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This week’s Torah portion contains the verse: “They shall make Me a sanctuary, so that I may dwell in their midst.” Notice, it doesn’t say, “in its midst,” but rather, “in their midst.” G‑d’s command to build a sanctuary wasn’t just about a physical structure in the desert. It was, and remains, a directive for each of us to create spaces where G‑d’s presence can dwell—both within ourselves and throughout the world.
This commandment has three dimensions. First, the physical Tabernacle that our ancestors constructed, which served as a dwelling for G‑d’s revealed presence. Second, the personal sanctuary each of us is called to build—transforming our lives into vessels for holiness by letting our Divine soul shine through. And third, the ultimate mission of transforming the entire world into G‑d’s home, a place where His presence is fully revealed.
Remarkably, this task is not about creating something new, but revealing what already exists. Every person, every object, and every moment is infused with Divine energy. Our job is to strip away the distractions and obstructions, allowing the true essence to emerge.
May we each take steps this week to reveal the sanctuary within ourselves and to illuminate the world around us. And may our collective efforts bring about the ultimate sanctuary—the coming of Moshiach, when G‑d’s presence will fill the entire world.
Shabbat shalom,
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Candle Lighting Times
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LIGHT CANDLES FOR PEACE:
Friday, February 28 @ 5:28pm
Shabbat Ends: Saturday, March 1 @ 6:23pm
Need Shabbat candles? Come pick up a Shabbat Candle lighting kit with the prayers and instructions.
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Holidays & SHABBOS NEWS & UPCOMING EVENTS
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NO Evening Services & YES Morning Services & NO Soup and Challah
PERSONAL REQUEST FROM THE RABBI
Dear Friends (Shul family),
We are in historic times. American and Israeli politics are very much a ‘rough and tumble’ proposition these days. I am asking, from the bottom of my heart, to PLEASE KEEP POLITICS out of our beautiful shul, especially on Shabbos.
Please – no provocative statements or garments.
Our shul is a sanctuary that embraces and seeks to unite all Jews.
Everyone is welcome here.
While we don't agree on all issues, we seek to create an open environment of Torah study, prayer and worship. We seek to spread light in an era of darkness.
Anything that disrupts our environment or causes discomfort to our members is discouraged. We are a small group and need to stay united.
We are a community with wide-ranging political views.
Therefore, we kindly ask you to REFRAIN FROM WEARING ANY POLITICAL REGALIA (from any viewpoint) as we have heard concerns from some of our members.
The unity of our community is paramount. Providing a sanctuary for our members to pray with feeling and dedication and without distraction outweighs every other consideration.
Please support us in this effort.
Following please find my article that appeared in the Jewish Journal and speaks for itself.
Welcome to our SANCTUARY!
(Please check the politics at the door.)
AKA: Is G-d a Democrat or Republican?
By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort
The epicenter of any synagogue is obviously the sanctuary. It is the focal point. It is the reason the building exists. It may not be the only thing that attracts and serves the congregation, but it is the genesis of everything that occurs on campus. This is true regardless of the philosophy of the given synagogue.
The synagogue is primarily meant to be a place where the community congregates to jointly communicate with the Almighty. We ask our G-d for our personal and communal needs, spiritual and physical.
There are wonderful ‘fringe benefits’ of coming to the synagogue; most profoundly, the coalescing of a community with shared beliefs, moral and ethical codes, and cultural influences. Indeed, the synagogue serves as the primary location of Jewish community building.
The United States, called by the Lubavitcher Rebbe, of blessed memory, the nation of kindness, recognizes the critical role played by the synagogue and therefore designated it as a non-profit organization, which means that donations made to support the synagogue are tax-deductible. This is very different from the designation of political organizations, where the money donated is not tax-deductible.
This distinction is both telling and critically important.
If Judaism brings us together, politics, by its very nature, is extremely divisive. Allow me to illustrate my point.
Presumably everybody wants to decrease poverty. However, there are sharp disagreements on how best to eradicate it. Some will say if someone is hungry, “give him a fish,” while others will say, “teach him how to fish.” In both cases the donor wants to alleviate the hunger of the recipient, they just have different philosophies of how to achieve their laudable goal.
