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Volume 21 Number 41 Tammuz 25, 5780 | July 17, 2020

Friday, 17 July, 2020 - 4:33 pm

 

Chabad Weekly Update

Volume 21 Number 41 Tammuz 25, 5780 | July 17, 2020
 
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MESSAGE FROM THE RABBI
 

When the Jewish people left Egypt their goal was to arrive at the Promised Land, and although it took them 40 years longer than intended, through all the ups and downs that always remained their destination.

In this week’s Torah portion, the 42 stops they made in the desert are referred to as part of their exit journey. Although they physically left Egypt only once, until they actually stepped foot in the Promised Land, they hadn’t completely left. Each segment of the journey was another step in shedding Egypt and its effects.

Our lives today mimic this same process, as we each leave our own personal “Egypts,” our limitations, to overcome the challenges of life. We continue to keep our eye on the goal of arriving in the Promised Land, with the coming of Moshiach, may it be speedily our days!

Shabbat shalom!

SHABBOS NEWS
NO Services - Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Pausing Until Next Week

No Services this Week

Coronavirus is Spiking so We are Pausing Until Next Week

The shul IS NOT open for services this Shabbos due to the spike in coronavirus cases. We will, G-d willing, reopen as soon as it is deemed safe.  

Weekly Sermon Friday @ 5pm on Facebook Live

Join Rabbi Eilfort this afternoon at 5pm as he gives his weekly sermon as a Facebook Live event. If you have not already done so, please send Rabbi Eilfort (Yeruchem Eilfort) a Friend Request on Facebook!

Special Shabbos

This is a special Shabbos in that we bless the upcoming month of Menachem Av, the saddest month of the Jewish year. It is therefore a time of special opportunity. Let us embrace the joyousness of Shabbos and infuse the upcoming month with it so that we can transform a sad month into a time of happiness! It is also Shabbos Chazak, as we complete reading the Book of Numbers. Chazak means strength. May we all glean the needed strength from this Shabbos to finally and completely overcome all of the many tests.

Easy Fundraising Opportunity

First, let us take this opportunity to thank all of those who have had Facebook Birthday Fundraisers for Chabad at La Costa! I cannot tell you how much Nechama & I appreciate it! The money we have received through these fundraisers has helped our shul continue with programming, delivering soup and challah as well as other activities. 

Do you have a birthday coming up? We would be honored if you would consider making our shul the recipient of your birthday fundraiser.  Wouldn’t it be wonderful to celebrate your birthday and do a wonderful Mitzvah at the same time? Thank you for your consideration and Happy Birthday!  

Chicken Soup, Challah Available

Those who live near Chabad at La Costa are welcome to let us know if you want some delicious Challah and/or Chicken Soup delivered to you on Friday to help you celebrate Shabbat in the most delicious way possible.

Please note that all food is prepared and delivered using recommended safeguards.

Sponsors Appreciated (And Needed)

These are extraordinary times. Many people are reaching out for help and, Baruch Hashem / thank G-d, we are HERE to help! ‘We’ means YOU and US, TOGETHER. It is an amazing partnership that we have!

We are extremely grateful to those who have reached out to help fund us, enabling us to serve others.

We would like to specifically acknowledge at this time:

Channah Hale for her generous sponsorship of the Challos.

Miriam Reisman for her sponsorship of the soup.

Moira Markowitz who is co-sponsoring in honor of her father’s Yarzeit; Chaim ben Mattisyahu

We are seeking additional sponsors for the following dedications:

Next week’s Loaves of Love.

Next week’s Chicken soup.

Next week’s Torah classes.

Ways to Give

We would be nowhere without the generous support of our community. Please know that your support is profoundly appreciated!

There are many ways to donate besides for checks and cash. Following please find a list of the various other ‘platforms’ that are available for secure donations that go directly and entirely into the synagogue account.

