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On Monday we marked the yahrtzeit of Rebbetzin Chaya Mushka Schneerson, wife of the Rebbe, of righteous memory. Go to your favorite Jewish bookstore and look for a biography of this special woman. You’ll be hard-pressed to find one. A few pamphlets with some stories shared by those who knew her are the extent of what you’ll find, if you are lucky.
And we are left with a legacy short on details but rich in inspiration. Like the Rebbetzin, we can make sure that whatever we do will be with humility and simplicity. |
As daughter of a world-famous Jewish leader, and wife of a man who has been called the most influential Jew in modern times, she could easily have taken center stage. Yet she chose to remain behind the scenes, quietly living a life of modesty, dignity and devotion.| Volume 17 Number 21, 25th of Shevat 5776, February 4th '16 | |
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Chabad Weekly Update - SPECIAL EDITION HUGE Week Ahead of Us Including Shabbaton, Art, Wine, & Cheese, and New JLI Course! See Full Details Below
This week’s Kiddush is part of our Scholar-in-Residence Shabbaton and is in honor of Rabbi and Rebbetzin Mendel and Rochel Duchman. It is also in honor of the engagement of Chava Eilfort to Ben Klipper (see more below)! Everyone is invited to join us for this beautiful weekly gathering!
Mazel Tov! We are thrilled to announce the engagement of our own Chava Eilfort to Benyomin (Ben) Klipper of Florida! May they merit to build a Jewish home upon the foundation of Torah and Mitzvot! Further information will follow in the near future, but Rabbi and Rebbetzin Eilfort are asking all of our friends to join us this Shabbos to say a LeChaim in honor of this joyful occasion! Kiddush Sponsorship If you have not sponsored a Kiddush for a while and/or if you have a birthday, anniversary, or perhaps a Yarzeit you wish to mark, please respond to this message. Kiddush sponsorship begins at $180. Scholar in Residence Shabbaton THIS Week – New & Exciting Programming Notes
This Shabbos promises to be an enriching experience for all in attendance, as it has something for everyone! Guest Speakers Scholar in Residence: Rabbi Mendel Duchman is considered one of the outstanding motivational speakers and coaches of our generation and is renowned for his warmth, sense of humor, and dynamic energy. Rabbi Duchman will be giving several talks over the course of Shabbat including “Infusing Our Children with Enthusiasm and Making Them Leaders!”, “How Being a Practicing Jew Can Make One into a Better Business Person,” and “Stories to Warm Your Soul.” JUST ADDED! Fine Wine Tasting & Talk: Mr. Joseph Zakon, founder of Josef Zakon Wineries will be joining us for the weekend. During our Friday Night Dinner we will have the opportunity to sample some of the fine, award winning wines for which Mr. Zakon has become famous throughout the Jewish world. Mr. Zakon will discuss wine pairings and tell us tidbits and some ‘insider information’ about the Kosher wine industry. NOT TO BE MISSED! “The Joys of Jewish Motherhood”: Rebbetzin Rochel Duchman has successfully raised a family of inspired and inspirational Jewish leaders. On Shabbat afternoon she will be sharing some of her incredible secrets of success that she learned from her parents – world renown leaders in the Jewish community (Rebetzin Chava Hecht, may she live and be well, and Rabbi JJ Hecht, of blessed memory) – and from her own experiences. Full Children’s Program: We have a full program of fun and educational activities for the children throughout Shabbat and Saturday Night. The bottom line is the kids will love this experience as much as their parents! Gourmet Food Throughout: Friday night we will be serving food worthy of the finest Italian Festa including Antipasti, Minestrone Soup, Chicken Cacciatore, Pasta with Marinara Sauce, Tiramisu, and Biscotti. Shabbat Luncheon will include Shnitzel, Cholent with Kishka, Salads, and Desserts. Sunday Brunch will include an assortment of Cheese, Bagels, Lox, Cream Cheese, Fresh Fruit, Leben and more. SPECTACULAR ACCOMODATIONS: The World Famous Omni La Costa Resort and Spa has offered a special “Friends of Chabad” rate. Simply follow this link to book your room in Paradise for this amazing deal: http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad. The resort offers first class accommodations in beautiful surroundings and is located directly adjacent to the Chabad Center where all meals and activities are scheduled. This opportunity offers both elegance and convenience. Super Bowl Party: A Super Bowl Party of EPIC PROPORTIONS will be the climax of the weekend’s activities. The party begins on Sunday at 3pm and will feature an all-you-can-eat barbecue bonanza and the big game on a big screen. Everyone is invited! JUST ADDED - World Class Cantorial Soloists: Shabbat services will be led by not one but two world class cantorial soloists (Chazanim); Rabbi Dovi Gorelik and Rabbi Sholom Rabin! The prayers will be beautiful to listen to and inspiring to participate in as these angelic voices help our spirits to soar! Costs: Some generous donors have stepped forward to help subsidize this program, which allows us to offer unbeatable prices. For those who will not be staying at the hotel and only want to join us for the meals Friday night, Sunday morning, and Sunday afternoon they can pay on a per meal basis ($18 per adult and $10 per child). There is no charge for the Kiddush Luncheon on Saturday or for the light meal on Saturday night. However, if you would like to join us PLEASE respond to this message IMMEDIATELY.