These sharp differences of opinions can bring out less-than-praiseworthy behaviors, as these debates sometimes devolve into name-calling and vilifying one’s antagonist. That is not to say that political discussions and debates are not worthwhile, in fact they are critical to a healthy democracy. But, like everything else, there is a time and place for them.
The appropriate time for political debate or even political discourse is NOT in the sanctuary of one’s local synagogue, and certainly not during services. Too many people have equated their personal political outlook as being synonymous with morality. Because someone may disagree with their analysis or ideas, they call the person all sorts of horrid names and accuse the person of all sorts of terrible motives, like racism, homophobia, lack of patriotism etc. They have made their politics into their religion, and this is harmful.
Is G-d a Democrat or a Republican? Yes. There are philosophical elements that are foundational to both the Democratic and Republican Parties, which come directly from the Torah. This country is about evenly split between the ‘liberal’ and the ‘conservative’ outlook. What this means is that when politics are discussed, from the Bima for example, about half of those in attendance feel alienated.
Does anyone come to the synagogue to learn what his/her political philosophy should be? I would bet that not a single person comes to shul to be taught about politics. As an aside, I find it ironic that those who profess to be the most tolerant are often times the most judgmental and intolerant of dissenting opinions.
That is why you will not experience a political sermon in a Chabad synagogue. The Rebbe emphasized time and again what our job is (and what it isn’t). Our job is not to teach politics, even if we mean well. Our job is to build bridges with our fellow Jews, to help nurture the latent holiness in every member of our people. We don’t guilt trip. Ever. Positive reinforcement is the order of the day.
In the sanctuary, when engaging in conversation with others, we should be emphasizing our commonalities and encouraging devotion to G-d, to the Jewish people, to the Land of Israel, and to the Torah of Israel. How many of our people need to be turned off to Judaism before we learn this lesson?! In this case intent does not matter, only the outcome. Did the conversation bring the other person closer to Judaism? If yes, it was worthwhile. If not...
It is time we take back our sanctuaries making them into actual sanctuaries! A place of community-building, a place where our beautiful Jewish family can come together in fellowship and love.
SHABBOS THIS WEEK
This Shabbos we will be welcoming an extraordinary group of students from the Chabad Hebrew Academy! These young scholars are some of the children of the Shluchim / Shluchos (the Chabad Rabbis and Rebbetzins) of S. Diego County. And what a special group they are! Please give the kids, and their devoted counselors, a warm, Chabad at La Costa welcome!
VOLUNTEERS NEEDED THIS SUNDAY!
This Sunday beginning at 10am we will have our annual Purim Packing Party! Our community sends out a beautiful Shalach Manos, gift basket and we need help putting them together.
Are YOU available?
In appreciation of your help we will have some delicious Pizza to enjoy. Please get in touch asap if you can help.
We still need a couple of volunteers who are available on Friday afternoon (after 2pm or so) to help deliver soup and Challah. If you can help, please respond. Thank you in advance!
Men’s Club THIS Sunday @ 2pm
All the men out there are invited to join us for a spirited discussion about Torah topics and other subjects as they come up. Refreshments will be served. Please let us know if you are coming.
JLI COURSE - ‘DECODING THE TALMUD’ Continues...
REGISTER NOW www.chabadatlacosta.com/jli
This course is being offered in-person, on Facebook LIVE, and on Zoom.
‘DECODING THE TALMUD’ LESSON FIVE
How the sages shaped its structure and substance.
Meet the pivotal sages in the Talmud’s story—from Rav and Shmuel’s first academies to Rav Ashi and Ravina’s final text—and see how they wove in stories as well as ethical and philosophical teachings.
Lesson One covered an overview of the various component parts of the Talmud, an explanation of the Jewish fixation on studying law, the differences between secular law and Jewish law (known as Halachah), and an analysis of how the act of studying Torah, and particularly Talmud, binds created beings with their Creator in the most profound way possible.
Lesson Two covered the Mishnah, the earliest part of the Talmud, which is comprised of six ‘orders’, and was compiled by the great Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi. We learned why he committed the teachings of the ‘Oral Torah’ to writing, what his gargantuan task accomplished, and why we are taught that the power of Mishnah study uplifts our souls and our surroundings. All of this and more will be covered.