1. PayPal  [email protected] or PayPal.me/Neilfort

2. Venmo @Nechama-Eilfort

3. Cashapp $nechamae

4. Zelle (Bank of America)  [email protected]

5. Personal credit card  chabadatlacosta.com/donate

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A Word of Torah

Living with the Times

Parshiot Matot – Maasay (Tribes and Travels)

By: Rabbi Yeruchem Eilfort

This week we read a double portion of Matot – Maasay, which translates as Tribes and Travels. The first portion begins by mentioning the Tribes of Israel. The second portion recounts the forty-two encampments of the Children of Israel during their forty-year sojourn in the desert; from the time they left Egypt until the time they were poised to enter the Holy Land.

When the Torah refers to the 12 Tribes it sometimes uses the Hebrew word ‘Shevatim’ and occasionally uses the word ‘Matot’. The singular form of each word is Shayvet and Matah.

The Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson of righteous memory, asks, “What is the difference between the words and what does this difference teach us?”

Each word not only means ‘tribe’ but it also means ‘branch’. The connection between a tribe and a branch is fairly obvious, as tribes are disparate parts that come from the same source just as branches are. But we find that there are different types of branches; one kind is when the branch is still attached to the tree and/or still has the sap within it, and the other is when it is separate from the tree and the sap has dried out. In the first instance the branch is still supple while in the second instant it has become rigid.

The word Matot, in our portion, is the latter type of branch. It represents the idea that the branch has been separated from the tree and a rigidity has set in. This, at first glance, seems to have a negative connotation when discussing the Jewish people. Emphasizing the fact that they were separated from the Tree (in the metaphor G-d is the Source that we are alluding to) does not seem to be a positive. Intimating that the inner sap has dried and the branch has become rigid also does not seem very positive. This means that the presence of the sap is less discernable, or in the analogue the life-giving sap which emanates from the Almighty, meaning the life force of the Jew, has largely dried up.

But in fact, the Rebbe explains, there can also be a positive to be gleaned from this.

The Matah is much less likely to bend than the Shayvet. Sometimes rigidity is a positive attribute. The Jewish people are described as an ‘Am kishei oref,’ a stiff necked people. That means that we can be very stubborn. While stubbornness can often be considered a serious character flaw there are times when it can be a great character trait. For instance, when one’s neighbors worship idols or embrace some other evil action, and even put pressure on the Jew to engage in such activity, stubbornly clinging to Jewish ethics is a virtue.

We can now understand the connection of these two portions. The (unbending) Tribes of Israel would embark on numerous travels during their forty years in the desert. During that time they would be faced with numerous challenges, hardships, and negative influences. There is no doubt that sometimes the best approach is a ‘bend but do not break’ attitude. There are also times, however, when we must remain rigidly opposed and refuse to compromise our morals. Sometimes, as Jews, we must proactively reject the evil that we see. Often this will be an unpopular position. Nonetheless, we must rigidly and stubbornly reject evil, even popular evil.

It is precisely this approach that enabled our people to navigate the difficulties of the desert and overcome the challenges of inhabiting the Holy Land. It is this approach that will enable us to successfully navigate the harsh tests currently facing our community and nation!    

Wishing everyone an uplifting, joyous, and HEALTHY Shabbos!

Haftarah Thought

By: Miriam Reisman in Loving Memory of Harold Reisman on his First Yarzeit

It was my husbands custom on Shabbat and on Jewish holidays during the many years of our  membership with this  wonderful Chabad community to comment on the  Haftarah or prophetic  portion connected to the Torah reading of that day.  Harold Reisman, z”l, left this world after a brief illness, exactly one year ago on the 26th of Tammuz, Saturdays date on the Hebrew calendar. That date is Harolds first Yartzeit. In loving memory of his beautiful, outstanding and meaningful life, and because of my love for him and devotion to him, I will attempt to make my own brief commentary today.

