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Chabad Weekly Update 5th of Shevat 5777, Feb. 1 '17

Wednesday, 1 February, 2017 - 10:44 pm

Message from the Rabbi
 

A young girl walked to and from school daily. Although the weather one morning was questionable, with dark clouds beginning to form, she set out as usual.

As the day progressed, the winds whipped up, and thunder and lightning began. The young girl's mother was concerned that her daughter might be afraid to walk home through the storm, so she quickly jumped into her car and drove towards the school.

Along the way she saw her little girl walking along looking anything but scared. Each time lightening lit the sky, the child looked up and smiled. After watching her repeat this behavior several times, the mother rolled down the window, and beckoned to her child. While the daughter buckled her seatbelt, the mother asked, "What were you doing? "

The child answered: "G‑d just keeps taking pictures of me!"

Even the infamous Pharaoh of Egypt well understood that the future of the Jewish nation depends upon the children. That is why even after considerable pressure and many plagues, he finally allowed some of the Jews to leave, but only the seniors. He categorically refused to release the children, because he knew that without them there would be no future. You can’t build a nation with the “old geezers” alone. Hence, Moses immediately dismissed the offer, saying, “With our children and with our elders shall we go!”

I once came across a novel interpretation of this verse:

Instead of the literal translation, “with our children and elders,” a more accurate translation would be, “through our children and elders.” Now we can understand that Moses was actually informing Pharaoh not just “who” he was planning to take along, but also “how” a small nation of Jews managed to survive the lengthy Egyptian persecution, and in who's merit were they able to leave against all odds. It was only “through” the youth and the younger generation.

The secret to Jewish survival is our youth. Only through the children will we strengthen our future and ensure our continuity into the next generation and beyond. Filling our synagogues with seniors and the older generation is wonderful and important, but our future ultimately depends on the youth showing up and actively participating in the community.

So, the next time you attend a service or community event, check out how many young people and children are in attendance. That should give you a good indication of the community's future. And if, G‑d forbid, you find that the younger generation is not well represented, quickly put to action the message of this week’s Torah portion, a message that both Moses and Pharaoh agreed upon: The future of Judaism is dependent on our youth. With whom will we go? With our children!

  Volume 18 Number 18, 5th of Shevat 5777, Feb. 1 '17

Chabad Weekly Update - Community Friday Night Special

 

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Everyone is invited to join us for this beautiful weekly gathering!

Kiddush Sponsorship

If you have not sponsored a Kiddush for a while and/or if you have a birthday, anniversary, or perhaps a Yarzeit you wish to mark, please respond to this message.

Kiddush sponsorship begins at $180.

PLEASE BE SURE TO JOIN US AND PLEASE INVITE YOUR FRIENDS!

Friday Night Services, Community Dinner, and Games THIS Week

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This week will be another wonderful Friday Night Community Service, Meal, and Game Night! Please respond immediately if your family will be joining our family for a meaningful and delicious evening of great food, fun, and spirituality! Candle lighting will take place at 5pm.

The cost to attend is $18 per person (children 3-12 are $10).

MAZEL TOV! It’s a Boy!

Bris Announcement

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We are excited to announce the birth of a healthy baby boy to Jeremy and Rina Rivkin! Steve and Linda Rivkin are the extremely proud and happy grandparents and are thrilled to share this great news with our whole community.

Please note that while we do not formally invite people to a Bris (since it is such a huge Mitzvah, if one would be formally invited he/she would be Halachically obligated to attend), we are informing the entire community of the details of the Bris – so that community members will attend.

The Bris will, please G-d, take place on Wednesday, February 8th at 11:30am at Steve and Linda’s home; 23781 Via Compadres, Murrieta, CA. At the guard house use the name ‘Rivkin’ to be granted entry. We will also have a carpool from the shul leaving at 10am. If you would like a ride to the event please respond as soon as possible to this message.  

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Haftarah Thought

By: Gabbai Harold Reisman

Both the Parashah and the Haftorah speak of the downfall of Egypt. The Parashah tells of the last series of plagues. The Haftorah speaks of the defeat and humiliation of another later pharaoh at the hands of Babylon. The defeat of the Egyptians by Babylon was connected to the appearance of corpses in the Sea of Reeds. This is a clear reference to the past disaster after Moses led the people through the sea walls. Improper dependence of Israel on human forces (or international treaties) is the historic and eternal message of the Haftorah.

Weekly Class Schedule

Daily Following Morning Services – Jewish Law with the Rabbi

Daily Following Morning Services – Tanya – Chabad Chasidic Philosophy with Rabbi Elia

Tuesday: JLI Talmud Interactive – Ethical Conundrums. 7pm

Wednesday: Portion of the Week – 7:30pm

Hebrew School This Week

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Mommy & Me

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Special Wishes

MAZEL TOV wishes are extended to the Rivkin family upon the birth of a baby boy!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Aviva Alter, Alissa French, Kaley French, David Rivkin, James Brown, and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

May Fran Sekela and Roz Mintz be blessed with a full and complete recovery!

We Remember Bruce Fisch, Evelyn Zone, and all of those who have a Yarzeit this week.

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A Comm-Unity for You (and Me)

Belonging to a Jewish Community is not only gratifying and fulfilling it is also extremely important, for within the community one finds a place to connect with G-d and one’s soul, a place of learning and spiritual enrichment, a great source of friends, a place to bestow one’s Jewish legacy upon his or her child/ren, and so much more. Check outwww.ChabadatLaCosta.com to learn more. 

The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here!

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate

Need a Minyan?

If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email [email protected] your request.

Minyan Shaping Up

We are most proud to announce that our morning Minyan is looking good! In fact, we got a Minyan every day this week. The success is a direct result of the increase in our core group of committed participants. A daily Minyan is a very important service provided by a shul to its local community. Praying with a Minyan is considered a great Mitzvah as it helps our prayers effectiveness (ask the Rabbi for a more complete explanation). It also allows those who need to say Kaddish to do so properly.

We are facing a challenge, as in the coming weeks a couple of our regulars will be out of town (going to Yeshiva programs). We need a couple of more people to step forward and fill this gap to make sure we do not lose momentum. Can you make a commitment to our daily Minyan?

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Omni La Costa Resort Welcomes Chabad at La Costa Guests

We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website: www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

To date more than 400 people have used the Chabad code this year (2016)! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that will shortly be going up. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $360 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to[email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

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