Lesson Three, will commence on Tuesday from 7pm – 8:30pm, and cover the Gemarah. The Gemarah is the second part of the Talmud (the first/earliest part is the Mishnah), and is an in-depth analysis of the Mishnah. It represents how the Sages studied, debated, and ultimately understood the concise laws found in the Mishnah. In other words, it is a record of the discussions undertaken by the Sages. It is a unique work in history where the student is given insight into the thinking of the Sages. In this case, we learn the minds of our Sages from fifteen to twenty CENTURIES ago!
Lesson Four, will commence on Tuesday from 7pm – 8:30pm, and cover the Rabbis who put together the Gemarah, and delve into how they actually went about achieving their monumental task. Historical context will also be explained.
Lesson Five, titled, “How the Talmud Thinks,” will commence on Tuesday from 7pm – 8:30pm, and cover the novel mental approach and skill sets necessary for Talmudic study. For instance, one must learn to ‘halt kup’ (Yiddish for being able to remember the premises of a debate even while the Gemarah meanders among and through different subjects). We will further examine the different approaches of the Jerusalem and Babylonian Talmud and come to understand that progressing through the process of learning a Sugya (section of the Talmud) is likened to making one’s way through a dark tunnel until he/she comes to the light at the end. The process of learning the various opinions sharpens one’s understanding of the subject matter. This is going to be very powerful stuff!
To get a better idea of what’s coming check out this link: www.MyJLI.com/Talmud.
The class will be offered in person at the shul, on Facebook Live (must be ‘friends’ with Yeruchem Eilfort), and on Zoom (Zoom link follows).
Topic: Coastal Chabads' Zoom Meeting
Time: Feb 11, 2025 07:00 PM Pacific Time (US and Canada)
Join Zoom Meeting
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83543794736?pwd=dqNaxegMisv9nzaGbqpBAPVdiaKX0H.1
Meeting ID: 835 4379 4736
Passcode: Chabad
Call for discount codes & scholarship information.
Register at Chabadatlacosta.com/JLI or w ww .myJLI.com/learn/Carlsbad
Weekly Torah Class with Rabbi Sholom
Join Rabbi Sholom Eilfort, virtually, as he gives a weekly class in the Torah Portion. You can view the class on Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort’s Facebook feed (must be Facebook “Friends” with Rabbi Eilfort to be able to see the class).
A number of commentaries are curated to make the class profound while also covering the basics. Everyone is invited to join. There is no cost to participate.
Thursdays at 6pm.
Thank you to those who have already made their Membership commitment and those who have made a monthly financial commitment to your community!
Membership information can be found here: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership .
NO SCHOOL THIS PAST WEEK
Hebrew School News – HEBREW IMMERSION!
We started a curriculum where we will go through all of the Alef Bet and learn about something that we are grateful for, starting with the letter of the week.
The first week was א אור . Alef for Ohr- light. And we made lanterns.
The second week was ב בית. Bet for Bayit- house and we made Birchat Habayit to hang in our homes.
Then we learned about Geshem- rain and made rain in a bottle!
We talked about Dibbur for daled - Language.
We are up to Hey for Horim - Parents. We made cards for out Ema and Abba.
Vav focused on infants - Valad and how we have grown.
Chanukah is here!
Zayin for Zemer - music/song. We sang Karaoke
Chet for Chaver - Friend. We skateboarded with Yaakov.
Tet for Taam - Taste and Reason. We learned the Brachot for food.
Yud for Yom Tov - Holiday and Yad - Hand
Chof for Kochavim - Stars We made stars and sand art.
Lamed for Lechem - Bread We made focaccia art!
Tu BeShvat!
The children have also begun alef champ which is a self paced Hebrew reading program.
I am so proud of all of our ckids students and parents ❤
Kiddush Sponsor – SPONSORS SOUGHT
This week’s Kiddush is being sponsored by Jon and Julie Rozansky in memory of Sidney Rozansky.
It is also being sponsored by Bernardo and Rosalba Buenaventura in honor of Emily who is being deployed to Germany in the service of our country. May the Almighty watch over her!
It is also being sponsored by Arnold Tubis in memory of his late wife Charlotte.
It is also being sponsored by Sheila Lebovitz in memory of Sylvia and William Lebovitz, and David Steelman.