 

This is Shabbat Mevarchim, the Shabbat preceding the new months arrival and the day on which we bless it. That new month is Av. It is a month of sadness as we remember the destruction of both the First and Second Holy Temples in Jerusalem.

 

The current three-week period is one of somber remembrance of that tragic time before Tisha BAv, the ninth day of Av. It is a time of sorrow as we recall that loss. Two Torah portions are read on this Shabbat: Matot and Massei. They deal with the preparation of the Israelites for a joyous entry into the Promised Land. The Haftarot for these two Torah portions, along with a third Haftarah deal with the judgement and suffering to come. In the following weeks there are seven more Haftarot that express redemption and give comfort. These culminate with the arrival of the Jewish New Year. The Haftarot for each of the Torah portions read this Shabbat were written by the prophet, Jeremiah, a prophet who lived during a time of Jewish assimilation into a foreign way of life. Jeremiah warns the Israelites against that, and of its association with sins that will lead to the loss of the Holy Land they so anxiously awaited to enter.

 

Massei is the final Torah reading in the book of Bamidbar. Its literal translation is in the desert” but it is known to us as Numbers.” It contains rules, regulations and a holiness code given to the Israelites during their years of wandering in the desert as they prepared for settlement in the Holy Land.

 

This Shabbat is also known as Shabbat Chazzak, meaning strength.” As the Torah reading is completed, the congregation rises and responds with the words, Chazzak, chazzak Venit’chazzek,” “Let us go from strength to even greater strength,” as is done at the completion of the reading of each book of the Torah. We are now preparing to read the fifth and final book of the Torah, Devarim. Its literal meaning is words.” These words refer to the laws in Deuteronomy in which laws already given in previous books of the Torah are reiterated.

 

In our present days of pandemic we are aware of rules and regulations. They are laws to follow. It has been a very difficult time during these last few months. The past year has been beyond difficult. The tragic loss of my beloved husband Harold, his sister Beatrice, Batya, bat Yaakov Yehudah, zl, my youngest brother, David, Baruch David ben Yoseph Meyer Hakohen, zl, after a very long illness, my cousin Judah Schwartz, Yehudah Leib, ben Yitzak, zl, who died from Covid-19 and my many friends who died during this past year, has been terrible. I pray for the health of my three remaining siblings who are suffering varying degrees of illness. I wish Vivian, Aviva Tzela bat Esther Bayla, Charles, Avraham Bezalel, ben Esther Beyla and Cherie, Shulamit Batya bat Esther Beyla each a Refuah Shelemah.

 

May the memory of Harold, Zvi Dov ben Yaakov Yehudah, zl, be for a blessing and may his Neshama have an Aliyah. May he, from his place in the Olam Ha’emet, be a source of strength for me, for my children, Jocelyn, Yosepha Zehavah bat Zvi Dov, her husband, Dan Baruch ben Ephraim and Joseph, Yoseph Meyer ben Zvi Dov, his wife, Sara, Shulamit Batya bat Yoel and for all of their incredible offspring who follow.

 

May we all heed the words of Jeremiah. May we live long and healthy lives always mindful of our Jewish beliefs and of our Jewish identities.

 

 

SPECIAL WISHES
 

OUR HEARTFELT CONDOLENCES are extended to the families of the victims of the coronavirus! We pray for the day when the Almighty will remove death and suffering from humanity. May it come speedily in our day!

SPEEDY RECOVERY wishes are extended to all of those who are suffering from the coronavirus. May you be granted a complete and speedy recovery! 

HAPPY BIRTHDAY wishes go out to Monica Jellinek, Armand Rack and all of those celebrating their birthdays this week!

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY wishes go out to  all of those celebrating their anniversaries this week!

WE REMEMBER  Erin Webb, Harold Reisman, Perry Feder, Ruth Weill, Marian Beck, Max Infeld, Dvoyra Driker, Paul Gordon, Matilda Litman, Joseph Levin, Max Hyman, Cantor Olkenitzky, and all of those who have Yarzeit this week.

