will experience with the Final Redemption, comparing it to the joy of a newly married couple.

Isaiah than declares his refusal to passively await the Redemption: "For Zion's sake I will not remain silent, and for Jerusalem's sake I will not be still, until her righteousness emerges like shining light..." He implores the stones of  Jerusalem not to be silent, day or night, until G‑d restores Jerusalem and establishes it in glory.

The  haftorah then recounts  G‑d's oath to eventually redeem Zion, when the Jews will praise G‑d in Jerusalem. The haftorah also contains a description of the punishment G‑d will mete out to Edom and the enemies of Israel.

Isaiah concludes with the famous statement:

"In all [Israel's] afflictions, He, too, is afflicted, and the angel of His presence redeemed them..." 

Like a loving father who shares the pain of his child, G‑d, too, shares the pain of His people, and awaits the redemption along with them.

PLEASE CHECK YOUR CALENDAR FOR BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, AND YARZEITS AS WELL AS OTHER IMPORTANT DATES AND NEWS

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Karen Wexhler, Nechama Eilfort, Miriam Perez, Cayce Pinkham, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER Beatrice Stanger, Eleanor Wollman, Henry Richard, Beverly Gordon, Rose Briskin, Sarah Briskin, Yaakov Moshe Briskin, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.

May Mike Schwartz, Doreen Prager, Rachel Perez, Clive Walden, Sheila Lebovitz, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Rachel bas Shoshana, Roz Mintz, Sandra Sapol, Penny Chapman and Greg Leon be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

Holiday Season:

Rosh Hashanah: Alter Family
                         Gorelick Family

Yom Kippur Break Fast: George Reh 

 

KIDDUSH SPONSORS NEEDED

Sponsoring a Kiddush is a great way to feel part of the Chabad at La Costa family!
(You can co-sponsor a Kiddush)

New Mitzvah Opportunity

Bikur Cholim of SD Volunteers Needed!

There are a number of patients at UCSD La Jolla that have come from Israel to receive transplants here. They need our help!

Bikur Cholim of S Diego is a community organization helping the sick with care packages, visitation, driving spouses to and from the hospital, etc.

If you are able to give a few hours of your time, it will make another person's day that much better!

To get involved, sign up at www.BikurCholimSD.com

 

Volunteering

Our Soup and Challah Project has been going on its FOURTH year! It was sponsored by Channah Hale and now carried on in her memory.

We are at the point that we need NEW volunteers to drive and deliver food packages around the area.

Please consider making this a part of your Friday routine. Volunteers pick up a few containers of soup and bags of challah at 3:00pm and delivering them to the door of the recipients. Volunteers also get soup and challah!

Enhanced Security

Our number one priority is to ensure the safety and security of our shul family. We have a robust security system in place. We have gone to the added expense of hiring a uniformed, armed guard, who is with us, watching over us, in addition to our internal security team. 

The added layer of security is expensive. Please help us by donating to the security of our shul community by following this link: www.chabadatlacosta.com/donate. The cost is approximately $300 per week. All donations are tax-deductible.

 

The Foundation Project  - City Approved Plan

We are raising funds that will be used towards completing our basement. This project will include a TEEN LOUNGE, CLASSROOMS, a LIBRARY, OFFICES, STORAGE SPACE, BATHROOMS, and more. Call Rabbi to inquire about available dedications. The money we raise also goes towards scholarships for Hebrew School students, our Challah and Chicken Soup program, and all of our ongoing expenses.

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Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - Now

We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

We can help.

Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today".  Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.

Send a personal email to [email protected] to schedule an appointment today.  

We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:

Joel Barnett

Angela Chapman

Beverly Galperin

Anonymous 1

Channah Hale

Len Hyman

Devorah Katz

Sheila Lebovitz

Ilyse Loven

David Markoff

Anonymous 2

Karen Miller

Ed Richard

Ira Schechtel

Sharon Silverstein

Steve and Cindy Marion Walker

Anonymous 3

  *Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent. 

Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.

Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above. ​

 

We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, on Facebook.

Weekly Parsha Class - with Rabbi Sholom Eilfort in person and on Facebook Live Thursday nights at 7:15pm

NEW SEASON: CALL TO ORDER YOUR BOOK

JLI Course - this series of courses requires registration... 

 Coastal Gan - GROWING AGAIN!

We are looking for NEW STUDENTS and NEW STAFF

We are accepting infant and preschool age children.

 

I Please Like the shul’s Facebook Page  https://www.facebook.com/ChabadatLaCosta

For up to date pictures and announcements follow our Facebook Page and join our community Group.  