Sparkling Kiddush Wine
Rebbetzin’s ‘Home-Baked’ Challah
Gefilte Fish – Just like mom used to make
Garden Green Salad
Spinach Strawberry Salad – Tasty and Refreshing
Channah’s Special Egg Salad
Roasted Veggies - Bursting with Flavor
Pasta – Preferred by Children of All Ages.
Guacamole & Chips ala Kayla
Salsa – Muy Caliente
Chicken Fingers – Secret Special Recipe
Cholent – Thick and Hearty
Fresh Fruit – Deserving of a smack
Chocolate Chip Cookies – Fresh baked and oozing with goodness
Grammy’s Beautiful Brownies
Halva – Steve’s fave.
ADDITIONAL SPONSORS ARE WELCOME.
Each Shabbos after services, our beautiful community enjoys Shabbos lunch together. It is a true celebration where we bask in each other’s company while savoring delicious food.
YOU ARE INVITED AND ENCOURAGED TO PARTICIPATE
We are always seeking additional sponsors, so if you can sponsor a Kiddush, please let us know.
An Important Note about Kiddushes –
The policy of the shul is to allow multiple sponsors for every Kiddush unless it is a Bar/Bat Mitzvah or something similar (like a 50th wedding anniversary etc.).
There is no such thing as an exclusive Kiddush sponsor.
This is our policy for numerous reasons, not least of which is the fact that Kiddush sponsorships help generate much-needed income for our community and encourages more people to participate.
We thank you for your support and understanding!
Soup & Challah Sponsors
Soup and Challah is being sponsored by Clive Walden & the estate of Channah Hale.
NEED MORE DRIVERS, Thank you Sharna Skjei and Christine Clancy and Leesa Glaser for volunteering.
Challah is delivered to Mental Health Residential Centers in the area, people undergoing chemotherapy, and people who really love the addition to their Shabbos experience.
Deliver and get a bag of challah for your family as well!
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RABBI'S WEEKLY ARTICLE
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Rabbi's Thoughts and Haftarah Overview
Who Am I to Judge?
By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort
The pain of our people is immeasurable. The Jewish people have been victimized throughout history, and it is my belief that this victimization has left a mark. Perhaps it has affected our DNA? It has certainly affected our national consciousness. No nation on earth is more keenly aware of human suffering than ours. No people on G-d’s green earth is more devoted to alleviating the suffering of human beings. This makes me very proud.
On the other hand, we do not suffer from ‘Perpetual Victimhood Mentality,’ which is why our people are such incredible overachievers. We are creative, industrious, smart, wise, all while being empathetic and sympathetic to those around us who need help. We are doers, inspired by Judaism, which is the ultimate in action-based approaches to life. Judaism has always and will always place a premium on action. We are compelled to proactively intervene and make the world a better place through our engagement.
When we stop to consider what our brothers and sisters in Israel experienced on October 7th, and during the time since then, it is a wonder that they can function at all. We have the cruelest of enemies who constantly calculate how to increase our pain, physical, emotional, and spiritual. The anti-Semitism is so deeply entrenched in their makeup that it defines their very existence. They pursue their anti-Semitic goals even to their own destruction.
The ’civilized’ world demands Israel make concessions to the savages, that Israel engage in ‘diplomacy’ to bring peace. It is so ironic that those who seek peace are the ones blamed for not doing enough to achieve peace, all while the enemies teach their children to hate Jews from the moment they are born. The academics justify the brutes’ blood-thirsty aims by blaming Israel and the Jews for every ill in the haters’ lives. Perhaps they had diaper rash as a baby? The governments that are supposed to represent their best interests enrich themselves and overflow with corruption. No where, in the Middle East, do non-Jews enjoy even basic civil rights, except in Israel. It’s all Israel’s fault for having a successful, democratic Jewish state.
Didn’t you know? Jews are not supposed to be able to defend ourselves or have a Jewish state?
And therefore, the world howls ‘ceasefire’ after Israel got the upper hand and started to bring the much-deserved destruction to those who had inflicted such agony on innocent babies, women, and men, young and old. The legacy news media continues to feed the false narrative of Palestinian victimhood at the hands of Israel, for their own nefarious reasons. Are they getting paid off? Or maybe they suffer from such profound moral confusion that they truly cannot discern who is the victim and who is the guilty party in this conflict? Or maybe they have been threatened and are afraid? What is certain is that they have debased themselves in their obscene duplicity, hypocrisy, and downright calumny!