May Channah Hale, Sheila Lebovitz, Camille Stern, Rhonda Bloom, Adam Lemberger, Sandy Radom and Roz Mintz be blessed with a speedy and complete recovery!

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If you cannot get the classes online please email us at  [email protected] and we will work out a different arrangement.

Rabbi Eilfort Published Weekly by the San Diego Jewish World

Our own Rabbi Eilfort is submitting weekly columns on the Torah Portion of the Week and other subjects, which are published by the San Diego Jewish World ( www.SDJewishWorld.com).

Rabbi Eilfort always enjoy hearing feedback about his articles, so please don’t be shy!

Please check the shul’s Facebook page for information on live broadcasts.  

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The beauty of OUR Jewish Community is that we offer so many different options that everyone is sure to find something enriching and meaningful. Below please find a partial list of some of our current offerings. If you have never come by before pick an item or two and try it out. If you have already tried an item or two find another one that sounds interesting and give it a whirl. “Connection” – that is the name of the game and that is precisely what you will find here! 

*Daily Minyan   *Shabbat Services   *Weekly Kiddush Luncheon   *Mysticism Classes   *Torah Portion Class   *Hebrew School   *Bar/Bat Mitzvah Training   *Mommy and Me   *Family Friday Night Services and Dinner   *Women’s Group   *Youth Activities   *Pastoral Counseling   *Holiday Programming   *Community Meals   *Hospital Visitation   *Weekly Email Updates   *Hospital Visitation   *Mezuzah Campaign   *Jewish Heritage Workshops   *Jewish Learning Institute Affiliate *www.JewishEncinitas.com *Chabad of Carlsbad N

 

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If you need a Minyan to say Kaddish please give the office at least a few days’ notice. We are happy to provide this important service, but it takes time to arrange enough participants to assure the quorum is present. Please email  [email protected] your request.

Shabbat Services with Meaning & Joy

Every Saturday we get together to celebrate the holy Shabbat in song and prayer. Our services are both traditional and user-friendly, as we fully recognize that not everyone has experience ‘Davening’ (praying) in a traditional setting. What those who have joined have found is that the atmosphere in our synagogue is conducive to meaningful meditation. A knowledge of Hebrew is not necessary to participate. In fact, the only thing that is needed is the desire to learn and to connect to the Almighty. It is an enriching experience not to be missed! Shabbat services begin at 10am and conclude at approximately 12:30pm and are followed by a wonderful community lunch. There is no cost to attend and reservations are not needed.

Hebrew School & C-Kids

Give your children the Jewish education that they deserve! Our Sunday Hebrew School offers lots of hands-on activities and positive reinforcement. Students learn Hebrew language skills, Jewish living and observance, Jewish history, and so much more! We include arts & crafts, field trips, and holiday programming to make their experience even more enjoyable. Your child will have fun as he or she gains an appreciation for the ‘why’s and ‘how’s of Judaism. Currently Distance Learning with Zoom! Our students want to be here!

Please contact our Hebrew School Director, Morah Chaya Eilfort for info at   [email protected].

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We are pleased that our world-famous neighbor, the Omni La Costa Resort, has extended a special program offering all sorts of perks to those who book using the ‘Chabad’ code when booking. The special terms include the lowest room rate available, a reduced resort fee of $15.00 (normally $28.00) and complimentary self-parking (savings of $18.00 per car per day).  The resort’s deposit requirement is waived for Chabad guests as well as the three-day cancellation policy.  Chadad guests may cancel until 6pm on the day of arrival to avoid a charge of one night’s room and tax.

To book your room at the special Chabad rate, call toll-free 800-854-5000 or book online at   http://www.omnihotels.com/hotels/san-diego-la-costa/meetings/chabad.  Or you can find more information or book through our website:   www.ChabadatLaCosta.com. Follow the link for Visitor Information.