Drink creatively! Erica Wolfsen is a talented teacher who can release YOUR inner artist. Don't have an inner artist? Come enjoy friends and foods while getting messy. $36 includes an array of Kosher wines and Chalav Yisroel cheeses. Monday, February 8th at 7pm RSVP 760 943 8891
Upcoming JLI Course:
“The Jewish Course of Why” Begins THIS Week! Chabad at La Costa is a proud part of the world-wide Jewish Learning Institute (JLI), which has become known as the preeminent Jewish Adult Education provider. There are hundreds of JLI chapters around the world, all of which study the same course at the same time. The next scheduled six-part course, “The Jewish Course of Why,” is particularly intriguing as it will answer some of the most important practical questions regarding Judaism. Some of the questions included are: “Why are there no more miracles of Biblical proportions?” “Why doesn’t G-d respond to my requests?” “Why is slavery sanctioned in the Torah?” Why do we place pebbles on a headstone?” “Why are Jews singled out for persecution?” And everyone’s favorite, “Why do we say Mazel Tov and L’Chaim?” This promises to be a fun and dynamic learning experience with rational insights into the most intriguing aspects of Judaism. This is everyone’s opportunity to expand his/her Jewish knowledge in an open and safe environment where questions and discussions are not only tolerated, they are encouraged! “The Jewish Course of Why” begins Tuesday, February 9th at 7pm and continues for six Tuesdays. The cost to attend is $100, which includes the text book. However, if two sign up together the total is $150 including the two books. To take advantage of this saving both must sign up at the same time. For further information log onto www.myjli.com, or visit our website; www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. A Thought from the Rabbi This week we read Parshat ‘Mishpatim’, which means Judgments. The great classical commentator Rashi points out the beginning of our portion starts with the Hebrew letter “Vav,” (And) which indicates that the contents of this portion are directly connected and even a continuation of last week’s reading. Last week we read the 10 Commandments; the single most important series of passages in the entire Torah and the basis of our way of life as Jews. This week’s portion is dramatically different. In Mishpatim we learn many laws that can be described as the ‘nitty gritty’ of our system. Certainly they seem, on the surface, like they are a far cry from the vaunted heights reached in the narrative of the 10 Commandments. Minute details in the most disparate of subject matters are covered, as opposed to the soaring over-arching concepts we encountered last week. The Hebrew letter ‘Vav’ actually means ‘hook’ in English as it connects words and concepts. In fact, the holy Baal Shem Tov, taught that the first letter of the Hebrew Alphabet, the Alef, is comprised of of a Yud (representing G-d) on top, a Yud (representing the Jewish people) on bottom, and the Vav (representing the Divine Commandments) connecting them. Similarly, last week’s lofty concepts are connected with this week’s ‘nitty gritty,’ as both portions are essentially to being Jewish. How often do we hear well-meaning people speak about the lofty overarching concepts found within Judaism while neglecting the details of our day-to-day existence? This portion tells us that the Almighty is also found in the details. If we want and are looking we can encounter the Creator while doing business or building our homes. We can bring G-d into our lives and thereby the world through our actions. In fact, if we are motivated we can experience G-d whenever and wherever we look! Weekly Class Schedule Shabbat: During Mincha – ‘The Joys of Jewish Motherhood’ with Rebbetzin Duchman Monday: Caffeine for the Soul – A Class for Women @ Target, Encinitas – 12pm Monday: Paint, Wine & Cheese – 7pm Tuesday: JLI – The Jewish Course of Why – 7pm Wednesday: Torah Portion of the Week – 7:30pm. Special Wishes MAZEL TOV to the Eilfort and Klipper Families upon the engagement of Chava to Ben! HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Alissa French, Jakey French, Amey Brown, Nathan Brown, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week! HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week! We remember Hal Weksler, Sylvia Lebovitz, Willian Lebovitz, Max Weksler, David Steelman, and all of those marking a Yarzeit this week. May Naomi Alter, Roz Mintz and Mel Bridge be blessed with a full and complete recovery! ### Hebrew School
Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Our students want to be here! Need a Minyan? If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email [email protected] your request. Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family. We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yahrzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yahrzeit. We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that will shortly be going up. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.). The donation is only $360 per plaque for either the Memorial Board or the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891. Cell Phones & Chatting During Services Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation. Shul Etiquette Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family. At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul. It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like. Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services. We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here! Please Patronize Our Sponsors Your Chabad Real Estate Agent & Mortgage Broker Jonathan Rozansky is a licensed realtor and mortgage professional. Whether you are Selling, Buying or Refinancing your home, do not proceed without calling Jonathan Rozansky first. Jonathan will look out for your best interest and can answer all your real estate and financing questions. Call for a free market analysis report today. Jonathan Rozansky Direct (619) 392-1234 DRE. # 01754457 NMLS ID : 315987 Ron Lewis Insurance Services 760.525.5769 / [email protected] Specializing in Medicare Supplements, Long-term care (LTC) plans, Individual health plans, Dental, and Term life insurance. Need health or life insurance or know someone who does? 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Kiddush this Shabbos 
Paint, Wine, & Cheese Rosh Chodesh Event for Everyone Scheduled