This is not the first time that we have seen this evil. It has happened in every single conflict Israel has had inflicted upon her since her founding in 1948, and really, well before that too. The Jewish people and the Jewish state are accused of doing precisely what the anti-Semites actually do to us. The enemy knows that the world will react in the way it does. It is precisely this reaction that incentivizes the enemy to refuse peace and seek Israel’s utter destruction, G-d forbid.
Sadly, many of our brothers and sisters have come to believe the false narrative and lies. They fail to learn from history or about history. They are blinded, perhaps by their overwhelming desire for peace, “at any cost.” Maybe they are blinded to some inner guilt. It’s hard to watch infinite levels of Jewish success in such proximity to complete failure. Incidentally, Jewish control of Israel is the least imperialistic/colonial project in all of history. Yet, that is precisely what it is being defined as in the ‘holy’ halls of academia and the UN.
Just because the lies have been promulgated doesn’t mean that we should buy into them! When darkness fills a room there is a tried-and-true method of transforming it, of dissipating it. And that is bringing light. The light of truth disperses the lies and false narratives.
Speaking the truth may not be sufficient. Our enemies are screaming very loudly. Have you heard of their anger/hate-driven rallies on university campuses? They have their catchy rhymes and their powerful bullhorns to drown out dissenting voices. They scream and threaten universities attempting to have them shut down pro-Israel speakers, and despicably, the universities cave in to the threats. This is due to their lack of moral courage and/or laziness.
Taken together, this well-financed and organized movement of anti-Semitism can be intimidating. Ironically, it is starting to seem that some of the financing for the anti-Israel movement is coming from the American taxpayer (oh, how I pray that it is not so!) It can scare people into keeping their heads down and hiding themselves and their opinions. Parents sending their precious children to the poisoned schools certainly counsel their kids to keep quiet and just focus on their studies. Well, the anti-Semites have infiltrated the curriculum as well with their jaundiced and false ‘ethnic studies’ requirements.
We are on defense, all of the time, it seems.
I have been thinking a lot about this for a long time, well before October 7th, 2023.
We must be proactive if we are going to win this existential war. We must take the proverbial fight to the enemy, and we must fight to win. We must fight this war on many levels, from the classrooms where the lies are first taught to the quads of the universities, to the streets of America, and to the battlefields of the Middle East.
We cannot afford to be reactive anymore. We need a full-court press to win! Half-measures are not enough. More committees and commissions will not suffice. This issue is urgent. We must ACT now! Full-throated, unapologetic, TRUTH is what we need! And, if necessary, force, in protecting ourselves.
I cannot and will not judge the victims of October 7th, even those who feel Israel should release hundreds and thousands of murderers from jail to save the poor hostages, alive and dead. The pain of their families is immeasurable. The pain of our nation is immeasurable.
My concern is that these releases incentivize further hostage taking and embolden our enemies. It certainly seems to give them ‘political’ victories. I must wonder if there is another way to gain their release.
Let us resolve not to judge each other, but rather to foster unity and brotherhood between us. We must stand strongly behind Israel, giving her whatever support, financial, moral, and spiritual, that we can muster.
We must always remember who the villains are and focus on their defeat. We cannot afford any more in-fighting. We cannot allow ourselves to become distracted by constantly searching for failures, real and imagined.
No. We must focus on victory and take the necessary steps to reach it, bending all of the power of our minds and hands to achieve total victory! Let us not settle for less.
Am Yisroel Chai!
Shabbos Parshas Terumah Haftorah
I Kings 5:26-6:13.
This week's haftorah describes the construction of the Holy Temple under the direction of King Solomon, echoing this week's Torah portion which discusses the construction of the Desert Tabernacle.
The haftorah discusses the manpower — both Jewish and non-Jewish — that Solomon recruited for the building of the Holy Temple. Also discussed are the hewing and transportation of the stone, the laying of the foundation, as well as the dimensions of the Holy Temple, its components and materials.
The haftorah ends with G‑d's word to King Solomon: "This house which you are building, if you walk in My statutes, and execute My ordinances, and keep all My commandments to walk in them; then will I establish My word with you, which I spoke to David your father. And I will dwell among the children of Israel, and will not forsake My people, Israel."