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COMMUNITY NEWS

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DAILY JEWISH NEWS Available in Your Inbox for Free!

Sign up, as we have, for the daily Jewish news by subscribing to the www.sdjewishworld.com. Our dear friend and noted writer, Don Harrison, curates a refreshing variety of Jewish-interest stories. The daily emails are refreshing, as they come from a Jewish perspective. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED. Simply logon to the website and follow the prompts to subscribe.

 

Security Protocols

Everyone is Subject to Search

No Firearms (We have a well-defined security plan in effect and any unauthorized firearms could create confusion and actually reduce security).

Backpacks Prohibited

All Bags Subject to Search

 

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email   [email protected] your request.

 

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

 

Membership

NOW is the time to join the family! Membership includes High Holiday seats and discounts on other programs and activities. However, the main reason to join is to demonstrate your commitment to the future of Judaism in our area and to our community.

If you have already filled out and returned your Membership form please accept this message as our sincere thank you!

We urge you to pick the level of Membership and the financial commitment you feel comfortable with, and to fill out the form that you will find by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership. We thank all of our amazing donors!

 

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *Jewish Encinitas *Chabad of Carlsbad N *Coastal Gan Preschool *Ckids Hebrew School

 

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

 

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

 

Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed

PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

THANK YOU for your cooperation!

 

Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul

We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.

Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows.

Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions.

Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage.

If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!

THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation.

 

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the Chabad code when booking.

More than 600 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

For discount details, to make your reservation, or to share the information with a friend, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/omni and click through. And remember to leave a positive review.

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Hundreds of people see Chabad at La Costa's Weekly Email Update. Those who are looking to effectively promote their business and at the same time support this important community resource are invited to become sponsors for only $50 per month (that's per MONTH, not per week). Call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891 to get your message out there.

Message from the Rabbi

“Chai Elul,” the 18th day of the Jewish month of Elul, is the birthday of Rabbi Israel Baal Shem Tov (in 1698), founder of Chassidism, and Rabbi Shneur Zalman of Liadi, known as the Alter Rebbe (1745), founder of Chabad. The day also marks the beginning of a unique and spiritually charged period: the 12 days leading up to Rosh Hashanah. According to Chassidic tradition, each of these 12 days offers us a chance to reflect upon and refine one month from the past year, making this a powerful time for introspection and spiritual growth. Starting on Chai Elul, we engage in a daily process of teshuvah, focusing on how we conducted ourselves during each corresponding month. This practice serves as preparation for Rosh Hashanah, the Day of Judgment, when we stand before G-d to account for our actions and set our intentions for the coming year. By dedicating each day to self-examination and personal improvement, we elevate the past year, recognizing both our successes and our shortcomings. This 12-day period offers a roadmap to approach Rosh Hashanah with a cleansed heart and a renewed sense of purpose. It encourages us to harmonize our thoughts, speech, and actions, deepening our connection with G-d. As we work on healing and refining one month at a time, we inch closer to realizing our potential, paving the way for the blessings of a new year filled with growth and spiritual renewal. Shabbat shalom,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

Shabbat Candlelighting Time: @ 6:30pm
Shabbat Ends: @ 7:23pm

Come pick up a Shabbat Candle lighting kit with the prayers and instructions.

LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE

 

Scheduled Services This Week

Friday Night Services @ 6pm

Shabbos / Saturday @ 10am. Kiddush Luncheon to Follow

 

N’shei Chabad Women’s Event was AMAZING

 

The Nshei Chabad of S Diego event was a smashing hit. A full house with every seat filled. The food was amazing as usual, though the picture insists on posting sideways. The speakers were incredible and we appreciate them, thank you Moira, Anna, Rina, Jana, and Iska! 

 

Hebrew School News – HEBREW IMMERSION COMING!

We are proud to announce that our Hebrew School Open House was an overwhelming success with several new families signing up for our exciting program!

We will be bringing out two teachers FROM ISRAEL – so that our Hebrew School students will have a Hebrew Immersion experience. Ayala and Naama are wonderful young women excited to be joining our team. They will be adding tremendous positive energy to our community while they are with us for the next school year!

We are looking forward to beginning our new school year soon! All inquiries should be directed to Rebbetzin Chaya at [email protected].

 

 

THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE ALREADY PARTICIPATED!

LAST CALL: In Loving Memory of the Martyrs of October 7th

Dear Friends,

We are quickly approaching the one-year anniversary of the horrific terrorist attack perpetrated against our brothers and sisters in the Holy Land. Shmini Atzeres, is the Yarzeit of over 1,200 victims.