More than 500 people use the Chabad code each year ! Many people have expressed gratitude at having such world-class facilities in such close and convenient proximity to our Shul, and the joy at being to stay at the Omni and walk to Chabad for Shabbat services.

 

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We have been blessed with life! Yet, we know that no one lives forever. This begs the question, “What will  your legacy be?” Most of us have children, and they certainly should figure prominently into our plans. But our children are only a part of what we leave behind. Just as we endeavor to give Tzedakah generously, so as to selflessly make the world a better place while we are alive, so too we need to make sure that we leave a percentage of our estates for the benefit of others. Judaism tells us that it is incumbent upon us to leave the world better than when we found it. We do this by giving Tzedakah.

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Many people do not prepare appropriately for the inevitable. They do not leave a will, or even if they do it is not consistent with Jewish Law. If one wants his body to be handled with the respect and care mandated by Jewish Law or if one wants the funeral service conducted according to Jewish Law, it must be arranged in advance. Don’t leave these critical details to luck!

Contact Rabbi Eilfort for a private appointment so these important matters can be handled how you want. Send a personal email to   [email protected] to schedule an appointment today. Click here for a Declaration of Intent and more information.

 

Memorial Plaques & Tree of Life Plaques Available

Our beautiful Memorial Boards have been installed. We specifically designed our custom-built bookcases to ‘frame’ each of the boards. The first Memorial Board was dedicated by the Brunelle Family and the new Board was dedicated by the Alter Family.

We are currently offering Memorial Plaques to those who wish to perpetually honor the memory of a loved one in a most dignified and permanent manner. Those who dedicate Memorial Plaques will also receive yearly reminders of the Yarzeit and the light on the Board will be illuminated each year on the Yarzeit.

We also have a gorgeous Tree of Life dedicated by the Lieberman Family that has been ‘growing’. The purpose of the plaques on the Tree of Life is to commemorate joyous occasions (like Bar/Bat Mitzvah, anniversaries, special birthdays, weddings etc.).

The donation is only $500 per plaque for the Memorial Board or $180 for the Tree of Life. Those who wish to participate should send an email to   [email protected], or call Rabbi Eilfort at 760-943-8891.

Shul Etiquette

Those who join us regularly for Shabbat services will agree that we have something very special going. The family-friendly atmosphere is unique and most inviting. We welcome everyone as though he/she is a long time member of the family.

At the same time it is important to remember that we are a synagogue. Our sanctuary is meant to be a place where it is conducive to finding inner peace and tranquility. That is why the Rabbis have many laws concerning the decorum of a shul.

It is appropriate to dress modestly and to dress somewhat formally in shul. Men should wear button down shirts, slacks (no jeans or shorts), with jackets and even ties when possible. Of course the head is to be kept covered at all times. Women should wear skirts that go past the knees and blouses with high neck lines and sleeves that cover the elbows. Married women should wear hats and the like.

Children must be supervised at all times by the parents except during Junior Congregation (11:30am). While we want the children to have a great time together it is also important that they do not become so wild and/or boisterous that they disturb those of us who are participating in the services.

We must remember that we should walk to shul and never park in the parking lot if there already eight cars parked. Finally, and we fully realize this goes against Jewish DNA, it is appropriate to come to shul ON TIME. While we know everyone is vying to be counted as the 10th, we are equally sure Hashem will give extra credit to those who come ON TIME at 10am (not to be confused with 11:30). We look forward to seeing you here!

Cell Phones & Chatting During Services

Needless to say the sanctuary on Shabbat or holidays is a place that must be conducive to reflective prayers and serenity. To help keep it this way, please refrain from engaging in any conversations during services and please do not bring in your cell phone. Thank you for your cooperation.

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PLEASE NOTE: The ONLY thing that may be flushed is toilet paper – NO EXCEPTIONS. This means tissue, baby wipes, paper towels, or any other product may NEVER be flushed, but instead must be disposed of in the provided trash receptacles.

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