Parshat Shekalim Haftorah
In connection with the holidays of Purim and Passover, our sages instituted that four special readings be read from the Torah on four different Shabbatot in addition to the regular Torah portions. When the special Parshat Shekalim is read, as is the case this week, we read a special haftorah instead of the above one.
II Kings 11:17-12:17.
The Parshat Shekalim Torah reading discusses the annual obligation for every Jew to give half a shekel to the Temple coffers. The haftorah discusses the efforts of King Jehoash (9th century BCE) to earmark these communal funds for the upkeep of the first Holy Temple.
Background for this haftorah: Because of an alliance with the Northern Kingdom of Israel, idol worship had become rampant in the erstwhile righteous Davidic dynasty-controlled Southern Kingdom. When the king of the Southern Kingdom, Ahaziah, was killed, his mother Athaliah murdered the remainder of the royal family and seized the throne. During her brief reign, she actively promoted idolatry. Unbeknownst to her, one of Ahaziah's sons, a small baby, was hidden and survived. When he became seven years of age, Jehoiada the High Priest led a successful revolt against Athaliah, and installed the child king, Jehoash, as the new King of Judea.
The haftorah begins with the new king renewing the people's covenant with G‑d. They destroyed all the pagan altars and statues and appointed officers to oversee the Holy Temple. Jehoash then instructed the priests regarding all the funds that were donated to the Temple. According to his plan, all the funds would be appropriated by the priests. In return, the priests would pay for the regular maintenance of the Temple. In the 23rd year of Jehoash's reign, the priests neglected to properly maintain the Temple. Jehoash then ordered that all monies should be placed in a special box that was placed near the Temple altar, and these funds were given directly to the workers and craftsmen who maintained the Temple.
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SPECIAL WISHES
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Condolences | Birthdays | Anniversaries | Yarzeits
PLEASE CHECK YOUR CALENDAR FOR BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, AND YARZEITS AS WELL AS OTHER IMPORTANT DATES AND NEWS
HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Joe Markowitz, Steve Rivkin, and all those celebrating their birthdays this week!
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to to all of those celebrating anniversaries this week!
WE REMEMBER Feige Seigal, Sylvia Lebovitz, William Lebovitz, Ephraim Lieberman, Shirley Lerner, Howard Pomerantz, Gittel Sprung, David Steelman, Jo Nost, Max Weksler, Baruch Bomba, Charlotte Tubis, Vladimir Galperin, Elsie Schulman, Sidney Rozansky, George Schulman, Barrie Joel Stier, and all of those whose Yarzeit is observed this week.
May Doreen Prager, Rachel Perez, Clive Walden, Sheila Lebovitz, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom, Rachel bas Shoshana, Roz Mintz, Sandra Sapol, Penny Chapman, Marissa Sacco, Greg Leon, and Shari Ferguson be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!
Kiddush Sponsors:
We need Kiddush sponsors for the upcoming Kiddushes. Please contact the shul as soon as possible if you want to sponsor a Kiddush.
March 8: Ilyse Loven
March 22: Miriam Reisman in memory of Jacob Reisman obm
KIDDUSH SPONSORS NEEDED
Sponsoring a Kiddush is a great way to feel part of the Chabad at La Costa family!
(You can co-sponsor a Kiddush)
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FUNDRAISING & VOLUNTEERING
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Giving & Helping Opportunities
Security Guard Sponsor Sought – Can You Help?
We have a wonderful security guard who keeps a watch over us while we are in services. The cost is $250 per week. We are looking for a sponsor this week and future weeks. If you are able to help please donate securely by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/donate. Thank you!
How to Make a Donation (or Payment)
We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!
There are many ways to donate besides checks and cash. Following, please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account (even though they say Nechama's name).
1. PayPal [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort
2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort
3. Cashapp $nechamae
4. Zelle (Bank of America) [email protected]
5. Personal credit card chabadatlacosta.com/donate
6. Join our Legacy Circle - see below
Volunteering
Our Soup and Challah Project has been going on its FOURTH year! It was sponsored by Channah Hale and now carried on in her memory.