We decided upon an appropriate way to memorialize the martyrs. Throughout the year we have strongly encouraged our community to add in the Torah we study, the Prayers that we say, and the Charity that we give, in their merit.

We have decided that we would like to dedicate a Torah Reading Table Cover with the names of all of the victims embroidered upon it, together with a quote from the prayer book that talks about their sanctity and a heart-felt request that the Almighty should bring justice to them and to our nation. Additionally, we plan on ordering a Memorial Plaque that will be placed on our Memorial Board.

We welcome anyone who wishes to participate in sponsoring these meaningful symbols of our broken hearts and firm resolve to resolutely embrace our Judaism!

These orders are going to be placed forthwith, so your immediate response is appreciated. Please donate securely here: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. In the note section of the form mention that the donation is for the October 7th Memorials. All donors will be publicly acknowledged unless they specify that they don’t want to be. 

All donations are greatly appreciated and are tax-deductible.

Wishing you and yours a Happy, Healthy, and Successful New Year!

Sincerely,

Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

 

 

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HIGH HOLIDAYS APPLICATION & SCHEDULE

RESERVATIONS REQUIRED TO ATTEND

YOU are invited to join us for our meaningful and uplifting High Holiday services! Please fill out and return the High Holiday portion of the Membership application found below. We are also offering gourmet community meals to which you are invited.

HIGH HOLIDAY SCHEDULE (RESERVATIONS REQUIRED)

Dear Friend,

A new year is upon us! This means new life, new energy, and G-d willing, new blessings!  

As the high holidays approach, the time when we renew the energy for the coming year, we pray that this year the decrees that are formed through our prayers and our shared heart will bring great blessings to all of those who have suffered pain and loss and indeed bring true peace to the larger community.

                                                                       

This season is the "engine" that propels and guides the Journey of the coming year. This is the season when our coming year is fueled. With G-d’s help, our tanks should be topped off!

As we set out on this annual experience, we undergo a thorough tune up!  In fact, this will begin with the majestic "tune" of the Shofar. The sound of renewal, the sound that resonates with the deepest part of our soul as it touches our hearts and inspires us to grow spiritually.

Please join us for the High Holidays.  At Chabad everyone is welcome, no matter, religious, educational or economic background.  Our motto is: “The doors of heaven are open and so are ours!”

May G-d grant you and yours, together with all our brethren-especially those in the Holy Land-a healthy sweet, and prosperous New Year, and may you be inscribed and sealed in the Book of Life.

May this be the year of redemption from all negative matters! A year of light! A year of joy! May you and yours be inscribed for a healthy and prosperous year! 

Sincerely,

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yeruchem & Nechama Eilfort

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Elia & Chaya Eilfort

Rabbi & Rebbetzin Yossi & Muka Rodal

 

LULAV AND ETROG – ORDER NOW

If you want a Lulav and Etrog set for the upcoming Sukkot holiday please respond to this message asap.

The cost is $75 for a standard set and $125 for a deluxe set.

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SAVE THE DATE!

 

Rosh Hashanah Community Dinner

Wednesday, Oct. 2, 2024, 6:30PM

(Immediately following services)

Members & Locals: $36 Adult, $18 Child (under 12) • RSVP by September 27th.

Out of Town Guests: $72 Adult, $36 Child (under 12)

SPONSORS SOUGHT

 

For more information and to RSVP visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/hhrsvp

or call 760-943-8891 or Email: [email protected]

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HOLIDAY SCHEDULE

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ROSH HASHANAH

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Wednesday, Oct. 2, 2024

Make Eruv Tavshillin**

Light Candles at 6:13 pm

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

Community Dinner: 6:30 pm

 

Thursday, Oct. 3, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Shofar Sounding: 12:00 pm

Tashlich Service: 5:30 pm

Evening Services: 6:30 pm

Light Candles* after 7:07 pm

Community Dinner: 7:30 pm

 

Friday, Oct. 4, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Shofar Sounding: 12:00 pm

Light Candles* before 6:11 pm

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 5, 2024

Shabbat Shuva

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Kiddush Luncheon: 12:30 pm

Shabbat Ends at 7:04 pm

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FAST OF GEDALYA

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Sunday, Oct. 6, 2024

Fast Begins: 5:30 am

Fast Ends at 6:51 pm

Learn more @ chabad.org/TzomGedaliah

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YOM KIPPUR

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Friday, Oct. 11, 2024

Morning Services: 8:30 am

Afternoon Service: 4:30 pm

Pre-Fast Meal: 5:00 pm

Light Candles at 6:02 pm

Fast Begins at 6:02 pm

Kol Nidrei Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 12, 2024

Morning Services: 9:00 am

Yizkor Memorial Service: 12:00 pm

Afternoon Service: 4:30 pm

Neilah Closing Service: 5:30 pm

Fast Ends at 6:56 pm

Followed by light refreshments sponsored by George Reh

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SUKKOT

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To purchase a Sukkah or a Lulav & Etrog set,

please call 760-943-8891 or email [email protected].

