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Weekly Update for the 15th of Tevet 5777, January 13th '17

Thursday, 12 January, 2017 - 11:57 pm

 

Message from the Rabbi
 

Three Jewish mothers sitting on a park bench in Miami Beach are discussing (what else?) how much their sons love them.

Sadie says, "You know the Chagall painting hanging in my living room? My son, Arnold, bought that for me for my 75th birthday. What a good boy he is; see how much he loves his mother!"

"You call that love?"Minnie chimed in. "You know the Cadillac I just got for Mother's Day?That's from my son Bernie. What a doll."

"That's nothing," exclaims Shirley. "You know my son Stanley? He sees a psychoanalyst on Park Avenue, five sessions a week. And what does he talk about? Me!"

The most famous parental blessing is found in this week’s Torah portion: “…May G‑d bless you to be like Ephraim and Menashe.” Jacob proclaims that this shall be the paradigm of blessing for all future generations—“With your names (his grandchildren Ephraim and Menashe) shall all of Israel be blessed.”

One cannot help but wonder why Jacob chose to connect the most famous Jewish blessing with the names of his grandchildren, rather than his children, the twelve tribes of Israel.

But Jacob, the great prophet and patriarch of the Jewish people,was able to foresee all the future generations including ours. He envisioned a challenging time like ours when role models would be scarce and the forces of assimilation and secularism would run rampant.

Addressing the challenge of our generation, Jacob encourages parents to bless their children: “May G‑d bless you to be like Ephraim and Menashe.” You must bless them to be like my own grandchildren, Ephraim and Menashe, who, unlike their parents and grand parents before them, grew up in the land of Egypt, exposed to a very foreign culture. Despite this and despite never seeing their Jewish family until much later in life, they still managed to grow up faithful to their family’s values and lifestyle!

Because of the similarities between his grandchildren and the children of our generation, Jacob encourages the parents of our generation to bless their children to follow the example of Ephraim and Menashe specifically,rather than any of the other famous biblical heroes. Over 3,000 years ago,Grandpa Jacob was preparing to comfort our generation with the knowledge that despite our colossal challenges, our children can still be just like Ephraim and Menashe who successfully continued their tradition in Egypt and against all odds.

  Volume 18 Number 15, 15th of Tevet 5777, January 13th '17

Chabad Weekly Update

 

 

 

Kiddush Sponsor

Kiddush CupThis week’s Kiddush is in honor of the Yarzeit of our "Green Maven", Stewart Miller, and is sponsored by Len Hyman, Steve and Linda Rivkin, Jon and Julie Rozansky, and Michael Spinner.

Everyone is invited to join us for this beautiful weekly gathering!

Kiddush Sponsorship

If you have not sponsored a Kiddush for a while and/or if you have a birthday, anniversary, or perhaps a Yarzeit you wish to mark, please respond to this message.

Kiddush sponsorship begins at $180.

PLEASE BE SURE TO JOIN US AND PLEASE INVITE YOUR FRIENDS!

Rabbi & Nechama are Walking the Land

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Check our Facebook Page to see pictures of the wonderful time that Rabbi and Nechama are having in Israel. We have been to some serious sites (Bet She'an, where the first King of Israel was killed) and some not so serious sites (Gan Garoo, an Australian zoo) up north and are heading into the Holy City of Jerusalem.There are FOUR Holy Cities in Israel, we've been to two so far...   

Haftarah Thought

By: Gabbai Harold Reisman

 VAYECHI:  Kings I 2:1-12

The parish deals with the end of Yaakov's life. He gave each son - in essence the future tribes of Israel - a special blessing. Each received a message relating to a specific strength. The haftarah discusses the final days of King David. The king knew his end was near and wanted to give critical instructions to his son, Solomon. Yaakov was the father of the nation; David was the father of his dynasty. Each wanted success and longevity for coming generations. Both events serve as the basis for the concept of parents preparing an ethical will for descendants.

Southern- Style Friday Night Dinner & Community Board Games

gamestack1.jpgThis month’s Family Friday Night Dinner and Game Night will take place on Friday, January 27th, which is also Rosh Chodesh Shevat. We will have a beautiful Friday Night Dinner together featuring the most scrumptious Southern-Style menu featuring Fried Chicken with all the fixings. Candle lighting is at 4:59pm, followed by a word of Torah by the Rabbi and a family-friendly Friday night service. Dinner will be served at 6pm. Following dinner we will have board games available to play together. The cost to attend is $18 per adult and $10 per child – not to exceed $54 per family. Reservations are necessary to attend by sending an email to [email protected] or by calling 760-943-8891.

Please note that we will have a special Shabbat Rosh Chodesh Kiddush on Saturday, January 28th.

A Comm-Unity for You and Me

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check out www.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more.  

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here!

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate

Weekly Class Schedule

Daily Following Morning Services – Jewish Law with the Rabbi

Daily Following Morning Services – Tanya – Chabad Chasidic Philosophy with Rabbi Elia

Shabbat: During Mincha – Women’s Issues with the Rebbetzin

Tuesday: Chasidic Philosophy – 7:30pm

Wednesday: Portion of the Week – 7:30pm


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Hebrew School This Week

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism.  Our students want to be here!

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Mommy & Me

Children learn through play. In a fun group for moms and their babies (ages newborn – 3 years) we encourage your children to discover and explore through interactive and hands-on activities. Let them learn to love our Jewish Heritage. 

Special Wishes

HAPPY BIRTHDAY to all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

We remember Stewart Miller, and all of those who have a Yarzeit this week.

May Fran Sekela, Roz Mintz and Mel Bridge be blessed with a full and complete recovery!

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Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email [email protected] your request.

Minyan Shaping Up

We are most proud to announce that our morning Minyan is looking good! In fact, we got a Minyan every day this week. The success is a direct result of the increase in our core group of committed participants. A daily Minyan is a very important service provided by a shul to its local community. Praying with a Minyan is considered a great Mitzvah as it helps our prayers effectiveness (ask the Rabbi for a more complete explanation). It also allows those who need to say Kaddish to do so properly.

We are facing a challenge, as in the coming weeks a couple of our regulars will be out of town (going to Yeshiva programs). We need a couple of more people to step forward and fill this gap to make sure we do not lose momentum. Can you make a commitment to our daily Minyan?

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

La Costa logo.jpgWe are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

To date more than 400 people have used the Chabad code this year (2016)! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that will shortly be going up. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $360 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

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