We are at the point that we need NEW volunteers to drive and deliver food packages around the area.
Please consider making this a part of your Friday routine. Volunteers pick up a few containers of soup and bags of challah at 3:00pm and delivering them to the door of the recipients. Volunteers also get soup and challah!
Enhanced Security
Our number one priority is to ensure the safety and security of our shul family. We have a robust security system in place. We have gone to the added expense of hiring a uniformed, armed guard, who is with us, watching over us, in addition to our internal security team.
The added layer of security is expensive. Please help us by donating to the security of our shul community by following this link: www.chabadatlacosta.com/donate. The cost is approximately $300 per week. All donations are tax-deductible.
New Mitzvah Opportunity
Bikur Cholim of SD Volunteers Needed! Message me if you would like me to share the spreadsheet for visitation hours.
There are a number of patients at UCSD La Jolla that have come from Israel to receive transplants here. They need our help!
Bikur Cholim of S Diego is a community organization helping the sick with care packages, visitation, driving spouses to and from the hospital, etc.
If you are able to give a few hours of your time, it will make another person's day that much better!
To get involved, sign up at www.BikurCholimSD.com
The Foundation Project - City Approved Plan
We are raising funds that will be used towards completing our basement. This project will include a TEEN LOUNGE, CLASSROOMS, a LIBRARY, OFFICES, STORAGE SPACE, BATHROOMS, and more. Call Rabbi to inquire about available dedications. The money we raise also goes towards scholarships for Hebrew School students, our Challah and Chicken Soup program, and all of our ongoing expenses.
New Dedications available www.chabadatlacosta.com/JLC
Create Your Jewish Legacy Plan for the Future - Now
We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.
We can help.
Chabad has partnered with the Jewish Community Foundation in the creation of our Legacy Circle "Generation to Generation - Ensuring a Jewish Tomorrow, Today". Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!
Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want.
Send a personal email to [email protected] to schedule an appointment today.
We honor our Legacy Circle Members*:
Joel Barnett
Angela Chapman
Beverly Galperin
Anonymous 1
Channah Hale
Len Hyman
Devorah Katz
Sheila Lebovitz
Ilyse Loven
David Markoff
Anonymous 2
Karen Miller
Ed Richard
Steve & Linda Rivkin
Ira Schechtel
Sharon Silverstein
Steve and Cindy Marion Walker
Anonymous 3
*Has provided Chabad with a Declaration of Intent.
Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information
Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available
Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family, the second Board was dedicated by the Alter Family, and the new Board has been dedicated by Miriam Reisman in memory of her husband, Harold.
We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit in the newsletter and in the calendar and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit. The donation is only $500 per Memorial Board plaque.
We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is $180 for a leaf on the Tree of Life.
Those who wish to participate should send an email to [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.
We are excited to designate a section of our Tree of Life to our Legacy Circle. Watch the Tree and see article above.
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CHABAD VIRTUAL & IN PERSON Classes
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We have an ever-expanding menu of online learning opportunities for everyone. Below please find an overview of our current classes and a schedule of when you can join in on Facebook Live. If you miss the live class you can watch the recorded version, on Facebook.
JLI Course - this series of courses requires registration...
Coastal Gan - GROWING AGAIN!
We are looking for NEW STUDENTS and NEW STAFF
We are accepting infant and preschool age children.
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A COMMUNITY FOR YOU AND ME
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Coastal Chabads are here for YOU
COMMUNITY NEWS
Kosher Food Options in SD:
Ralph's La Jolla - a full service Kosher market, bakery, and deli, dairy (CY) also available. Store Hours 5am to 1am. Counter hours 9-5 (Fridays 9-2)
8657 Villa La Jolla Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037
858-597-1550
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego and RCC
Harissa - Mediterranean Cuisine (used to be Botanic Burger) Sun 10:30am-5:30pm Mon-Thurs 10:30am-8pm
4126 Executive Dr, La Jolla, CA 92037 (in the JCC)
858-362-1353
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego
Parisien Gourmandises - Dairy items NOT CY Pareve items are acceptable, some CY items available M-Th 9am-5:30pm
7643 Girard Ave, La Jolla, CA 92037 (inside Floral Palette La Jolla)
858-352-6552
KSA Kosher
Spice at the Oceanview cafeteria UCSD - Spice station is a international themed restaurant, located within the Oceanview Terrace at UCSD. Hrs?