 

Wednesday, Oct. 16, 2024

Make Eruv Tavshillin**

Light Candles at 5:56 pm

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

Community Dinner in the Sukkah: 6:30 pm

 

Thursday, Oct. 17, 2024

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

Light Candles* after 6:49 pm

 

Friday, Oct. 18, 2024

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Light Candles* before 5:53 pm

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

 

Saturday, Oct. 19, 2024

Shabbat Chol Hamoed

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Shabbat Ends at 6:47 pm

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Hoshana Rabbah

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Wednesday, Oct. 23, 2024

Morning Services: 8:30 am

 

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SHEMINI ATZERET & SIMCHAT TORAH

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Wednesday, Oct. 23, 2024

Make Eruv Tavshillin**

Light Candles at 5:48 pm

Evening Services: 5:30 pm

Followed by Kiddush & Hakafot

 

Thursday, Oct. 24, 2024

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Yizkor Memorial Service: 11:30 am

Evening Services: 6:00 pm

Followed by Kiddush & Grand Hakafot & Banquet!

Light Candles* after 6:42 pm

 

Friday Oct. 25, 2024

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Followed by Kiddush & Hakafot

Saturday, Oct. 26, 2024

Shabbat Bereishit

Morning Services: 10:00 am

Shabbat Ends at 6:40 pm

 

 

* Light only from a pre-existing flame

 

** To learn more about Eruv Tavshilin vist www.chabad.org/Eruv

 

Note: Candle lighting times are for Carlsbad/Encinitas only.

Join your FAMILY at Chabad at La Costa!

 

HIGH HOLIDAY SERVICES

with Deep Meaning and Inspirational Spirit!

 

• No Membership Fees or Tickets

• No Affiliation Necessary

• Traditional and Inspirational Services

• Hebrew/English Prayer-Books

• Warm and Friendly Atmosphere

• Special Children's Program & Service

 

ACT NOW FOR HIGH HOLIDAY HONORS

Those who want an honor on the High Holidays or to bestow an honor on someone else, please respond to this message at your earliest convenience.

Many people seek to have an Aliyah or some other honor during the High Holidays, as it is considered a great merit. We ask those who are honored to be generous in their financial support of the shul. The funds generated are literally the shul’s life blood.

Our tradition tells us that those who support the community are deserving of the Almighty’s special blessings.

 

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MEMBERSHIP DRIVE

 

September 2, ‘24

Erev Rosh Chodesh Elul, 5784

Dear Friends,

All year long we are here for your Jewish needs. We offer uplifting services on Shabbat and Holidays, educational opportunities for all ages-from Coastal Gan to Hebrew School to C-Kids to JLI etc., community meals, educational publications, joyous celebrations, life-cycle events, individual pastoral counseling and support, outreach activities, and SO MUCH MORE!

It is with joy and positive energy that we offer everything we do to YOU, our beloved community.

Is Chabad for you? YES! If you want to connect with the Jewish community and G-d, we welcome you here – WITH OPEN ARMS! You do NOT have to be ‘Orthodox’ or observant to feel at home and to be welcome. Everyone is welcome regardless of level of observance or knowledge, background or affiliation.  YOU ARE WELCOME HERE! Even if you cannot afford Membership dues,  YOU ARE WELCOME HERE!

It is at this time of year that we ask you to partner with us by committing to help financially support the community for the coming year.

Please follow the link provided to indicate your level of support. (PUT LINK HERE). Alternatively, you can return the enclosed form in the provided return envelope.

If you want to join us for our amazing High Holiday services, ADVANCE RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED.

Chabad at La Costa has no outside support (there is no Chabad ‘superfund’), which means that we must be financially self-reliant. Think about the costs involved in keeping the lights on, the workers paid, the food served, and all of the materials we provide.

Can we count on YOU this year?

Wishing you G-d’s unlimited blessings with our deep appreciation!