9500 Gilman Drive 0512, Thurgood Marshall College, La Jolla, CA 92037
(858) 822-1677
Star-K
Hamitbach - Israeli street food S-Th 11am-7pm F 11am-3pm
5664 Mission Center Rd #402, San Diego, CA 92108
Vaad HaRabbonim of San Diego
La Mesa Pizzaworks - Classic & Unique Pizzas. Ice cream Sun-Thurs 11am-8pm Fri 11am-2pm
Saturdays Closed (check out our social media and website for special Saturday Nights that we will be open)
Dine in and takeout
Lamesapizzaworks.com
7406 University ave, La Mesa, CA 91942
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.
Boker Kitchen - Coffee, Breakfast, Pasta, Pizza S-Th 9am-8pm F 9am-3pm
8935 Towne Centre Dr, San Diego, CA 92122
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel, Cholov Yisroel.
K-Dogs - Kosher hot dog stand
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Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Pas Yisroel, Bishul Yisroel
Meats and Eats - Shopping for kosher meat, and poultry, mostly frozen goods. Packaged groceries and baked goods. M-Th 9am -7pm
12925 El Camino Real J-0, San Diego, CA 92130
(760) 756-7437
Vaad HaRabanim of San Diego Check packages for Kosher status.
Mega Glatt Mart - Large variety of meat and groceries. Hours S-Th 9-6 Fr 9-3
6375 El Cajon Blvd suite F San Diego, CA 92115
(310) 663-6528
Prepackaged items under RCC Check packages for Kosher status.
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Security Protocols
Everyone is Subject to Search
No Firearms (We have a well-defined security plan in effect and any unauthorized firearms could create confusion and actually reduce security).
Backpacks Prohibited
All Bags Subject to Search
Need a Minyan?
If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email [email protected] your request.
Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy
Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience Davening (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.
Membership
NOW is the time to join the family! Membership includes High Holiday seats and discounts on other programs and activities. However, the main reason to join is to demonstrate your commitment to the future of Judaism in our area and to our community.
If you have already filled out and returned your Membership form please accept this message as our sincere thank you!
We urge you to pick the level of Membership and the financial commitment you feel comfortable with, and to fill out the form that you will find by following this link: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com/membership. We thank all of our amazing donors!
Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more.
The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here!
*Daily Minyan *Shabbat Services *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon *Mysticism Classes *Torah Portion Class *Hebrew School *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training *Mommy and Me *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner *Women’s Group *Youth Activities *Pastoral Counseling *Holiday Programming *Community Meals *Hospital Visitation *Weekly Email Updates *Hospital Visitation *Mezuzah Campaign *Jewish Heritage Workshops *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *Jewish Encinitas *Chabad of Carlsbad N *Coastal Gan Preschool *Ckids Hebrew School
Shul Etiquette
Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.
At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.
It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.
Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.
We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!
Cell Phones & Chatting During Services
Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.
Critical Maintenance Issue – Your Cooperation Needed
PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.
THANK YOU for your cooperation!
Public Service Announcement – Let’s Work TOGETHER to Maintain OUR Shul
We have a beautiful shul. Everyone agrees. It is not easy to maintain everything, but we work hard to keep things clean and in good working order. We need your help.
Our sanctuary is graced with gorgeous, custom made, stained glass windows. These windows MUST be kept in pristine condition. Please respect the windows by only looking and never touching them. G-d forbid, they can easily be scratched if we are not careful. Also, please do not put ANY objects (cups, books, tissues etc.) on the window sills as it detracts from the windows.
Our custom-built furniture from Israel is as precious as it looks. People have put down cups (full and empty) on the partitions and the shelves. This is inappropriate. Children cannot sit on or climb on the furnishings – other than sitting in the pews as they were designed to be used. No exceptions.
Please put away your own Talis and prayer books, and replace the book racks when done using them. Please throw away your own garbage.
If we can all work together we will keep our shul beautiful!
THANK YOU for your understanding and cooperation.
Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests
We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the Chabad code when booking.
More than 600 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.
For discount details, to make your reservation, or to share the information with a friend, visit www.chabadatlacosta.com/omni and click through. And remember to leave a positive review.
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