Shanah Tovah Umitukah – May you and yours be blessed with a Sweet, Happy, and Healthy New Year!

Rabbi Yeruchem & Rebbetzin  Nechama Eilfort

Rabbi Elia & Rebbetzin Chaya Eilfort

 

Coastal Chabads
Chabad at La Costa/Carlsbad     Chabad Encinitas

Membership Form ‘24

Head of Household: _______________________________ Spouse: ______________________________

Children and their ages: _________________________________________________________________ ____________________________________________________________________________________

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Hebrew Names of Family Members: _______________________________________________________

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Please Indicate Type of Membership Desired:

__  Chai Club -  Starts at $3,600 (fill in amount committed): $____________

__ Family Membership - $1,800

__ Individual Membership - $1200 ($100/mo)

__ Senior Membership - $800

__ Student Membership - $180

__ Associate Membership (50% of Standard Membership Level)

__ Please call me to discuss financial arrangements. (NO ONE WILL BE TURNED DOWN.)

__ Although not a member I would like to support your important work.

Amount of Commitment: $____________

__ Lulav & Esrog set @ $75 Standard, or $125 Deluxe Pitom (Check if Desired):_____

__ Please call on me as a Volunteer. Interest/s: _______________________________________________

__  Call me to discuss Chabad’s Legacy Circle and possibly including Chabad in my legacy plans.

__ Sign me up to receive regular email updates on Chabad activities.

 

Membership includes High Holiday seating, however, reservations are required. 

How many people from your family will be joining us for the High Holidays:

Number of Adults _____ Number of Children (3-12) _____

We will be offering gourmet Community Meals on Rosh Hashanah. The cost to join is $25 per meal per adult and $15 per meal per child (3-12). How many will be joining us?

Adults ______ x $25 = $_______ Children x $15 = $________.

 

___ I would like to sponsor a High Holiday meal ($360).  

 

Security Fee (Minimum of $180 per membership unit per year) $_______

 

Yes! I will make an additional monthly commitment to help fund our coming Educational Level!

Amount of extra monthly commitment: $_________

 

Anyone who wants to be a Member is welcome regardless of financial situation, and may be assured of absolute confidentiality in this matter.

Thank you to those who have already made their Membership commitment and those who have made a monthly financial commitment to your community!

How would you like to pay? (Please select one)

Monthly / Quarterly/ Lump Sum

Amount: $________     Method of Payment: (Please select one)

Visa/MasterCard/Amex / Personal Check / Business Check / Cash

Credit Card Number: ______________________________________________________ Exp. _________

Applicant’s Signature: ___________________________________________________ Date: ___________

Address:____________________________________________ City:___________________ Zip:_______

Cell Phone:______________________________ E-Mail:_______________________________________

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Security Guard Sponsor Sought – Can You Help?

We have a wonderful security guard who keeps a watch over us while we are in services. The cost is $250 per week. We are looking for a sponsor this week and future weeks. If you are able to help please donate securely by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. Thank you!

 

How to Make a Donation (or Payment)

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides checks and cash. Following, please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account (even though they say Nechama's name).

1. PayPal  [email protected]  or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)   [email protected]

5. Personal credit card     chabadatlacosta.com/donate

6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below

 

Kiddush Sponsor

This week’s Kiddush is being sponsored by Lois Weksler in loving memory of Len Weksler (our devoted shul Cohen for many years).             

Each Shabbos after services, our beautiful community enjoys Shabbos lunch together. It is a true celebration where we bask in each other’s company while savoring delicious food.

YOU ARE INVITED AND ENCOURAGED TO PARTICIPATE

We are always seeking additional sponsors, so if you can sponsor a Kiddush, please let us know.

An Important Note about Kiddushes –

The policy of the shul is to allow multiple sponsors for every Kiddush unless it is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah or something similar (like a 50th wedding anniversary etc.).

There is no such thing as an exclusive Kiddush sponsor.

This is our policy for numerous reasons, not least of which is the fact that Kiddush sponsorships help generate much-needed income for our community and encourages more people to participate.

We thank you for your support and understanding!

Soup & Challah Sponsors

Soup and Challah is being sponsored by Clive Walden & the estate of Channah Hale. A big Yasher Koach to our volunteer deliverers, including Malkie Gorelick, Jason Coleman and Sydney Green.

Challah is delivered to Mental Health Residential Centers in the area, people undergoing chemotherapy, and people who really love the addition to their Shabbos experience. 

Deliver and get a bag of challah for your family as well!